Incel discord servers are weird

[asian.neet]

Friend of mine from here and I are larping in a incel discord server and they just say the weirdest and most bigoted shit. They're just the weirdest people on the planet

 

[mortuarymary]

???????

 

[Seered Doom]

Damn, and I thought trolling them would be a trip

 

[trashhologram]

Ugh, incels are the worst. They're so misogynistic and most of them think that rape and pedophilia are ok. Fucking creeps. Yet they cry how they're never going to get laid, usually because "they're ugly". Dude, you hate women and condone horrendous acts. That is why you won't get laid.

 

[Seered Doom]

Truth, holo

 

[asian.neet]

Ugh, incels are the worst. They're so misogynistic and most of them think that rape and pedophilia are ok. Fucking creeps. Yet they cry how they're never going to get laid, usually because "they're ugly". Dude, you hate women and condone horrendous acts. That is why you won't get laid.

This 100% I'm only there to troll them and take screenshots and blast them on inceltear lmao

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Exactly.

Incels are the weirdest spawn of people from the internet.

Can't say I'm surprised, but also doesn't larping seem a little weird too? If I were you guys I'd just leave to them their space, you wouldn't want someone saying that about you for being on here.

yeah but making fun of them is better lol

 

[Hardcore_Henry]

no joke...i kinda want to join just to see what kind of shit they get up to. Morbid curiosity i guess.

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

As an incel myself, I can confirm we're definitely quite unhinged. Makes me wish more of us were willing to kill ourselves just so we could all collectively make the world a better place by doing so. I have said before that I believe or maybe just hope we may be able to convince some governments and other influential parties to relax their restrictions on peaceful suicide methods if it means more incels or other such evil people would use them to rid themselves from this earth.

I couldn't even join the incels forum because they ban putting women on a pedestal by…making one your profile picture…… A lot of them also tended to give me scrutiny when they find out I'm taller than them like come on guys, just because I have some height doesn't mean I'm not still fat, ugly, short-dicked, barely making minimum wage, and insecure. I guess I don't belong even with other incels it seems.

 

[trashhologram]

This 100% I'm only there to troll them and take screenshots and blast them on inceltear lmao

Thank you for your service ✌ I love that subreddit!

As an incel myself, I can confirm we're definitely quite unhinged. Makes me wish more of us were willing to kill ourselves just so we could all collectively make the world a better place by doing so. I have said before that I believe or maybe just hope we may be able to convince some governments and other influential parties to relax their restrictions on peaceful suicide methods if it means more incels or other such evil people would use them to rid themselves from this earth.

I couldn't even join the incels forum because they ban putting women on a pedestal by…making one your profile picture…… A lot of them also tended to give me scrutiny when they find out I'm taller than them like come on guys, just because I have some height doesn't mean I'm not still fat, ugly, short-dicked, barely making minimum wage, and insecure. I guess I don't belong even with other incels it seems.

Maybe it's for better that they don't want you on their circlejerk forums. Without them you have a better chance of changing how you think of women, sex etc. Without the forums I think you have a much better chance to not stay an incel. You sound like the nicest incel ever. ❤ You have material to become a non-incel if you want to.

 

[GhostShell]

The life of incels would get so much better if they realized that relationships and sex dont guarantee happiness. Chasing something that they will likely find overrated in the end anyway.

I have a loving wife, am extremely happy in my current relationship with a literal soulmate and yet I am still here, truly a head scratcher.

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

Maybe it's for better that they don't want you on their circlejerk forums. Without them you have a better chance of changing how you think of women, sex etc. Without the forums I think you have a much better chance to not stay an incel. You sound like the nicest incel ever. ❤ You have material to become a non-incel if you want to.

Thanks. I appreciate your optimism but I'm not an incel because of what I believe, I am an incel because it's just what I am. Stripped to its bare definition: 'involuntary celibate', is mainly what I mean when I say I am one. I suppose unlike other incels, I don't hate women for it (I hate myself more than anyone else) but it doesn't change what I am regardless. I don't need to be exposed to incel discourse to be one and in fact I find most of it quite tiresome even when I do see why someone would feel that way. I never even heard of Andrew Tate or whatever his name was until he had already been arrested.

