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I was forced to see a therapist and social services after significantly failed ctb, I try to ignore them as best as possible I still go sometimes ig in hopes to be happy again but the man who speaks to me keeps relaying my information and what I say to my mother and they text between the two it's gotten kinda personal which I explicitly told the service not too as I'm in my 20s and she's abusive, I tried asking for a new person but my request gets ignored.

Has anybody else experienced this?
 
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No, this isn't normal. In most countries it is illegal to pass on confidential information from therapists or doctors to someone else with exceptions only for cases where somebody is a danger to themselves or others. But even in these cases the therapist or doctor can only alert the police or someone within the health care system, but certainly not a mother or other people.
You should certainly switch therapists or just stop seeing this person regardless of the exact legal situation in your country. This behaviour is really unethical and against professional standards.
 
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No, this isn't normal. In most countries it is illegal to pass on confidential information from therapists or doctors to someone else with exceptions only for cases where somebody is a danger to themselves or others. But even in these cases the therapist or doctor can only alert the police or someone within the health care system, but certainly not a mother or other people.
You should certainly switch therapists or just stop seeing this person regardless of the exact legal situation in your country. This behaviour is really unethical and against professional standards.
I have no choice in people, there is a major shortage. So I'm not getting help I'm saying things which makes him happy to say I'm fine. it's also illegal in the UK, im classed as a vulnerable which idk if that makes a difference
 
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I was forced to see a therapist and social services after significantly failed ctb, I try to ignore them as best as possible I still go sometimes ig in hopes to be happy again but the man who speaks to me keeps relaying my information and what I say to my mother and they text between the two it's gotten kinda personal which I explicitly told the service not too as I'm in my 20s and she's abusive, I tried asking for a new person but my request gets ignored.

Has anybody else experienced this?
really depends on thr country you live in as different cultures have different rules whats considered normal for patient doctor confidentiallity

if you really want to be sure they dont talk to your mum, give your request to them in writing

when i make a (reasonable) request in writing to the public health system they accomodate it fairly quickly

thats just my experience

im sorry your mum is invloved when you dont want her to be
fanily can make the situation worse cant they
really depends on thr country you live in as different cultures have different rules whats considered normal for patient doctor confidentiallity

if you really want to be sure they dont talk to your mum, give your request to them in writing

when i make a (reasonable) request in writing to the public health system they accomodate it fairly quickly

thats just my experience

im sorry your mum is invloved when you dont want her to be
fanily can make the situation worse cant they
just ready your from the uk

yeah put it down in writing

im from nz, we have the similar health care systems

you can also complain and they will get told off for telling your mim if you want to take that route
 
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really depends on thr country you live in as different cultures have different rules whats considered normal for patient doctor confidentiallity

if you really want to be sure they dont talk to your mum, give your request to them in writing

when i make a (reasonable) request in writing to the public health system they accomodate it fairly quickly

thats just my experience

im sorry your mum is invloved when you dont want her to be
fanily can make the situation worse cant they

just ready your from the uk

yeah put it down in writing

im from nz, we have the similar health care systems

you can also complain and they will get told off for telling your mim if you want to take that route
I don't want to complain again, he could lose his job, is rather not put anyone in distress texting my mother he is riding a horse sport makes me think it's something else idk
 
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valid. hope you can keep us updated
I don't want to complain again, he could lose his job, is rather not put anyone in distress texting my mother he is riding a horse sport makes me think it's something else idk
 

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