Life is only suffering and misery

[Mr2005]

Not sure if it's trolls or just deluded people that benefit from the illusion of "helping" others.

What reason is there to stay but the latter which brings me to this

I'm surprised you're still here

Me too. How can nothing keep somebody here for two years? Something must be

 

[whatevs]

Why Woould that make anything different?

You think just because you can get D and s3x doesn't mean we want to live in this hellhole

Life is just BS. Totally uneasecary suffering inflicted upon innocent people.

Media is trying to brainwash people into thinking otherwise. That life is a gift etc. to make the big wheel keep spinning to make money .

Babies = Hard Cash

Of course that having an intimate relationship can change everything in your life for the better. That is obvious. Some people on here want to kill themselves over losing their significant other.

 

[FuneralCry]

@LeavingForever is there anything, anything that would make you think less pessimistically about life?

No, I do not believe so. There is nothing that would ever make me feel differently about life, being suicidal is who I am and I just prefer the sound of non existence. I see life as just being meaningless suffering. I see no point to living.

 

[Foresight]

If someone is checked out of this life they have a right to be checked out. This existence gives us many reasons to sign off completely, even from the fleeting feel good stuff. Obviously it would be nice to see LF feel okay sometimes, but if that doesn't happen it's understandable.

I personally think wanting a peaceful exit that is not available is a enough reason to be here.

 

[y0dha]

I don't think life is only suffering. You can have good time as well.
But if you're very sick, or have very bad trauma or mental illness, I think at this point life becomes only suffering and may not be worth living.

 

[Forever Dead]

@LeavingForever is there anything, anything that would make you think less pessimistically about life?

Absolutely nothing whatsoever.

 

[onlyanimalsaregood]

I agree with you. I am new here, I have been coming to ss daily for some time now and decide today to create an account. I always enjoy your comments, they are always very kind and you seem to me to be a very sweet person. I think that life is really very unfair. There are really good people who have no luck at all in life and only bad things happen to them. While there are people who only cheat, lie and deceive other but have a great life and are happy. I hate life.

 

[LastFlowers]

I'm surprised you're still here

Wtf are you on about dude?

 

[LastFlowers]

I think life is mostly misery for the majority of people.

You'd be surprised. A lot of the people you think are doing well probably aren't. I constantly hear average or well-to-do people with a laundry list of daily complaints and grievances even when we all live in a comfortable environment. That's why rage and complaining about others sell so well (mainstream news, pop culture). A lot of people are uneasy inside. A lot of people also try to recapture the magic of life through reproduction, which is a failing tactic.

Some people just complain because they're spoiled and used to others putting up with their whining, not because they have genuinely pressing reasons for any of it.
The people we think are doing well probably are overall, but given the chance, they would absolutely argue to the ends of the earth to convince you otherwise, when it's convenient.
Privilege is out of fashion, at least admitting to possessing it is, pity parties are all the rage, those with the most usually (somehow) have more to say and plentiful platforms to shout it from, so the public ironically becomes more aware of their "problems" because they have the ability to make themselves known, seen, and heard.

The whole hierarchy of needs lends itself to this strange phenomenon where the "well-to-do" people have issues that sound more complicated, more complex, but that's only because they had the luxury of surpassing all the more significant necessities on the lower levels of the pyramid.
Even in our dedication to entertainment we would rarely be willing to sit down and watch a film where an emaciated child whispers "I'm starving" over and over again. No, instead we binge on pieces of filth about teenage romances gone coco-loco or shows about rich folk taking the piss out of each other.
Fucked up priorities (but don't let them fool ya).

Not a pro life person but I think if she doesn't have a terminal illness she could try finding even small positive things about life, instead of dwelling in the negatives every day

Then why are you here?
If you believe that one must have a terminal illness in order to reject your advice..?

If I lose both my legs, should I gladly divert my eyes to the fucking butterfly landing on the stumps?

These are Facebook comment level platitudes you're handing out here.

 

[FuneralCry]

You would think if she wants nothing to do with life she wouldn't be here almost 9000 messages later?