Unfortunately there doesn't seem to be much for me to change when it comes to my opinion of women since I don't blame them and I don't hold any ill will towards them overall. It's too late for me to change anything about myself anyway since I know if I could have, then I certainly would have by now. I don't see any point in me relinquishing the incel label too because like I said, it's what I am. There's no point in denying I am an incel. It'd be like denying that I am allergic to pollen or that I have diabetes. No matter how deluded I get in that front it doesn't change any of these facts until a girl actually shows interest in me (and follows through once they get to know the real me), I stop sneezing during the Spring, or my blood sugar suddenly normalizes respectively. My inability to change any of these is enough reason for me to feel like I should die.

 

[Seered Doom]

Yeah, it's probably for the overall betterment that you don't join those areas. Most of them are altright misogynists

 

[SexyIncél]

Love & sex are human needs. It's possible to fulfill needs (like food & shelter), yet still be suicidal

There's no friend of mine I'd tell "Eh, stop desiring relationships & sex". This is shit we tell incels, because no one gives a fuuuuuuuuck about male pain. Maybe we could take a break from heroically trolling lonely men, and read some obscure feminist like bell hooks:

"We construct a culture where male pain can have no voice, where male hurt cannot be named or healed. It is not just men who do not take their pain seriously. Most women do not want to deal with male pain if it interferes with the satisfaction of female desire. When feminist movement led to men's liberation, including male exploration of "feelings," some women mocked male emotional expression with the same disgust and contempt as sexist men. Despite all the expressed feminist longing for men of feeling, when men worked to get in touch with feelings, no one really wanted to reward them. In feminist circles men who wanted to change were often labeled narcissistic or needy. Individual men who expressed feelings were often seen as attention seekers, patriarchal manipulators trying to steal the stage with their drama.

"When I was in my twenties, I would go to couples therapy, and my partner of more than ten years would explain how I asked him to talk about his feelings and when he did, I would freak out. He was right. It was hard for me to face that I did not want to hear about his feelings when they were painful or negative, that I did not want my image of the strong man truly challenged by learning of his weaknesses and vulnerabilities."

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Ok, so why are menfolk so pissed?

"Anger often hides depression and profound sorrow."

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Can't they express it in other ways?

"There is only one emotion that patriarchy values when expressed by men; that emotion is anger. Real men get mad. And their mad-ness, no matter how violent or violating, is deemed natural—a positive expression of patriarchal masculinity.

"Patriarchal boys, like their adult counterparts, know the rules: they know they must not express feelings, with the exception of anger; that they must not do anything considered feminine or womanly. A national survey of adolescent males revealed their passive acceptance of patriarchal masculinity. Researchers found that boys agreed that to be truly manly, they must command respect, be tough, not talk about problems, and dominate females."

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So? Let's just ignore it!

"Emotionally abandoned by parents and by society as a whole, many boys are angry, but no one really cares about this anger unless it leads to violent behavior. If boys take their rage and sit in front of a computer all day, never speaking, never relating, no one cares. If boys take their rage to the mall, no one cares, as long as it is contained. [...]

"Patriarchy both creates the rage in boys and then contains it for later use, making it a resource to exploit later on as boys become men. As a national product, this rage can be garnered to further imperialism, hatred, and oppression of women and men globally. This rage is needed if boys are to become men willing to travel around the world to fight wars without ever demanding that other ways of solving conflict be found."

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Or maybe let's troll them!
poke the bear
poke the bear
the manosphere grows
and we'll reap what we sow

 

[Seered Doom]

Honestly? On the troll bit, considering where I live in the USA, I don't have much to lose

 

[trashhologram]

Thanks. I appreciate your optimism but I'm not an incel because of what I believe, I am an incel because it's just what I am. Stripped to its bare definition: 'involuntary celibate', is mainly what I mean when I say I am one. I suppose unlike other incels, I don't hate women for it (I hate myself more than anyone else) but it doesn't change what I am regardless. I don't need to be exposed to incel discourse to be one and in fact I find most of it quite tiresome even when I do see why someone would feel that way. I never even heard of Andrew Tate or whatever his name was until he had already been arrested.

