Is anyone else concerned about the person who finds your body?

[MeltingHeart]

good idea

well even in thethe woods=someone would have to find you, but i guess it is good to strongly minise number of people that would encounter you, (for some people that would be family members) and esp, children and as stan mentioned-innnocent people just doing their job-at least the authorities, police/ amulance are slightly more used to it. I did a similar post t'other day and someone had the fair point that people are found in bad states following other things-such as sudden illness or accidents etc, but either way it virtually impossible to not cause even minor upset or disruption, though i was advised to at the very least to find a remote cottage (in wales for some reason?!-hmm are welsh people known to cope with dead bodies better?!) or to go into the sea-not saying you should do that -thats just what i was told would cause the least offence

just had a thought @Stan say- you would be going to a hotel to do SN or N, at what point could u put a warning sign out? if you put it too soon, then that would alert people to call the authorities! its so tricky. seems virtually impossible to avoid someone having to find you- except mayb jumping into a volacano (thats alll i could think of in this moment)

 

[sammii]

just had a thought @Stan say- you would be going to a hotel to do SN or N, at what point could u put a warning sign out? if you put it too soon, then that would alert people to call the authorities! its so tricky. seems virtually impossible to avoid someone having to find you- except mayb jumping into a volacano (thats alll i could think of in this moment)

or you could climb Mt Everest apparently there's loads of corpses lying up there because it's too dangerous to bring them down. I'm not sure if I'd rather do that or jump in a volcano, they'd both be terrible ways to die

 

[JohnUK]

or you could climb Mt Everest apparently there's loads of corpses lying up there because it's too dangerous to bring them down. I'm not sure if I'd rather do that or jump in a volcano, they'd both be terrible ways to die

In a way dying in a volcano would be quicker than an Everest death

 

[VoidDesirer22]

An old school friend of mine shot himself in the head last week with a shotgun, he did it upstairs in the bedroom while his sister was home, of course she ran up straight away, let's just say I don't think it's something she will ever get over, there was nothing left of him, well, of his head.... so to answer your question it would depend on the state of your body really, but then again to find a loved one that even died of natural causes would be a hard thing also. In terms of disappearing into the wilderness, me personally, I feel it would never give loved ones closure if they never knew what happened to you, does that make sense? But I don't know your family situation etc, but personally I wouldn't like to just disappear with no closure for my own family. Sorry my answers all over the place I'm not good at putting words together sometimes!!!

Fuck, I wish I was that guy with a blown off head. Wonder how he got a shotgun.

 

[Fish Face]

Well, I hope you can give him a better reason for that. It sounds like a lot of men. If you hate him that much there must be something else. You cannot blame someone else for your death for just this.

I'm ambivalent. Fuck you Ian this is what you get for never taking out the trash ever and letting me get cut on your beer bottles all the time I'm not your mom!! >:C

 

[FuneralCry]

No, I will be dead by that point. It is not my concern. Also if somebody finds my body it is the fault of the society for not allowing euthanasia.

 

[PeacefulTonic]

That'll be the least of my worries. It will be hotel staff, police, and then my family would be notified. I'll be dead anyway

 

[Broadland]

Unfortunately I still live with my parents. I wish I didn't so they wouldn't get as traumatized by my death, but I'm completely unable to work now.
If everything goes right then they won't have to be the ones to find my body at least.
There's a spot in the basement that no one really checks. Big enough for me to comfortably fit through but hidden enough that you wouldn't see me in there unless you went in.
Then a few hours later when I'd be gone I'd set my phone to send a scheduled message to my parents telling them to please call 911 and tell them where to find me.
That way hopefully the only people that would find me would be the ones that know what to expect and have had experience with finding dead bodies.
If I wasn't so numb I'd feel horrible for making my parents go through that, but it's far too late to fix me.
There was no way my parents could've known the extent of physical and mental problems I was born with, and they fully trusted the medical professionals that misdiagnosed me and let me go untreated for years.
If only they would've asked for a second opinion, or that one of the doctors would've done a bit more thorough testing before diagnosing me, etc.
Things still wouldn't be great but they would be a lot better than they are now.
I really wish that they wouldn't have to lose me while they're still alive, but I can't keep on living in this state that I'm in for much longer.

 

[Darkover]

i live in my own flat the authorities will have to deal with my dead body its nothing new to them they should be use to it by now, i feel sorry for my family because they have to pay for a funeral but if they had just cared for me this would of never of happened.

 

[sadstuffie]

i would hope to never be found, but sadly i dont think that would be possible. i would hate for a person to suffer mentally forever just because they found my body.

 

[Hangman]

I don't think it's necessarily traumatising to find a body. It's good to see at least one dead body in a life time. Of course it's an image one likely will remember. Jumping under a train or truck is different as they are sort of forced into being part of the killing in a gory way, and witnessing it as it happens.

 

[Rmr]

I am. That is why I am planning to have emails scheduled to everyone concerned, including the police, who will receive the email earliest, with a good delay for anyone else, giving them instructions how to get inside, what they will find, how to reach the landlord, etc. I have no intention to cause more stress to anyone than is absolutely necessary in this situation.

 

[Wolfjob_dayjob]

Well, I hope you can give him a better reason for that. It sounds like a lot of men. If you hate him that much there must be something else. You cannot blame someone else for your death for just this.

Shut the hell up and don't read deeper, lol. He literally doesn't do basic apt maintenance like drain cleaning, buying tp soap or throwing out his moldy food and brought home fleas and the flu when everyone should be masked up somehow. So fuck him. People can't even make a joke? Fuck offffff

 

[wanttogetonthebus]

If I build up the courage to do CTB by myself, I'm not going to care about what happens to anyone else after I'm dead. In life, no one loved me more than I loved me, and actually CTBing 1,000% will be the hardest decision I will ever have to make. Nothing can be harder than to make that decision, other than fully consenting to live a horrible life of certain and unbearable suffering. If I can find the inner strength to go through with CTB, then sure as hell, the living who I leave behind will find a way to keep chugging along without me. They might hurt, but they should be grateful that the roles aren't reversed. By living it means that they still have hope and that life is still worth it for them. So I'm really not concerned for them because in the end, they'll be okay while there are no guarantees or comfort for me. So I'm more concerned about how I'll handle the CTB, and what could possibly could lie in store for me after death.

 

[JustBill104]

I feel like the thing holding me back the most is the thought of however finds my dead body having to figure out what to do with it… I was thinking about going to the woods and attempting to disappear into the wilderness to ctb but I don't know how well that will work out… thoughts…?

Thats been My thoughts Aswell, I have wanted to be done with life for some time, But I don't want to found until I'm nothing but bones, the thought of drowning keeps be from taking a cruise to nowhere with diving weights, so My method will be Pian pills and sleeping pills, but I need to find a quiet place to rest for the next 20 years without being found.

 

[Walilamdzii]

I want the person who pushed me over the edge to find my body. I'm thinking of supergluing myself to his vehicle, like maybe the tires, then downing a load of SN. Except I would have to be sure that it would work because I don't know what emergency services would do RE pulling skin off your body to get rid of the superglue.

 

[Sick of it all]

I'm more worried about having someone have to clean up all my stuff when I'm gone. I don't want to burden them with having to throw a whole house worth of stuff out. It is a lot for one person to handle. Granted I also am thinking of a shotgun blast in the woods for my CTB and hopefully trained professionals would be dealing with my body. I do feel bad because that is a lot for even a trained individual to deal with. I imagine it would be hard on them never the less.