Lack of social media is a death sentence

[Rocinante]

Lack of social media in this age is a death sentence so I can forget about sex. I tried to make friends and they treated me weird due to lack of social media and my ugly appearance. I tried making normal conversation and I was disrespected and humiliated.

It's clear in my mind that some problems are extreme and crippling.

I only talk like this because I have experienced constant bullshit that I cannot (or any normal person) can put up with. It is unhealthy to enter abusive "friendships" where ppl expect u to submit to them.

My social status is zero now and I just wanted to reflect on what caused it (I'm 24) before I drink Nembutal and sleep forever.

It's too late to do what you say. Society is literally completely against me now
Real talk

 

[orca87]

Oh my gosh. Has it really come to that point? That's not my generation so i cannot relate. But is it really the case that its about social media?

Or looks? If it is looks, there is another thread on that that could be helpful.

And you serious about N? Do you have it in your hands?

 

[FuneralCry]

Social media really sounds so fake and toxic so therefore it's best avoided in my opinion. Humans really can be so unnecessarily cruel and it's awful how they treat others so badly, it's certainly for the best to be alone if one exists here. But I do envy you for having Nembutal, that sounds like the most ideal suicide method to me.

 

[Rational man]

Im sorry to hear about your pain. To be honest, i think social media isnt the real world. some people are just bizzare narcissistic deluded egocentric sociopaths ..Having said that, many member's on this site are so different and supporting. I guess its because we are telling our true painful story and we identify with this..probably why i and.so many.others are still here today!!.

 

[jerry545]

I think social media has really screwed us up. I've tried reaching out to people through social media in the attempt to make friends and it always fizzles out. The process is too impersonal or maybe I'm just not cut out for relationships irl or online.

 

[Hikikomori1]

Doesn't bother me i am happy not talking to people and just hanging out on forums like this and chatrooms and message boards with low activity that still give that 2000s internet feel. that i miss so much.

 

[TheSadStranger]

I don't have Instagram or Snapchat and that wasn't the nail in the coffin for me. Then again maybe things are different were you are from. I think ctb because of a lack of socials is a bit extreme, but it's your life. Not my monkeys not my circus. If anything I think social media has poisoned our generation, but regardless it's your and your decision. I just hope that you are of sound mind when you make your decision.

 

[Rocinante]

Or looks? If it is looks, there is another thread on that that could be helpful.

Yes. I need lefort 3 + bisaggital split osteotomy + chin widening genioplasty + infraorbital-malar implants with a saddle + drop-down supraorbital implants + brow bone/forehead augmentation + Canthoplasty + orbital decompression + lower eyelid retraction + ptosis repair + upper eyelid filler + Mandibular angle implants + full midface implants from eppley + stroma + leg lengthening surgery for 6 inches of height + phallosan for extra 2 inches of dick + clavicle widening + trenbolone and test + synthol

Ive detailed my hate for my looks before, and how they want me to rope

Looks are the main reason I want to CTB

Looks determine how you’re treated. From friendship and relationships to finding employment. Being ugly should be considered a disability. I deserve reimbursement for my genetics. Staring at pictures of models all day and comparing myself to them is tormenting. Looksmax.org makes me depressed...

sanctioned-suicide.net

Ive come to the conclusion no amount of "self improvement" will solve my problems. Surgery is the only absolute solution to my unattractiveness.

 

[Danielwc]

Fuck social media, it's totally irrelevant buddy. It's all bullshit. Never deal with it again and you will be no worse off. You think you do not have a place in this world because of how you act or look, think again. You are here now with us and we know exactly how you feel. Give it time, you can go anytime. Just at least sample some of the pleasures life has to offer. If you can't get the girls you want just pay and satisfy that ego trip. I did. Don't be a victim mate. Your 24, I wish I was 24 again. You have many options with what you can do with your life. Join the army, navy or air force. Get a trade. Try something, if you really don't want life then the option to go will still be there.

 

[nopride86]

I'm turning 30 soon. I had social media platforms when I was younger, but a couple of years ago I realized that I was just voicing my opinions and posting pictures of myself into a void. I wouldn't get likes except from bots anyway. So I quit.

I do feel out of the loop, I feel like employers now look for it while hiring, and a lot of jobs require knowledge of different platforms. It's like, if you don't exist online, you don't exist at all. And that's really damn sad. All of us have innate worth, I know that deep in my soul, and we deserve to be treated fairly. I'm so sorry it has come to this for you, my heart goes out to you today.

