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ThatStateOfMind
Enlightened
- Nov 13, 2021
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I recently learned that, like many of you told me but I brushed you guys off because I thought I knew my ex better, she was talking to the guy she was with while we were together. It was in the last week and he convinced her to break up with me. It fucking hurts to hear it but it came from her, she said it was eating her alive.
I feel so close to ending it but she said she would kill herself if I killed myself. She said that it was only in the last week and over text. I might still kill myself. I have a shotgun, it'll be messy but it'll get the job done if I do it. She probably hates me and I don't blame her.
She said she loves me and still cares for me (she wouldn't directly say love but I did and she said "I still have those feelings for you"). It's throwing me for a huge loop and it's giving me a headache. I think I hurt her though unintentionally, I told her "Why would I care what you do if I'm dead" and she just seemed stunned.
I hated this conversation and she refuses to leave him because she said he'll eventually get tired of her anyways like he does with every girl and she wants to give him a fair chance, and she felt like there might be a second chance with me but not with him so idek bro.
All I ask of you guys is to please not be too harsh on me, I still love her and I can't help it. I still want her. I want to end it all at the same time, but those of you who said she was cheating on me, were pretty much right. God, I'm so fucking stupid for not seeing it sooner and I'm even more stupid for still loving her.
I wish I could give myself a heart attack or something so my death wouldn't be an obvious suicide and my mom wouldn't be as hurt, knowing I killed myself.
She also said that I should leave this forum as it's glorifying suicide, she holds a typical view of this site from an outside perspective. She even threatened to call the cops on me.
I explained that cops won't do shit, most they'll do is a wellness check, they don't have enough for a search warrant and even if they did, there's nothing here. She said "What about your wills, they would question it" and I said "It's not illegal to have a will, and younger people die every day, plus it's all digital".
I don't know guys, she still cares but did this to me, and as stupid as I sound, I still care and love her. I feel like she's somewhat of a victim because I treated her like shit and she was vulnerable.
I might end it all tonight, idk, I just don't see a light at the end of this tunnel.
I feel so close to ending it but she said she would kill herself if I killed myself. She said that it was only in the last week and over text. I might still kill myself. I have a shotgun, it'll be messy but it'll get the job done if I do it. She probably hates me and I don't blame her.
She said she loves me and still cares for me (she wouldn't directly say love but I did and she said "I still have those feelings for you"). It's throwing me for a huge loop and it's giving me a headache. I think I hurt her though unintentionally, I told her "Why would I care what you do if I'm dead" and she just seemed stunned.
I hated this conversation and she refuses to leave him because she said he'll eventually get tired of her anyways like he does with every girl and she wants to give him a fair chance, and she felt like there might be a second chance with me but not with him so idek bro.
All I ask of you guys is to please not be too harsh on me, I still love her and I can't help it. I still want her. I want to end it all at the same time, but those of you who said she was cheating on me, were pretty much right. God, I'm so fucking stupid for not seeing it sooner and I'm even more stupid for still loving her.
I wish I could give myself a heart attack or something so my death wouldn't be an obvious suicide and my mom wouldn't be as hurt, knowing I killed myself.
She also said that I should leave this forum as it's glorifying suicide, she holds a typical view of this site from an outside perspective. She even threatened to call the cops on me.
I explained that cops won't do shit, most they'll do is a wellness check, they don't have enough for a search warrant and even if they did, there's nothing here. She said "What about your wills, they would question it" and I said "It's not illegal to have a will, and younger people die every day, plus it's all digital".
I don't know guys, she still cares but did this to me, and as stupid as I sound, I still care and love her. I feel like she's somewhat of a victim because I treated her like shit and she was vulnerable.
I might end it all tonight, idk, I just don't see a light at the end of this tunnel.