I do want nothing to do with life, but as I have explained before, it is difficult to leave this world. I know I have written a lot of posts, a lot of them about the exact same thing, and I know that other people are tired of seeing me around here, but it is just a way to pass time. It does not help me or make me feel better, it just makes time go quicker. If it was easier to leave this world, I would already be gone.

 

[SpaceCadet]

You would think if she wants nothing to do with life she wouldn't be here almost 9000 messages later?

It's a personal choice, which shouldn't be rushed, people have the right to choose when they go, our members might spend days, months or years being part of SS, some may actually decide to ctb, for others life get better and they continue on. That's why there is a recovery subforum, you kind of encouraging suicide.

 

[Justnotme]

Жизнь постепенно ухудшалась для меня, и никакой надежды на передышку не было. В настоящее время я выгорел после серьезного трехдневного беспокойства и приступов паники, каждое крошечное движение, которое я делаю, кажется огромным усилием, я бегу на пустом месте, полностью истощенной физической и эмоциональной энергии. Все, что я делаю, в том числе думаю, происходит в замедленном темпе, и я проснулся в слезах после того, как мне удалось поспать 2 часа после нескольких дней бессонницы. Вот как это было в течение многих лет, страдая за страданием с очень малой передышкой. Что еще хуже, я очень чуткий, и я устал от всех страданий, происходящих в этом ужасном мире. Куда ни глянь, люди и животные страдают, я не могу видеть всю эту боль и отчаяние, физическую и эмоциональную жестокость и невообразимые страдания. Я не вижу никакой ценности в этом человеческом существовании. Я нахожусь в постоянном состоянии ангедонии. Я не испытываю ни интереса, ни удовольствия ни в чем, как будто я ходячий мертвец. Единственное, что приносит мне утешение, это сон, когда я могу это сделать, и мысли о моей смерти. Мое самоубийство неизбежно. Я знаю это с абсолютной уверенностью. Когда вы достигаете ямы абсолютной безнадежности и отчаяния, вы «просто знаете», что ctb — единственный оставшийся для вас вариант. Мне очень жаль, что ты чувствуешь то же самое. Только люди, прошедшие через этот ад, могут по-настоящему понять, на что это похоже. Объятия. Когда вы достигаете ямы абсолютной безнадежности и отчаяния, вы «просто знаете», что ctb — единственный оставшийся для вас вариант. Мне очень жаль, что ты чувствуешь то же самое. Только люди, прошедшие через этот ад, могут по-настоящему понять, на что это похоже. Объятия. Когда вы достигаете ямы абсолютной безнадежности и отчаяния, вы «просто знаете», что ctb — единственный оставшийся для вас вариант. Мне очень жаль, что ты чувствуешь то же самое. Только люди, прошедшие через этот ад, могут по-настоящему понять, на что это похоже. Объятия.

It's like I read it to myself... That's how I understand you. I also don't understand how such cruelty to poor animals and people can exist in the world. It's so horrible, it's driving me crazy.
I understand how much it hurts you. You're not alone. I'm so sorry..

 

[Coffeandamug]

Sorry but I will disagree with the title if I don't add some words; Life is only suffering and misery for some people. Everyone has problems and experiences pain, but to say everyone is miserable is a mistake. I am miserable for sure, but I have met and seen so many people who were just fine. It is a nice thought...that deep down everyone is as broken as I am. But that's not the case. Some people are just luckier, and that's that.

Can't edit my comment for some reason... Just would like to try to clarify some things; What I am saying is that not everyone is miserable. Sometimes counter intuitively; sick poor person might be far happier and mentaly stable than phisically healthy rich person. It is really difficult to say who might be "more miserable". There ins't such a thing as "more miserable". But there really are some people out there who are just doing fine. They have problems and experience pain, but they balanced most of the time, function well... all of these balanced indicators. Again; There ins't a scale. I'm not saying there is a number for miserableness. Pain, agony, ideals, suffering, escaping, coping... they are so,so complex and unique for everyone. Can't be mesured, even the though of mesuring this is absurd. The only thing that can be said, in my opinion, is that not everyone is dying inside. Many of us are (specially here), but not everyone is. Hence why it is so difficult for some people to understand why someone might be thinking of killing themselves.