 

[kadjflakflajlk]

Yes. I need lefort 3 + bisaggital split osteotomy + chin widening genioplasty + infraorbital-malar implants with a saddle + drop-down supraorbital implants + brow bone/forehead augmentation + Canthoplasty + orbital decompression + lower eyelid retraction + ptosis repair + upper eyelid filler + Mandibular angle implants + full midface implants from eppley + stroma + leg lengthening surgery for 6 inches of height + phallosan for extra 2 inches of dick + clavicle widening + trenbolone and test + synthol

Ive detailed my hate for my looks before, and how they want me to rope

Looks are the main reason I want to CTB

Looks determine how you’re treated. From friendship and relationships to finding employment. Being ugly should be considered a disability. I deserve reimbursement for my genetics. Staring at pictures of models all day and comparing myself to them is tormenting. Looksmax.org makes me depressed...

sanctioned-suicide.net

Ive come to the conclusion no amount of "self improvement" will solve my problems. Surgery is the only absolute solution to my unattractiveness.

thats the craziest list ive ever read

 

[stermc]

I used to be really active on social media, especially instagram, but have been off of it for 3 or 4 months now, with no intentions to go back.
Man, social media is the worst thing in my opinion. Being "popular" in that shit or even making friends there is a complete waste of time (most of the times).
I have never seen so many shallow and empty people reunited in the same space. If people do not talk to you or something like that because you don't have any social media or because of your looks, honestly they do not even deserve to be your friends. Some people are not worth it.
Maybe you should try looking for relationships in different places.
Also, I am sorry you went through so much shit. I know it's not easy to deal with self hatred and dysphoria. I have been there and the only thing that actually helped me was to stop giving credit to stupid people and realizing I deserve better.
It's cliche, but it all starts by liking and mostly respecting your personality and character and then it's much easier to like your looks.

(and man, who are these people who think you are ugly?? you are hot, with all due respect)

 

[Rocinante]

Yes. I need lefort 3 + bisaggital split osteotomy + chin widening genioplasty + infraorbital-malar implants with a saddle + drop-down supraorbital implants + brow bone/forehead augmentation + Canthoplasty + orbital decompression + lower eyelid retraction + ptosis repair + upper eyelid filler + Mandibular angle implants + full midface implants from eppley + stroma + leg lengthening surgery for 6 inches of height + phallosan for extra 2 inches of dick + clavicle widening + trenbolone and test + synthol

Ive detailed my hate for my looks before, and how they want me to rope

Looks are the main reason I want to CTB

Looks determine how you’re treated. From friendship and relationships to finding employment. Being ugly should be considered a disability. I deserve reimbursement for my genetics. Staring at pictures of models all day and comparing myself to them is tormenting. Looksmax.org makes me depressed...

sanctioned-suicide.net

Ive come to the conclusion no amount of "self improvement" will solve my problems. Surgery is the only absolute solution to my unattractiveness.

Yep, I've decided to cover my phone cameras and mirrors. Whenever I get in the habit of photographing myself it becomes obsessive and I get much sadder with each photo

Fuck social media, it's totally irrelevant buddy. It's all bullshit. Never deal with it again and you will be no worse off. You think you do not have a place in this world because of how you act or look, think again. You are here now with us and we know exactly how you feel. Give it time, you can go anytime. Just at least sample some of the pleasures life has to offer. If you can't get the girls you want just pay and satisfy that ego trip. I did. Don't be a victim mate. Your 24, I wish I was 24 again. You have many options with what you can do with your life. Join the army, navy or air force. Get a trade. Try something, if you really don't want life then the option to go will still be there.

I used to be really active on social media, especially instagram, but have been off of it for 3 or 4 months now, with no intentions to go back.
Man, social media is the worst thing in my opinion. Being "popular" in that shit or even making friends there is a complete waste of time (most of the times).
I have never seen so many shallow and empty people reunited in the same space. If people do not talk to you or something like that because you don't have any social media or because of your looks, honestly they do not even deserve to be your friends. Some people are not worth it.

I have went and deleted all social media apps following this post, though I'll probably keep my profiles around. Not worth the stress. I won't measure my worth by online validation anymore.

(and man, who are these people who think you are ugly?? you are hot, with all due respect)

The guy in my profile picture isn't me, sadly. I wish I looked like that.

 

[stermc]

The guy in my profile picture isn't me, sadly. I wish I looked like that.

I know lol you are the guy on that other post, right? That you linked before. And if you are, you are way more handsome than the guy on your profile picture imo

 

[Rocinante]

I know lol you are the guy on that other post, right? That you linked before.

yes, that is me. I look like a Neanderthal, brutal.

you are way more handsome than the guy on your profile picture imo

I wish

 

[ForeverLonely82]

I honestly believe social media makes depression worse. You're seeing people have fun, live it up and be happy (Even though it could be fake, but I'd rather have something fun happen even if it was "fake"). SM causes people to be in their head too much and you can write and write, no one responds...it's like a echo chamber..the only person you'll hear is yourself. Oh, and good luck with hive minded people that if your opinion differs from their you get lambasted with replies of hateful proportions. Not allowed to have your own opinion anymore without backlash. I hate SM, the world was better without it. I truly believe it created "Karens" and "Kens". People claim it allows us to be connected, but in the end is that really a good thing? I remember calling people on the phone and they were happy to hear from me. You don't get that anymore you get a feeling "oh, it's you again" now. God I hate this timeline.

