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noname223

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The interesting thing many members will probably feel addressed by this post. This is the nature of the internet and we all should be aware of that. I think I was a little bit too naive because I believed that person.

I know very hot topic. So hot that it is hard to touch. I won't drop names. I have many (strong) indicators someone on here plays a role. The person doesn't really have a bad agenda. It is not a pro-death person. This is something where I would feel the need to make it public. The person is probably just attention seeking.
And actually there is the small chance I am wrong. I don't have a 100% proof. And to make my approach transparent I used an AI chatbot to analyze posts and information that person shared on here. And I compared the information with other information available out there on the internet. And things don't really align. On some issues it is quite contradictory also about their biography. And it doesn't add up. I won't go into detail. I don't want that there is too much speculation about that person. But the person put a lot of work into this presumably fake identity. So much work that I actually considered it extremely unlikely this person could be fake. For some this might be a weird hobby having fake online identities. I am not sure how I evaluate that ethically. For me it depends on many factors. I would not consider this member from what I know a real bad actors. There were way worse bad actors exposed on here.

Maybe this thread will be locked or deleted. People might criticize the method using an AI chatbot. I don't want to go into details why I consider the findings of the chatbot to be convincing. I used in-depth research on the chatbot for which I also pay. I once did a free version of an AI chatbot that didn't find the contradictions. But as I said this time I put a lot more effort into it.
I don't really want to have too many enemies in the forum. And I could be wrong.

The bottom line is: doubt the members on here. Take what they say with a grain of salt. But don't be mean. Just a healthy dosage of skepticism.
I trusted that person. This trust is now shattered. I will be even more careful on here who to trust. I am not even really angry at that person. I just feel dumb for being so naive and that I didn't factcheck them more earlier. Actually, I already did such a factcheck about that member but with way less effort. On this research today I put some effort in it.

One last passage: Maybe the person shared wrong personal information about themselves to distract from their real identity. And the contradictions were made intentionally so that no one could identify them. One cannot rule that out. The whole thing sounds for me more like attention seeking though.
 
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Lost in a Dream

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I don't know who the person is that you're talking about but all I can say is I'm my real self when I'm here. I just use an alias because using my real name on a suicide forum could get me hospitalized ya know? Sorry they broke your trust.
 
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Aflame5926

Aflame5926

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but what do you mean not a pro-death person? is it pro choice pro life?
even with the fake identity i dont think its a problem unless there is bad intention hidden.
unless that person has bad intention i dont think you should care much about it. else report it and let the mods handle it
 
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noname223

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but what do you mean not a pro-death person? is it pro choice pro life?
even with the fake identity i dont think its a problem unless there is bad intention hidden.
unless that person has bad intention i dont think you should care much about it. else report it and let the mods handle it
There were bad actors on here that pushed a pro-death agenda. I would consider that immoral if the person actually would not stand behind such an opinion.
The person doesn't seem to push a certain agenda. It is more diffuse. As I said I think it is just attention seeking.
 
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dragonofenvy

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The bottom line is: doubt the members on here. Take what they say with a grain of salt. But don't be mean. Just a healthy dosage of skepticism.
As much as I like people on here, never in a million years would I ever trust them. I know I am extremely different here than I am irl. On a website like this sharing personal details about yourself is one of the most dangerous things you can do.
 
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noname223

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As much as I like people on here, never in a million years would I ever trust them. I know I am extremely different here than I am irl. On a website like this sharing personal details about yourself is one of the most dangerous things you can do.
Thankfully I didn't share information that could identify me.
 
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Aflame5926

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There were bad actors on here that pushed a pro-death agenda. I would consider that immoral if the person actually would not stand behind such an opinion.
The person doesn't seem to push a certain agenda. It is more diffuse. As I said I think it is just attention seeking.
to be honest if its just attention seeking i wouldnt care much about it. so long it aint harmfull to the community and its members why bother?.
it probally wont be the first one and certainly not the last one.

to be honest certain things example about myself is fake. for example age i keep vague about. but its 30+ for sure. (country i dont care its NL)
i do share my experiences which are real. but aside from that ill just fill it with bullshit so there wont be a trace to the actually me.

so without going into details specific what happend that you lost your trust in that person?
 
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noname223

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to be honest if its just attention seeking i wouldnt care much about it. so long it aint harmfull to the community and its members why bother?.
it probally wont be the first one and certainly not the last one.

to be honest certain things example about myself is fake. for example age i keep vague about. but its 30+ for sure. (country i dont care its NL)
i do share my experiences which are real. but aside from that ill just fill it with bullshit so there wont be a trace to the actually me.

so without going into details specific what happend that you lost your trust in that person?
I am not sure how obvious it who I mean for people who follow my posting. But I think I won't go into more details.
 
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dragonofenvy

dragonofenvy

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to be honest if its just attention seeking i wouldnt care much about it
In fairness, that is what this site is about in the first place. Or at least why I make posts anyways.
 
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Pluto

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