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Ghost2211

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Jan 20, 2020
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Ex told me if I ctb he will need to get rid my depressed 8 year olds beloved bird. He won't listen to reason, and just yells at me how it's my fault if everyones life gets ruined for leaving. He also says he won't be able to finish the training for his high paying career and the kids will have a lesser life. He said my autistic 2 year old won't get his aba therapy anymore since he won't be able to afford childcare. He said he will support the household fully and not take this kids, but I have to just magically cope with being used, abandoned, replaced, and forced into the world he created for the sake of the kids and bird.

I need to eat a mj candy morning and early evening to not want to yell cry and ctb. I don't even get to tell him how I feel since he holds all the cards. All that gets me through the day is knowing that one day the kids will be old enough that they won't be as dependent, and he will lose his tools for manipulation and control.

I envy those who get to die. One day.... Every day that passes is one day closer to eternal sleep, and as a final fuck you to him for what he took from me and did to me my note to my adult children will include telling them what he did and why I needed to die despite loving them with every ounce of my being.

well, time to go mildly sedate myself to get through another evening.
 
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noaccount

Enlightened
Oct 26, 2019
1,099
ABA Therapy is abuse.


From a former practitioner:

It was invented by the same man who created anti-Gay "conversion therapy."

 
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Ghost2211

Archangel
Jan 20, 2020
6,015
ABA Therapy is abuse.


From a former practitioner:

It was invented by the same man who created anti-Gay "conversion therapy."

I don't know what you think they do in aba, but all he has to do i point of make a letter sound for a desired object...

He just does repetitive stuff to learn how to talk, and use non verbal communication. He's high functioning, but I think learning to communicate would help.
 
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Pan

Paragon
Oct 24, 2019
913
So sorry you are having such problems, rosey bird. As for your ex, he is long overdue for a wake call.
 
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noaccount

Enlightened
Oct 26, 2019
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The articles are worth reading.
 
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Esc9434

Experienced
Feb 25, 2020
291
Not encouraging you to ctb, but...

If you were to do so...

He could probably get government assistance. Yeah, it is probably harder for single fathers to get this.

Get food from food bank.

Look for other assistance due to the disability of your kids.

All these things can lessen his burden of taking care of the kids.
 

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