lotus11

lotus11

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May 18, 2019
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OK... so I am just wondering out of the people on this site. Are any of you really really good looking? I'm talking model standard good looks. I know that a lot of people here want to kill themselves largely related to poor genetics, bad looks or self-image problems. My self included in this category...not the only reason by any means, but definitely a large contributing factor. It goes without saying that looks are beneficial in our society and can make you form better relationships and feel happier with yourself. So I am just curious..., are any of you really beautiful but still want to kill yourself? (You don't have to be modest! this is a suicide site and you don't know people personally!)
 
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SuicideBoys93

SuicideBoys93

I am the lord of loneliness.
Feb 10, 2020
324
Not really sure. I feel like I have to chase off alot of guys when it comes to my wife. That in the sense of DMs. Her socials garnerd a lot of attention. She finally deleted them for me. I can't be half bad, or maybe I got lucky. I'm a case of how can you have pretty much everything you could possibly want in life, but still be the way you are? Million dollar question my friend!
 
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JustLosingMyself

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Sep 4, 2018
544
I'm really good looking if you have really low standards
 
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lotus11

lotus11

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BadChanges

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Sep 23, 2019
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I was extremely good looking even when I wanted to kill myself. No connection for me.
Nowadays I look worse, but my face still looks pretty good.
 
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When I've had a few beers I am ten foot tall, bullet proof, handsome and extremely charming.
Unfortunately I don't drink anymore.
 
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Jean4

Jean4

Remember. I am ALWAYS right.... until I’m not
Apr 28, 2019
7,557
I'm in the music business. Fans do. I don't.
 
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Jessamine

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Oct 28, 2019
352
I'm not extremely good looking but I'm happy with how I look.
 
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mesohappy

mesohappy

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Jan 10, 2020
674
Im pretty sure I look like Ive been chewed up and spit out at this point..But I don't care anymore. I feel like ive been chewed up and spit out too.
 
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Brick In The Wall

Brick In The Wall

2M Or Not 2B.
Oct 30, 2019
25,158
I'm really good looking if you have really low standards
When I've had a few beers I am ten foot tall, bullet proof, handsome and extremely charming.
Unfortunately I don't drink anymore.
You guys are too much! :pfff:

I'll go with what @Underscore had to say. But add that it's one of the reasons I DO still drink.
 
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You guys are too much! :pfff:

I'll go with what @Underscore had to say. But add that it's one of the reasons I DO still drink.
'Beer is the cause and the solution to all life's problems.'
 
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Mr2005

Mr2005

Don't shoot the messenger, give me the gun
Sep 25, 2018
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Was. Maybe. Wasted it all because I didn't like my nose
 
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Vicepuma

Vicepuma

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Jul 16, 2018
56
Honestly don't know anymore. I used to date a really hot girl (imo) so I can't look that bad, but it's been 3 years since then and I'm pretty sure I developed body dysmorphia. Doesn't help that my hair changed a lot in that period.

It's a big reason why I'm here.
 
Egddios

Egddios

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Oct 27, 2018
395
Let's just put it this way: I had a pic of me and my dog on the fridge from the summer of 2015 and the downstairs neighbor's daughter came up to say hi. She looked at the picture and asked me who it was. :pfff:;-;

My current avatar is from the same summer, 2015. 5 years later and I now resemble Tom Hanks rolling down the stairs of the Klopek's porch in the 'Burbs.

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lizinha

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Feb 6, 2019
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Let's just put it this way: I had a pic of me and my dog on the fridge from the summer of 2015 and the downstairs neighbor's daughter came up to say hi. She looked at the picture and asked me who it was. :pfff:;-;

My current avatar is from the same summer, 2015. 5 years later and I now resemble Tom Hanks rolling down the stairs of the Klopek's porch in the 'Burbs.

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you're beautiful
 
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Final Escape

I’ve been here too long
Jul 8, 2018
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I used to be very attractive, but age, bad living, mental illness, addiction, have taken their toll. I still seem to get noticed by guys and flirted with by guys just not to the degree I did in my 20's and 30's.
 
