just messaged a hooker on whatsappe to see if she would mind about my look... suicide is getting really close

[KuriGohan&Kamehameha]

I would try looking at reviews and seeing if you can find someone who is very gentle and understanding. Don't let people shit on you for wanting an intimate sexual experience with a woman.

Anyone who downplays the importance of wanting to feel desirable- even if it is in exchange for currency and may feel 'synthetic' to a lot of people- clearly doesn't understand. I may be a woman, but I can still sympathise with the pain men have to endure in our fucked mating and dating culture.

 

[setup]

No

It makes me sad to see some people making fun or despising the situation, even here in this forum there is a lack of empathy sometimes...

t trying to make fun of people. Just trying to say there is more important things in life and that everything will come easier if he focuses on other things. Serendipity is a thing

 

[xLosthopex]

Sex worker here, I'll turn down guys for a variety of reasons but looks is usually not one of them, I've had plenty of ugly clients believe me. I care a lot more about how much €€€ they have than their physical appearance. As another member on this thread mentioned, age is a big thing for me also, I would much rather an older less attractive man who's wealthy, than a twenty or thirty something good looking guy who's not wealthy, but that's just me
Also just because this was your experience with one specific worker doesn't mean shit, we all have our own ways of working, tactics, boundaries, preferences etc.

 

[motel rooms]

I used to do sex work
It's just a thought but I sometimes turned down guys who looked young (in their 20s), simply because of bad experiences- some young men refuse to pay or are too rough. I know a lot of girls have this policy

Most of the gay sex workers I know would rather have sex with someone old &/or physically weaker than them than with someone attractive but potentially dangerous. Their main concern is safety.

 

[TriggerHappy]

Most of the gay sex workers I know would rather have sex with someone old &/or physically weaker than them than with someone attractive but potentially dangerous. Their main concern is safety.

Agreed.
Most homo /hetero sexworkers i know are fantasizing about the drugs they gonna buy with your payment.
They don't give a fuck about you. Its about the money paid and the services offered.
You are but a momentary glitch in their insane movie.
Find the right one willing to do/ be/ go where you want. If that's what you truly want.
But what are u asking for?! Simple requests get faster results, same as at Seattle Coffee Co.
It costs but maybe its worth it :: my problem is that you're already accessing this experience in an emotional way. Seeking emotional validation through chronic whoredom is no solution :: you gonna get yrself hurt (esp: if they truly are 'professional' - they will block you if u trigger their safetysystem...thats so rare tho.)
It costs but maybe its not :: you may be seen as an emotional mark, you may be opening yrself up to exploitation, manipulation, extortion.
If they clever the want repeat business, its work to them.
be careful, pls.

This thread is of very poor quality, l appreciate not getting laid on demand is the worst experience ever for many on this site but ffs do we have to swap tips on sex-worker procurement

Um, really?
You're gonna judge cock /pussy-procurement on a site that shares /"swaps tips" on exit bag strategies, decomposition rates & methods of tactically functional s.n consumption...
I never realised irony could be so funny.
I understand your wanting to not to get laid (not really :: sex love drug junkie here... this is an important part of my existence :: as ugly /depraved / uncomfortable as it may seem)
but pls its strangely judgemental for an old timer like yrself...
I mean :: "poor quality"?! Ouch.
"not getting laid on demand is the worst experience ever for many..." again, Ouch.
I'm not hating at you, honestly im just responding 'cos what you write is veiled hurt itself ::
live and let live // live and let love live...**
**Now that on a suicide forum is so sad it's ironically fucking hysterical...