Reincarnation is very likely in my opinion.
No doubt, I'd like to come back as a man, just without all the traumatic experiences and maybe some better opportunities.
Countless examples of it are available for everyone to do their own research. Lean about, read or listen to the Tibetan Book of the Dead. Some really interesting things in there.
Do your own research but I always liked this story of reincarnation. It's open to interpretation but I found it interesting and hard to debunk easily.
According to the book of the dead and the teachings of Buddhism, we do have a big say on what our next incarnation will be and even whether it happens all. We can even choose to spend eternity in hell or other places and times if we are not wise.
If all life is energy, and if energy cannot be created or destroyed but merely converted into a new form, then reincarnation sounds pretty likely to me.
But then so does any form or a God or an afterlife considering that pretty much everything in science points to intelligent design.
One of my favourite quotes is from Catholicism
" We're not human beings having a spiritual experience. We're spiritual beings having a human experience."
There's my two cents anyway