Discussion is it fair to date if you're suicidal

[zipzamoly1]

i have a crush on someone but i can't get over whether it's fair to start dating when i want to kill myself. i don't think it would be fair to the other person since i know i might make them rlly sad. but also what if love makes me magically super happy. that's probably not gonna happen but idk. it's selfish right
ik ppl do date even when they're suicidal. i've never been in a relationship but do u guys tell ur partner abt ur si?

I mean you're not gonna start dating right after you start talking to them, you gotta start out as friends. It can take weeks months even years to then have them as a girlfriend.

 

[Proxycake]

You either get better with them or you get worse with them. Always nice to find a 'get better'.