Discussion Incel gang

[ZardozOmega]

How many of you are incels and how much of your desire to CTB is due to inceldom?

 

[TheSomebody]

I dont know If im a incel

 

[Sakura94]

Might be incel, I might be able to get a guy if I made an effort though they would be a messed up chaser.
I've never put any effort ever into dating.
It's possible if I had someone things might have gone a different path.

 

[Deleted member 17949]

Am an incel but don't really want to ctb because of it. Suppose it's just further evidence of me being a trash human being.

 

[Wrennie]

I'm more of an involuntary eunuch per say, but the end result is basically the same... I still want to die... so not that much of a difference tbh

 

[StringPuppet]

Yes I'm involuntarily celibate, in the purest sense, not in the misogynistic way it's become synonymous with.

Right now it contributes 0 percent to how much I want to ctb tbh, I've actually recently accepted the fact that I'll always be alone and actually wouldn't mind being alone for the rest of my life too much if I decided I didn't want to ctb for several other reasons

 

[SuicidallyCurious]

No. If you're incel go to a prostitute. Many destinations available globally where you can get what you want for under 20 dollars

 

[Deleted member 17949]

No. If you're incel go to a prostitute. Many destinations available globally where you can get what you want for under 20 dollars

eh this would kill the whole point. Kinda more about feeling inhuman due to a complete inability to naturally get any form of intimacy than it is "monke brain want SEX with FEMALE NOW"

 

[BluesRunTheGame]

Probably something of an incel. Probably ctb is because of being something of an incel.

I could really use the human touch, you see. I mean I think it might be something essential, like oxygen. I really do. And I really think I might be dying without it,

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

Yup. I'm an incel, I'd say it's my primary reason to ctb too.

I've said this before but I don't just think I'm an incel because of my looks, as unflattering as they are. I think it's my mentality which is holding me back. Unfortunately this is even harder to change because I'm just that stubborn and I really don't like myself that much. I've only been able to get by through setting up ultimatums and conditions meant to force me to get better if said conditions are met, but the ultimatum part comes from how my body has decided it will only shape up if said conditions are met. These conditions themselves are kind of ridiculous to ask for unfortunately so I'm certain ctb will be my only way out to prevent further suffering. If I don't die before my 30s, then I am almost completely certain that even getting married in my late 30s or 40s will only do even more harm than good, then again I'm less sure that I can prevent that simply by marrying in my late 20s.

 

[pen]

While, there's hole, there's a will, I'll pass.

 

[BluesRunTheGame]

No. If you're incel go to a prostitute. Many destinations available globally where you can get what you want for under 20 dollars

Alas, not in the UK.

 

[L I F E T O L O S E]

I am incel and I like to be in "inceldom".well even though i'm getting old and obsolete to have a relationship on the other side I am not in a boring and forced relationship full of fights and disagreements.
but I must admit it is horrible to feel alone.

No. If you're incel go to a prostitute. Many destinations available globally where you can get what you want for under 20 dollars

I think it's so empty to have to pay someone just to have sex with you

 

[BluesRunTheGame]

I think it's so empty to have to pay someone just to have sex with you

Oh I'd take it. Can't even afford that though.

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

No. If you're incel go to a prostitute. Many destinations available globally where you can get what you want for under 20 dollars

What I WANT is someone who I'd be able to feel safe and comfortable with despite my constant insecurity with the added bonus of being able to also mutually sate biological urges. Most of all, I want to be able to physically express LOVE to someone who actually loves me back, something that a prostitute or anyone would likely never be able to do for me if I have to pay for them.

I have nothing against the profession personally, but having to pay someone simply won't do for me. In fact I doubt I'd even be able to get aroused enough which would just be wasting both our money and time.

 

[baxter0]

A huge part. I can't deal with the shame and loneliness any longer

 

[loopylou]

Had to google what it meant.
When I was younger like 16,17, 18 I struggled to attract men. I don't look anything like I did and I don't struggle in that sense anymore.

 

[BluesRunTheGame]

Unless it's inappropriate here, if someone could hit me up with a decent escort site in my DMs, I'd appreciate it (and do my best to save up)...

 

[TheSomebody]

looks like I'm an incel

 

[BluesRunTheGame]

looks like I'm an incel

It's depressing, isn't it?

 

[TheSomebody]

It's depressing, isn't it?

my self-esteem dropped even more

 

[neitherherenorthere]

Sorry to bust into a conversation that I don't really belong in, but finding people who want to be FWBs is surprisingly easy on Reddit, of all places. There's even a virgin-specific board, r/virginityexchange. It seems like not a lot of people have heard of the sub. It's not dating, exactly, but most people want more than just a one-off so you're still entering into a relationship that can potentially grow into something more.

Yes I'm involuntarily celibate, in the purest sense, not in the misogynistic way it's become synonymous with.

I'm curious to know how many of you fall into this category--you're involuntarily celibate, but not an "incel."

 

[L951788]

I think the incel term is kinda weird and creepy. I had to Google it couple years back after I saw it thrown around and was kinda surprised people can be so self-degrading. But, whatever. I myself am not sexually active but would like to be I guess. I'm attractive enough and tall. Former multi-sport athlete. But being socially isolated + suicidal will do ya in. Oh well. I'd be down for a fwb thing if I could find it. Not sure how though.

 

[OnlyTheWind]

Add limerance to that and you're finished.

 

[Frauw]

Humans are gross, big avoid.

 

[woknows]

eh this would kill the whole point. Kinda more about feeling inhuman due to a complete inability to naturally get any form of intimacy than it is "monke brain want SEX with FEMALE NOW"

Keep hearing this bullshit that women are different. It is a boring lie.

 

[Kat!]

yea idrc though.
I'm not going to off myself because I'm lonely that's just kinda pathetic.

 

[Amumu]

yea idrc though.
I'm not going to off myself because I'm lonely that's just kinda pathetic.

You're 18 bro, I'm not sure you'd say the same thing if you were 30.

 

[grungeCat]

I am. But it's just one of many reasons.

 

[ZardozOmega]

yea idrc though.
I'm not going to off myself because I'm lonely that's just kinda pathetic.

I'm king pathetic.