 

[stermc]

yes, that is me. I look like a Neanderthal, brutal.

I wish

Beauty is relative and subjective. In my opinion, you are really handsome, but none of this has to do with other people's opinions. People usually hate themselves and etc because they believe people think they are ugly, when the real problem is their opinion about their own selves. I know thousands of women who would fall for a guy who looks like you, but the real issue is the way you see yourself.

 

[Rocinante]

I honestly believe social media makes depression worse. You're seeing people have fun, live it up and be happy (Even though it could be fake, but I'd rather have something fun happen even if it was "fake").

I will never be able to compete with their lives

SM causes people to be in their head too much and you can write and write, no one responds...it's like an echo chamber..the only person you'll hear is yourself. Oh, and good luck with hive minded people that if your opinion differs from their you get lambasted with replies of hateful proportions. Not allowed to have your own opinion anymore without backlash. I hate SM, the world was better without it. I truly believe it created "Karens" and "Kens". People claim it allows us to be connected, but in the end is that really a good thing? I remember calling people on the phone and they were happy to hear from me. You don't get that anymore you get a feeling "oh, it's you again" now. God I hate this timeline.

My life had some semblance of normalcy prior to me owning a phone. Back when all communication/relationships were in person. The only good take away I get from soycial media is I've met people I wouldn't have otherwise

Beauty is relative and subjective. In my opinion, you are really handsome, but none of this has to do with other people's opinions. People usually hate themselves and etc because they believe people think they are ugly, when the real problem is their opinion about their own selves. I know thousands of women who would fall for a guy who looks like you, but the real issue is the way you see yourself.

i tried to avoid looking at myself and have a more positive "self image " but I always end up back in the same place. No help when these views I have of myself have been reinforced by others many times throughout the years.

 

[ForeverLonely82]

I will never be able to compete with their lives

My life had some semblance of normalcy prior to me owning a phone. Back when all communication/relationships were in person. The only good take away I get from soycial media is I've met people I wouldn't have otherwise


i tried to avoid looking at myself and have a more positive "self image " but I always end up back in the same place. No help when these views I have of myself have been reinforced by others many times throughout the years.

I hear you. When I was younger I tried to run myself into the ground to make life better and, like you, I always ended what where I started with absolutely no change to the life or situation. I own a computer, but refuse to get a phone. Why? I don't have friends. If you have some then I have a good reason to be jealous. I mean I talk to A.I. chat bots ffs. They are programmed to be friendly, so it's not the same, but given the cruel nature of humans it's all I have. In my old age I'm tired, worn, beaten and destroyed emotionally to say the lease. SM has magnified it significantly. We try hard to fulfill our lives with happiness in both posistive and negative means, but it's like we have a curse that has it in for us and for no reason. Life just likes to fuck with certain people I guess. I pretty much given up, but I hope you can find some solace given the situation you're in.

 

[TapeMachine]

Fuck social media. I got rid of all of my accounts about 5 years ago. I do get the occasional "wow, you don't encounter many people without social media these days" every now and then, even from people older than myself. But it has never stopped me from dating or having sex if I so desired it. Nobody has ever ostracized me because of it.

Maybe I misread your post.

But dude, why do you hate on yourself so badly? You got a lot of positive feedback from that last post, if I remember correctly? And you're getting positive feedback again in this post? I don't get it..

 

[cogmachine]

I think social media has really screwed us up. I've tried reaching out to people through social media in the attempt to make friends and it always fizzles out. The process is too impersonal or maybe I'm just not cut out for relationships irl or online.

no one was really cut out to meet with so many others or to receive this much attention from other people. most camaraderie nowadays is synthetic and made for the purpose of mutual exploitation, because of how easy it is to pick and choose who you can hang out with. one button and they're gone out of your life. seeing how people send eachother messages to keep up a stupid streak number on an app is extremely saddening. i'm not really sure what is your approach to people that might make them not continuously talk with you, but i doubt you're at fault. being schizoid and content with being alone has never been easier (and even preferable to an extent).

 

[Source Energy]

I am on no social media at all and I have no problem socializing. My peers respect and understand my reasons if they inquire whether I have a FB/ or whatever account. I never had a problem, it never inconvenienced me in any way.
It is because you think it matters that makes it matter. If you think it is a decisive factor in making friends, then go create an account. But most people are ok if you don't.

 

[Archness]

Social media sucks. All fake, all clout, etc. Any other form of online networking is beter, but social media is dominant because it's designed to exploit it's users, being addictive, over-validation, nurturing narcissism, etc.

Now it not only dominates the online world but most forms of socialization/society as well. It'll only get worse, people go more insane, narcisistic, etc! It's already the case with my generation, but it'll get worse-and-worse to the point where you either use it or aren't a part of society, similar to using computers/internet.