Discussion Is it worth it to have sex on the bucket list? Or not?

[Takamagahara]

If you think it should go on your bucket list, I think it's worth it for the experience. Just to say you did it, whether or not the experience was good or bad. That's kind of the point of a bucket list--to experience sensory things before your senses self-terminate.

 

[depressedteddybear]

New poster. I'm headed out in a few days.

I have been trying to do stuff whenever I get a chance for the last couple of weeks. Stuff I've always wanted to. Finally watch Interstellar. Try hallucinogens. Apologize to a friend I hurt. But I kept thinking if all this hype around sex or more precisely dying sexless is really something I should be concerned about. I have no issues with sex work, so I'm open to purchasing it if the experience is worth it. Thoughts?

Like a one night stand? No I wouldn't stay for that but a night with a woman or man (depending on your preferences) who you love and loves you back ya that's worth it

 

[Szinuus]

Its not worth for me since I have no feeling in my intimate areas after the jump attempt.

 

[tabby]

Sex can be very fun, and I think it can definitely be worth it sometimes, but you might find it disappointing since it's usually not that good the first time while you're still figuring out how to do it. If you're with someone experienced it could be good, otherwise I wouldn't bother.

 

[F Sea]

Of course.
Especially when there are eye contact between the two. When you can feel their tenderness and at the same time the most passionate side, when you notice that the other person is giving you everything and so are you. When at the end you talk long in bed and then you repeat etc
Love.

Without love, I think that the experience it's not the same at all. And maybe to do that, you would have done it yourself to have pleasure.

Greetings to all.

 

[SpaceBoyEvangef]

For me, it's so-so. My hypersexuality implores me to want to have sex before I die, but at the same time I've personally been used sexually (without sex) that the very thought of having sex outside of fictional settings makes me sick to my stomach. So, I'd say it's best to decide amongst yourself rather than input from others, the only person who can make the best decisions for you is yourself.

 

[ChronicPain23]

One of the best pleasures in life, but it must be sex when you mutually feel sexual attraction, ordinary mechanical sex without feelings is nice, but it is not 100% of the pleasure of sex.

 

[HighFlight]

@Thanksforeverything - There has been a lot of great advice - far and against adding this to your bucket list. In the end, listen to yourself. If you're really curious, then go for it. If not, don't worry about it. But if you do, I would suggest finding someone your comfortable with.

 

[silentcicada]

No, sex isn't worth it . Sex can be good if it's with someone you enjoy and that's gotten to know your body, but otherwise it won't feel worth it.

 

[Kerrtu]

SLAAAM! dun duh-nuh, dun duh-nuh, let the boys be boys!
Sorry, I dunno

Well, now I have that song in my head. Ay

 

[John Ryder]

Well, now I have that song in my head. Ay

As it should be. And for completeness sake don't forget this version

 

[Kerrtu]

As it should be. And for completeness sake don't forget this version

As it should be - I fucking cannot with you

The likelihood of Onyx showing up in my dreams to smack me in the head tonight are high for sure

 

[ctvunny]

If you are up for it then give it a try. I, for one would also like to try some of the new found fetishes of mine before ctb when time and money can make it possible to happen. Though, if not then its fine.

 

[Dead Already]

My dream death would be dying while having sex. I think it should definitely be on the bucket list.

Oh my, mine too,
Choose your partner wisely !!!

 

[TAW122]

Considering how exposed to sex we are, I'd say go for it so you can experience it for yourself because it really depends on your expectations. Like most things, while some people can't get enough of it, others could live without it. Since you're in a situation where you could (like you said) see a sex worker, I personally think you should do it IF doing it could change your mind about ending it all.

I second this. Back in 2019 when I was still a virgin, I made it a goal to lose it before I hit 30 (for personal reasons), and I vowed that if I didn't lose it before age 30, I would CTB. Luckily, I managed to do just that, lost my virginity before I hit 30 and it was also before the pandemic too. Therefore, I would say to satiate your curiosity and fulfillment, as long as you understand what you are getting into (without regret or disappointments), then go for it to get the 'experience'.

 

[bangimout]

I second this. Back in 2019 when I was still a virgin, I made it a goal to lose it before I hit 30 (for personal reasons), and I vowed that if I didn't lose it before age 30, I would CTB. Luckily, I managed to do just that, lost my virginity before I hit 30 and it was also before the pandemic too. Therefore, I would say to satiate your curiosity and fulfillment, as long as you understand what you are getting into (without regret or disappointments), then go for it to get the 'experience'.

Lol it's funny you said before the pandemic because, where I live, people started having sex more frequently because of all the restrictions. To move away from that, how did you meet that person (if you don't mind me asking) and do you think your new found motivation helped you succeed?

 

[Ashu]

Sounds true - except for the fact that love does not exist.

_Concepts_ don't exist. But who needs em anyway.