Venting I’m sad that my crush stopped talking to me

[sserafim]

I'm sad that my crush stopped talking to me. I like to consider myself aroace, but there's this one guy I liked, and last year he stopped talking to me. For whatever reason, I don't know. He was fun and interesting to talk to. Ugh I'm still sad about this. Lol whatever…

 

[ijustwishtodie]

I'm sorry that this happened to you. Hopefully this isn't permanent and your crush decides to talk with you again. Though since he stopped talking to you last year, I think that maybe it's permanent after all. But who knows, hopefully you get some sort of luck on your side. Either way, I wish you the best

 

[mortuarymary]

Maybe he met someone but should have got the guts to tell you this.

 

[sserafim]

Maybe he met someone but should have got the guts to tell you this.

Lol he has a girlfriend now but I was just his platonic acquaintance/friend.

 

[mortuarymary]

Lol he has a girlfriend now but I was just his platonic acquaintance/friend

still a shitty thing to do to you

 

[swankysoup]

I'm in a similar boat, i drove away my friends and my crush because well i'm mentally screwed, i didn't understand how serious suicide was at the time. I can't cope with this loneliness. It's a terrible feeling when they just stop caring about you.

 

[OMAX]

being an ace guy myself i somewhat relate.... tbh never even heard about any other ace person in my whole country, successful relationship ever seems like just a dream really, but it is what it is I hope you got more luck in the future

 

[sserafim]

still a shitty thing to do to you

Yeah I guess so…why do you think he would stop talking to me though?

 

[OMAX]

Yeah I guess so…why do you think he would stop talking to me though?

well considering he got a girlfriend probably another girl appeared that he liked more than you as brutal as it is

 

[sserafim]

well considering he got a girlfriend probably another girl appeared that he liked more than you as brutal as it is

I'm not sure if he ever even had any romantic interest in me though.

 

[Grumble]

Yeah I guess so…why do you think he would stop talking to me though?

1. He considered (considers?) you as a potential partner or hookup.
or
2. He doesn't want to give his girlfriend the wrong impression.
or
3. His girlfriend told him to.
or
4. Your acquaintanceship naturally ran its course.

 

[sserafim]

1. He considered (considers?) you as a potential partner or hookup.
or
2. He doesn't want to give his girlfriend the wrong impression.
or
3. His girlfriend told him to.
or
4. Your acquaintanceship naturally ran its course.

What do you mean by that (4)? Why would he stop being acquaintances with me? Did he lose interest or something?

 

[Grumble]

What do you mean by that (4)? Why would he stop being acquaintances with me? Did he lose interest or something?

I really wouldn't make any negative assumptions about yourself here. Something drew him to you in the first place, so there's gotta be some kind of good qualities about you.

Why an acquaintanceship would fade, it could be any number of a thousand reasons, and a lot of those possible reasons are absolutely no reflection upon you whatsoever.

 

[Silent Raindrops]

Hopefully things will look up for you. Just don't beat yourself up over it.

 

[ignoranceisblisss]

What was it about them that you liked personality, looks, or the convos you had? :3

 

[Sleeper System]

I'm sad that my crush stopped talking to me. I like to consider myself aroace, but there's this one guy I liked, and last year he stopped talking to me. For whatever reason, I don't know. He was fun and interesting to talk to. Ugh I'm still sad about this. Lol whatever…

I'm going to play the devils advocate as per usual and blame the victim on this one.
You liked him but it sounds like you never indicated that to him nor did he indicate that he had feelings for you either.
This is a blameless crime. If somone has to take the fall then I suspect it's that asshole "poor communication skills" fault.
He didn't do anything wrong. He simply drifted from the ship. He had no obligation to you nor you to him if he felt he could just do that.

I say this. Move on kid. Plenty of fish in the sea. Sexy fish. O__O Kidnap one and make him yours.
And don't forget to communicate!

 

[sserafim]

What was it about them that you liked personality, looks, or the convos you had? :3

Everything

 

[ignoranceisblisss]

Everything

hahaha thats so real

 

[sserafim]

I'm sorry that this happened to you. Hopefully this isn't permanent and your crush decides to talk with you again. Though since he stopped talking to you last year, I think that maybe it's permanent after all. But who knows, hopefully you get some sort of luck on your side. Either way, I wish you the best

Yeah, unfortunately, I think it's permanent. I didn't watch his most recent ig story out of sadness and spite, not that he would notice anyways. He left me on read and I'm not going to reach out to him because I don't want to seem "desperate". Maybe he just didn't want to talk to me anymore, who the fuck knows…

 

[Napoleon]

I'm sad that my crush stopped talking to me. I like to consider myself aroace, but there's this one guy I liked, and last year he stopped talking to me. For whatever reason, I don't know. He was fun and interesting to talk to. Ugh I'm still sad about this. Lol whatever…

IKTF. In my case, I know why she's stopped talking to me, and I think it's probably entirely my fault. Thinking about it, I really don't know if that makes it better or worse.