Unfortunately there doesn't seem to be much for me to change when it comes to my opinion of women since I don't blame them and I don't hold any ill will towards them overall. It's too late for me to change anything about myself anyway since I know if I could have, then I certainly would have by now. I don't see any point in me relinquishing the incel label too because like I said, it's what I am. There's no point in denying I am an incel. It'd be like denying that I am allergic to pollen or that I have diabetes. No matter how deluded I get in that front it doesn't change any of these facts until a girl actually shows interest in me (and follows through once they get to know the real me), I stop sneezing during the Spring, or my blood sugar suddenly normalizes respectively. My inability to change any of these is enough reason for me to feel like I should die.

Sure, you know your situation better than anyone else. What I meant is that those forums aren't good for anyone. They're misogynistic echochambers. You don't sound like a misogynistic, hateful incel. It would be a shame if you would turn into one.

 

[FujoshiNeet]

Same goes for the femcel community. They are exceptionally hateful. Like damn, I dislike most men, but I'm not obsessed with hating them.

 

[SexyIncél]

Honestly? On the troll bit, considering where I live in the USA, I don't have much to lose

<shrug> No worries. For your penance I'd better unleash a little misogyny on a poor willing gal

 

[Seered Doom]

<shrug> No worries. For your penance I'd better unleash a little misogyny on a poor willing gal

Oh my god lol, I've seen that and damn bro. That slaps. I love your prose

 

[Dysgenic Pup]

"He said a bad thing on the Internet!"

This is like going to a Neo-Nazi rally and not expecting Nazis. Yes, people on the Internet, primarily due to a sense of anonymity, can say off-the-wall shit, typically for purposes of self-entertainment and trolling. The Incel subculture is just a part of the wider obscure edgy, trolly corner of the Internet. I doubt these people care if you call them "misogynists" or "pedophiles" because that's the point of many of their messages: attracting attention for purposes of their entertainment. Of course, some of these people believe what they say, and I doubt those people care about insults if they're already that far down the rabbit hole in their beliefs. All Incels probably believe marginally in what they say but exaggerate it for some aforementioned reason. r/IncelTears isn't "getting back at the Incels" when many of them probably find that kind of stuff amusing. With all that being said, I'm not an Incel apologist or something; I just try not to take a lot of the edgy shit I see on the Internet that seriously.

 

[migimortis]

Same goes for the femcel community. They are exceptionally hateful. Like damn, I dislike most men, but I'm not obsessed with hating them.

I still can't believe femcels exist. Someone should just make an incel meets femcel dating app and call it a day. Match made in heaven (or hell lol).

 

[Thanksforeverything]

I still can't believe femcels exist. Someone should just make an incel meets femcel dating app and call it a day. Match made in heaven (or hell lol).

Lmao I didn't know what r/inceltears was, so I went to go take a look. Guess what's the first thing I found?

 

[TheSpookyNameGuy]

Yea and those Andrew Tate fuckers are the worst.

It's weird to me being so bad with girls, now i don't have a single care for love or any of that shit so they get treat just like guys to me.

Never had any issues with that, i see these incels refer to them as "Females" or breeding terms and i just cringe so bad.

If anyone here is one of those angry little weirdos, you are fucked up and that's coming from me..

 

[Disappointered]

I don't believe that "most" of them think rape and pedophilia are okay. That's a gross exaggeration.

 

[Rapière]

Thanks. I appreciate your optimism but I'm not an incel because of what I believe, I am an incel because it's just what I am. Stripped to its bare definition: 'involuntary celibate', is mainly what I mean when I say I am one. I suppose unlike other incels, I don't hate women for it (I hate myself more than anyone else) but it doesn't change what I am regardless. I don't need to be exposed to incel discourse to be one and in fact I find most of it quite tiresome even when I do see why someone would feel that way. I never even heard of Andrew Tate or whatever his name was until he had already been arrested.

