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Shay

Experienced
Aug 31, 2018
277
I know I need a partner because it will help me through but I'm afraid that it could end up badly (potential scammers or worse)
 
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Miss clefable

Enlightened
Aug 23, 2018
1,577
I know I need a partner because it will help me through but I'm afraid that it could end up badly (potential scammers or worse)
Apart of me would like a partner to ctb but I'll think i be happier doing it alone
 
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throwaway123

throwaway123

Hell0
Aug 5, 2018
1,446
It is not safe at all and I would strongly advise against such attempts.
 
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Shay

Experienced
Aug 31, 2018
277
Weirdly I think I would feel safer with someone else. Someone I can trust. But finding someone who lives close and who I can trust seems impossible
 
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Madrid27

Student
Jul 24, 2018
193
I would love a partner, and take n together, laugh and spend a vacation time in a hotel.
 
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Bringmepeace

Member
Sep 1, 2018
39
That is the same thoughts that I have, I've been planning for just over a year, getting all details right, the way I want it to go, but then getting the right partner for it, that's genuine is now the only thing holding things back. I think partners can be safe but you must get to know them a little first, you can then judge if said partner is completely committed or not.
 
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Ashpac

Ashpac

Lost and always will be.
Jul 22, 2018
795
Probably better off not taking the chance to meet someone. Anything could happen. This world is far from safe as we all know.
 
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Over n' Out

Over n' Out

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Aug 5, 2018
196
Well, search...Natasha Gordon.

Then search Joanne Lee Stuart Lumb.

One went bad, the other went as planned.
 
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Shay

Experienced
Aug 31, 2018
277
I would need a partner versus a pact. I think it's hard to make sure someone will follow a pact or as we all know not all attempts are successful so one of us could end up surviving because of that
 
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Brokenanddeadinside

Brokenanddeadinside

Arcanist
Aug 8, 2018
404
The only way I'd want to die with a partner is if it was with a girl I loved or cared for deeply and we both wanted to go together.
 
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medusa

Student
Sep 1, 2018
175
It can get you into jail if you fail and I would be scared of doing so because I never know who the other person is.
There have been psychopaths on these kinds of websites, preying on women like me.
So for me-never.
 
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Roulette

Roulette

???
Aug 31, 2018
145
I'd take anyone tbh. As long as the suicide method can be shared.
But my method would be that they'd have to die first. Oh great, now I look like the bad guy.
It'd be more pressure to end myself, since I don't plan on being liable for their suicide.
 
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Sidestep

Sidestep

Student
Aug 15, 2018
128
It can get you into jail if you fail and I would be scared of doing so because I never know who the other person is.
There have been psychopaths on these kinds of websites, preying on women like me.
So for me-never.
Yes, I always side-eye the men in the partners thread that ask for a woman but leave everything else vague. Especially those that only make an account to post that. I worry that someone on here may get hurt one day. However, on one hand I would enjoy a partner maybe not for the act itself because I don't want to deal with someone who's too afraid to go forth but a companion in the final days sounds nice.
 
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Phro

Student
Sep 1, 2018
183
I think a period of conversations with somebody here will give you a good idea. Some of it involves following your gut. If things seem right after exchanging a quantity of messages, then perhaps that person would make a good partner. If not, then simply don't proceed. There is an element of risk involved. I don't think that risk is unique to an online website. Use your best judgment.
 
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Bringmepeace

Member
Sep 1, 2018
39
I think a period of conversations with somebody here will give you a good idea. Some of it involves following your gut. If things seem right after exchanging a quantity of messages, then perhaps that person would make a good partner. If not, then simply don't proceed. There is an element of risk involved. I don't think that risk is unique to an online website. Use your best judgment.
I agree judgement is the best in these situations, same goes for men too though, I read a post not long ago about a woman who made a pack with like 3 and backed out every time, kind of a worrying thought when all you want is a like minded person to share your final moments with and they do that! I'm looking for a female partner but I'm making sure that their is no one that can ruin my plans and actually will go through with it. That why it's always best to really get to know the person first
 
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Ampsvx123

Ampsvx123

Student
Jul 10, 2018
128
It's not safe is you can't go through it and your partner succeeds. This said, I would also make sure any suicide talk is done by means of anonymous website so that it cannot be archived or traced back toward me or my partner. Do not share your real name, location or phone number so that if one decline, you remain unidentifiable.

There will always be some risk but that's how life is.
 
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medusa

Student
Sep 1, 2018
175
Yes, I always side-eye the men in the partners thread that ask for a woman but leave everything else vague. Especially those that only make an account to post that. I worry that someone on here may get hurt one day. However, on one hand I would enjoy a partner maybe not for the act itself because I don't want to deal with someone who's too afraid to go forth but a companion in the final days sounds nice.
You never know who is writing, could also be a psychopath woman. We too can be psychos!
The thought of a partner is nice to me,but it's just not realistic (at least in my life.)
 
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Living_Ghost

Student
Aug 13, 2018
181
I mean ,if you met with the wrong person they could do anything to you since they are gonna kill themselves anyway Not very safe for female/male strangers at least
 
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medusa

Student
Sep 1, 2018
175
I mean ,if you met with the wrong person they could do anything to you since they are gonna kill themselves anyway Not very safe for female/male strangers at least

good thought
 
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Mr2004

Student
Aug 20, 2018
174
It is a risk. You could die :O
 
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Living_Ghost

Student
Aug 13, 2018
181
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Mr2004

Student
Aug 20, 2018
174
I know. This thread is bringing to light the difference
 
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Shay

Experienced
Aug 31, 2018
277
It is a shame bc theoretically a partner sounds less lonely
 
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couldntthinkofaname

couldntthinkofaname

Mage
Aug 31, 2018
565
:/
 
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Phro

Student
Sep 1, 2018
183
For me, it would be really helpful to have a partner. After years of loneliness, I'd appreciate the support and company of someone else. I'll screen them as much as I can to make sure they are who they claim to be. But at the end of the day, there's only so much screening I can do. Since I don't want to die alone, I might have to follow my gut and take the risk.
 
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Bringmepeace

Member
Sep 1, 2018
39
Think that's it though, for a lot of people they don't want to be alone, especially not at the end.
 
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Mr2004

Student
Aug 20, 2018
174
I was being flippant before. I put a bit on the partners thread for anyone who's interested
 
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Living_Ghost

Student
Aug 13, 2018
181
Well ideally it would be great to go with someone kind and caring. But just hooking up with a stranger is a bit bizarre I think . There's also a chance they could freak out and ruin the whole thing I guess
 
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