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listeningpost1379

listeningpost1379

enduring winter
Apr 20, 2019
93
i... think the attractiveness you're referring to might be more about sociability than appearance. being good-looking doesn't save you from, say, abuse, illnesses, narc parents, financial problems, oppression etc. being able to network well and being well liked enough to garner support wherever one goes, have surprisingly little to do with looks. i myself know at least 4 people who reasonably ctb, that were extremely, godly even, good-looking when they were alive.
 
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TAW122

TAW122

Emissary of the right to die.
Aug 30, 2018
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No, I'm rather ugly by most people's standards in regards to looks. I suppose in some circles I could pass as a normie in terms of looks. Just imagine an Asian American nerd with a fucked up face, overweight, but tall, and that's pretty much what I look like. I don't want to get too much more descriptive than that so I don't accidentally divulge more information than I am comfortable with.
 
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Soul

Soul

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Apr 12, 2019
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I'm in the music business. Fans do. I don't.

@Jean4, you're so full of surprises! I was sure you were a therapist and emergency responder — now you're in the music business, as in on stage? with fans?? Are you like an ... idol??? What sort of music?

Meanwhile I'm in the "no complaints" category looks-wise and never cared much about it.
 
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MysticPerception

MysticPerception

I'm back and I'll still smile for you
Dec 31, 2019
1,252
I'm very good looking and I recently attempted so there's that lol. My appearance is one of the few things I like about myself. Though I could always improve I'm mostly talking about the neck up. Everything else is just average but my face and hair is attractive I know that much. Doesn't really help in the grand scheme of things when you're shy and don't utilize what assets you may have. There are plenty of reasons a good looking face/body doesn't mean anything to someone and they would still want to ctb.
 
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Thereisnothing

Thereisnothing

Enlightened
Jan 4, 2020
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Good looks are hard to define, what one person may find attractive, the next mightn't.
I wouldn't like to say if I'm extremely good looking or not, find that sort of thing too superficial..................much more to life than whats on the outer core.
 
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mattwitt

mattwitt

# 978
Jun 28, 2018
2,307
I use to get called handsome and gorgeous but I was at Arby's not too long ago and I heard one girl working there tell her co worker who was asking what she thought of me or something and I could hear her say I look just like modern day Boy George. So I don't know anymore
 
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HadEnough1974

I try to be funny...
Jan 14, 2020
684
I'm not extremely good looking, I'm FABULOUS, darling!
 
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mattwitt

mattwitt

# 978
Jun 28, 2018
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I used to be very attractive, but age, bad living, mental illness, addiction, have taken their toll. I still seem to get noticed by guys and flirted with by guys just not to the degree I did in my 20's and 30's.
Your being too modest. Your probably the best looking and sexiest woman on this site !
 
BooGirl

BooGirl

Warlock
Jan 10, 2020
750
I'm pretty decent looking imo... for a boy. But that doesn't help much with gender dysphoria.
 
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voyager

voyager

Don't you dare go hollow...
Nov 25, 2019
965
I used to be very attractive, but age, bad living, mental illness, addiction, have taken their toll. I still seem to get noticed by guys and flirted with by guys just not to the degree I did in my 20's and 30's.
Same as Final Escape, really. Well, apart from the very attractive, getting noticed in my 20's, 30's, flirting and guys part. It's okay though, hardly ever leave the house and plan to discard this body anyway.
 
Egddios

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Worthless_nobody

Enlightened
Feb 14, 2019
1,384
I have been told I'm very beautiful and above average attractive. I have bad self esteem now but I used to really like the way I look. But my looks have not gotten me anywhere in life except used and abused by narcissistic bfs.

I have put so much emphasis on my looks my entire life because beauty is all I felt like I have had and it's quite miserable always being paranoid about looking good since that all I think I offer anyone. I still want to ctb despite my looks because good looks do not guarantee happiness or finding true love.
 
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I have been told I'm very beautiful and above average attractive. I have bad self esteem now but I used to really like the way I look. But my looks have not gotten me anywhere in life except used and abused by narcissistic bfs.

I have put so much emphasis on my looks my entire life because beauty is all I felt like I have had and it's quite miserable always being paranoid about looking good since that all I think I offer anyone. I still want to ctb despite my looks because good looks do not guarantee happiness or finding true love.
Sometimes people think being good looking means life on easy mode but that's often not the case.
 
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