Unfortunately there doesn't seem to be much for me to change when it comes to my opinion of women since I don't blame them and I don't hold any ill will towards them overall. It's too late for me to change anything about myself anyway since I know if I could have, then I certainly would have by now. I don't see any point in me relinquishing the incel label too because like I said, it's what I am. There's no point in denying I am an incel. It'd be like denying that I am allergic to pollen or that I have diabetes. No matter how deluded I get in that front it doesn't change any of these facts until a girl actually shows interest in me (and follows through once they get to know the real me), I stop sneezing during the Spring, or my blood sugar suddenly normalizes respectively. My inability to change any of these is enough reason for me to feel like I should die.

Everyone knows the incel term is connected to mysogenistic beliefs. This is like calling yourself an antisemite while claiming that you don't actually hate jews or hold any ill will against them.

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

Everyone knows the incel term is connected to mysogenistic beliefs. This is like calling yourself an antisemite while claiming that you don't actually hate jews or hold any ill will against them.

False equivalence. Anti-Semite has the prefix 'anti' which usually means 'to be against' and Semitism refers to the Jewish faith. Anti-semite literally means being opposed to Judaism.

Incel on the other hand stands for 'involuntary celibate'. The word involuntary usually means 'against your will' and celibate means 'abstaining from marriage or sex' taken by its literal definition, 'incel' means being made to abstain from marriage or sex against their will. Nothing about either of these root words indicates a mandatory misogyny mentality nor even any ounce of hatred within them.

Just because society is forcing a different meaning out of the incel term due to admittedly many bad actors, it doesn't make me any less of one. People make shit up all the time about suicidal people like saying we must all be whiny emo kids who just need to be put in a timeout corner (aka a psych ward) to feel better but nothing about society's image of wanting to kill yourself guarantees anything else about us as individuals.

Besides I also think the label helps prevent people from making the rash decision of thinking I don't deserve all of my misery. Just because I don't hate women or blame them for my celibacy doesn't mean I'm a good person so why bother fooling anyone into thinking otherwise?

 

[Rapière]

False equivalence. Anti-Semite has the prefix 'anti' which usually means 'to be against' and Semitism refers to the Jewish faith. Anti-semite literally means being opposed to Judaism.

Incel on the other hand stands for 'involuntary celibate'. The word involuntary usually means 'against your will' and celibate means 'abstaining from marriage or sex' taken by its literal definition, 'incel' means being made to abstain from marriage or sex against their will. Nothing about either of these root words indicates a mandatory misogyny mentality nor even any ounce of hatred within them.

Just because society is forcing a different meaning out of the incel term due to admittedly many bad actors, it doesn't make me any less of one. People make shit up all the time about suicidal people like saying we must all be whiny emo kids who just need to be put in a timeout corner (aka a psych ward) to feel better but nothing about society's image of wanting to kill yourself guarantees anything else about us as individuals.

Besides I also think the label helps prevent people from making the rash decision of thinking I don't deserve all of my misery. Just because I don't hate women or blame them for my celibacy doesn't mean I'm a good person so why bother fooling anyone into thinking otherwise?

Ok, I get it... you just like arguing and making people upset. That's fine -- I have some of that myself -- but can you atlest cool down a bit with the empathy-hustling? it's really cringe.

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

Ok, I get it... you just like arguing and making people upset. That's fine -- I have some of that myself -- but can you atlest cool down a bit with the empathy-hustling? it's really cringe.

I don't understand how me making an ass of myself and identifying as something clearly seen as bad means I must be farming for empathy but go off I guess. I can't help being cringe though, that too is who I am.

 

[Rapière]

I don't understand how me making an ass of myself and identifying as something clearly seen as bad means I must be farming for empathy but go off I guess. I can't help being cringe though, that too is who I am.

Sorry if I misjudged your character. You're not the first "I'm not like the other incels..." poster here.