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sserafim

sserafim

they say it’s darkest of all before the dawn
Sep 13, 2023
2,678
I'm sad that my crush stopped talking to me. I like to consider myself aroace, but there's this one guy I liked, and last year he stopped talking to me. For whatever reason, I don't know. He was fun and interesting to talk to. Ugh I'm still sad about this. Lol whatever…
 
ijustwishtodie

ijustwishtodie

death will be my ultimate bliss
Oct 29, 2023
1,115
I'm sorry that this happened to you. Hopefully this isn't permanent and your crush decides to talk with you again. Though since he stopped talking to you last year, I think that maybe it's permanent after all. But who knows, hopefully you get some sort of luck on your side. Either way, I wish you the best
 
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swankysoup

Member
Feb 12, 2024
11
I'm in a similar boat, i drove away my friends and my crush because well i'm mentally screwed, i didn't understand how serious suicide was at the time. I can't cope with this loneliness. It's a terrible feeling when they just stop caring about you.
 
OMAX

OMAX

Member
Oct 8, 2023
6
being an ace guy myself i somewhat relate.... tbh never even heard about any other ace person in my whole country, successful relationship ever seems like just a dream really, but it is what it is I hope you got more luck in the future
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sserafim

sserafim

they say it’s darkest of all before the dawn
Sep 13, 2023
2,678
well considering he got a girlfriend probably another girl appeared that he liked more than you as brutal as it is
I'm not sure if he ever even had any romantic interest in me though.
 
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Grumble

Lingering
Aug 25, 2018
161
Yeah I guess so…why do you think he would stop talking to me though?
1. He considered (considers?) you as a potential partner or hookup.
or
2. He doesn't want to give his girlfriend the wrong impression.
or
3. His girlfriend told him to.
or
4. Your acquaintanceship naturally ran its course.
 
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sserafim

sserafim

they say it’s darkest of all before the dawn
Sep 13, 2023
2,678
1. He considered (considers?) you as a potential partner or hookup.
or
2. He doesn't want to give his girlfriend the wrong impression.
or
3. His girlfriend told him to.
or
4. Your acquaintanceship naturally ran its course.
What do you mean by that (4)? Why would he stop being acquaintances with me? Did he lose interest or something?
 
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Grumble

Lingering
Aug 25, 2018
161
What do you mean by that (4)? Why would he stop being acquaintances with me? Did he lose interest or something?
I really wouldn't make any negative assumptions about yourself here. Something drew him to you in the first place, so there's gotta be some kind of good qualities about you.

Why an acquaintanceship would fade, it could be any number of a thousand reasons, and a lot of those possible reasons are absolutely no reflection upon you whatsoever.
 
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Silent Raindrops

Silent Raindrops

The Darkness Awaits Me
Feb 3, 2024
222
Hopefully things will look up for you. Just don't beat yourself up over it.
 
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ignoranceisblisss

ignoranceisblisss

Member
Feb 6, 2024
16
What was it about them that you liked personality, looks, or the convos you had? :3
 
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Sleeper System

Sleeper System

Z z Z z Z z Z z Z z Z
May 5, 2022
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I'm sad that my crush stopped talking to me. I like to consider myself aroace, but there's this one guy I liked, and last year he stopped talking to me. For whatever reason, I don't know. He was fun and interesting to talk to. Ugh I'm still sad about this. Lol whatever…
I'm going to play the devils advocate as per usual and blame the victim on this one.
You liked him but it sounds like you never indicated that to him nor did he indicate that he had feelings for you either.
This is a blameless crime. If somone has to take the fall then I suspect it's that asshole "poor communication skills" fault.
He didn't do anything wrong. He simply drifted from the ship. He had no obligation to you nor you to him if he felt he could just do that.

I say this. Move on kid. Plenty of fish in the sea. Sexy fish. O__O Kidnap one and make him yours.
And don't forget to communicate!
 
sserafim

sserafim

they say it’s darkest of all before the dawn
Sep 13, 2023
2,678
I'm sorry that this happened to you. Hopefully this isn't permanent and your crush decides to talk with you again. Though since he stopped talking to you last year, I think that maybe it's permanent after all. But who knows, hopefully you get some sort of luck on your side. Either way, I wish you the best
Yeah, unfortunately, I think it's permanent. I didn't watch his most recent ig story out of sadness and spite, not that he would notice anyways. He left me on read and I'm not going to reach out to him because I don't want to seem "desperate". Maybe he just didn't want to talk to me anymore, who the fuck knows…
 
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Napoleon

Napoleon

Member
Aug 5, 2023
16
I'm sad that my crush stopped talking to me. I like to consider myself aroace, but there's this one guy I liked, and last year he stopped talking to me. For whatever reason, I don't know. He was fun and interesting to talk to. Ugh I'm still sad about this. Lol whatever…
IKTF. In my case, I know why she's stopped talking to me, and I think it's probably entirely my fault. Thinking about it, I really don't know if that makes it better or worse.
 
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