If I hear “Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem” one more time I am out of here

[CemetryGates]

Who do these people think they are, Socretes, Plato? Wow yes very clever. Fucking unbearable man.

 

[NoLightRemains]

Nothing more than a cliche people tell themselves so they don't have to face the reality that not every problem is temporary.

 

[Mofreeko]

Just flip it around on them. Anecdotes cut both ways. "Suicide is a permanent solution to all future problems."

 

[CemetryGates]

Nothing more than a cliche people tell themselves so they don't have to face the reality that not every problem is temporary.

I saw something yesterday on reddit about a person using another person wanting to commit on suicide watch for their upvotes. It was horrible. People are so out of touch with what mental illness really is, it is mind blowing.

Just flip it around on them. Anecdotes cut both ways. "Suicide is a permanent solution to all future problems."

Haha love that definitely will use this next time

 

[makethepainstop]

Saying suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem, is a crock of crap. That saying is like a mantra for those do-gooder fools. I hate em I tell you, hate em.

Just flip it around on them. Anecdotes cut both ways. "Suicide is a permanent solution to all future problems."

It would be funny if some suicidal person said "Your right, maybe homicide is better then whipped out a pistol and started shooting. Bet some do-gooders would drop that suicide is a permanent solution....line for fear of being shot!

Just flip it around on them. Anecdotes cut both ways. "Suicide is a permanent solution to all future problems."

It would be funny if some suicidal person said "Your right, maybe homicide is better then whipped out a pistol and started shooting. Bet some do-gooders would drop that suicide is a permanent solution....line for fear of being shot!

 

[CemetryGates]

Saying suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem, is a crock of crap. That saying is like a mantra for those do-gooder fools. I hate em I tell you, hate em.

It would be funny if some suicidal person said "Your right, maybe homicide is better then whipped out a pistol and started shooting. Bet some do-gooders would drop that suicide is a permanent solution....line for fear of being shot!

It would be funny if some suicidal person said "Your right, maybe homicide is better then whipped out a pistol and started shooting. Bet some do-gooders would drop that suicide is a permanent solution....line for fear of being shot!

What a drag they are

 

[Venus13]

Yea, that one is probably the dumbest of them all. "It gets better" is the one that sets me off because with time mental illness deteriorates the mind and body.

 

[noalarms]

Even worse is "Suicide doesn't end the pain, it just passes it on to someone else"

Do they realise that this is the first thing someone thinks about when they want to ctb?

 

[CemetryGates]

Even worse is "Suicide doesn't end the pain, it just passes it on to someone else"

Do they realise that this is the first thing someone thinks about when they want to ctb?

They make me sick man

 

[almaranthine]

Even worse is "Suicide doesn't end the pain, it just passes it on to someone else"

Do they realise that this is the first thing someone thinks about when they want to ctb?

Also not even true to the extent they are implying... suicide does not have a domino effect. Just because I kill myself doesn't mean my mom, or (if I had one) my sibling is going to end their lives in response to it... therefore, no, you aren't fucking "passing" all the pain and suffering you've personally experienced along otherwise it would inevitably result in another self-inflicted death or attempt. They love to minimize the sheer level and depth of anguish and despair someone must be in to want to end it all. I'm not saying people won't be sad, of course they will grieve, but it shouldn't be that much different than if you died of an illness or accident. Anyone with any empathy should understand the amount of pain a suicidal person was in upon death and at least be happy they've found peace. I hate these goddamn guilt trip sayings they throw around that essentially amount to "you can't end your life because someone that knows you will be sad about it and you should feel bad for them and continue to suffer ok!!"

 

[conflagration]

I read somewhere an interview with the owner of the funeral home. He said that 30% of suicides are impulsive acts, e.g. guy breaks up with his girlfriend and blows his head off with a shotgun. 70% of suicides are lost battles to debilitating chronic mental and physical illnesses. So suicide is most often the only solution to unsolvable problems.

 

[Ligottian]

If a "mental health professional" ever rattles off some cliche like that, the patient should reply, "You're getting paid good money for advice I could get on a cocktail napkin?". OK, I stole that from the original 1970's Bob Newhart Show, an American TV comedy.

 

[FuneralCry]

Pro life type people are annoying. It's best not to listen to them. They cannot understand what others go through as they are unable to experience life the same way.
For me, life itself is the temporary problem and to die is the permanent solution, the best and only solution for me.

To die solves everything anyway. The non existent cannot suffer and as long as someone lives there is unlimited potential for life to get much worse. Nobody can deny that fact. And anyway wouldn't a permanent solution be ideal, at least it would be for me. To die could never be a negative thing, in fact it's simply inevitable for us all. Humans only exist just to die and be forgotten about. There is no point to living.

 

[CemetryGates]

Pro life type people are annoying. It's best not to listen to them. They cannot understand what others go through as they are unable to experience life the same way.
For me, life itself is the temporary problem and to die is the permanent solution, the best and only solution for me.

To die solves everything anyway. The non existent cannot suffer and as long as someone lives there is unlimited potential for life to get much worse. Nobody can deny that fact. And anyway wouldn't a permanent solution be ideal, at least it would be for me. To die could never be a negative thing, in fact it's simply inevitable for us all. Humans only exist just to die and be forgotten about. There is no point to living.

I just really hope I don't reincarnate

 

[hellispink]

Honestly, no one can't choose where in the world they are born at. They can't choose their economic status. They can't choose a healthy body and mind. They can't choose how shitty their parents are. Life is a garbage full of problems, you may solution all of them and hundred more problems will continue appearing to make your existence the shittiest possible. I mean, can we expect something from a system that enslaves its people for capital gain, people that destroy the environment animals and they also keep people sick so they can produce more? Of course pro lifers won't tell anyone to die, they do not want their little slaves (belonging to the shitty system) to go away. If people die there is less gain and more losses in the long run. In this creepy existence, nothing is what it seems. If people think problems are temporary and you can choose everything regarding your destiny, what a way of self deception (this is how most live). After all prolifers live shitty lives and they are forgotten too when they in a stupid grave. Life saviors? I would call them actually cowards for not being able to acknowledge something that is evident. And okay, let's say its not anyone problem if they wanna lie to themselves… but this folks come around and go they exist in every corner looking pathetic with their empty arguments. However cannot see that life depends on what you have and got and what genes you got is just more than a blind senseless individual. I laugh at them, why would I make myself more miserable ? It is not like they are less miserable than me, they are just have more stupidity overall than the general others.

 

[lachrymost]

It's so funny that this platitude doesn't even make suicide look bad. Are we supposed to want temporary solutions?

 

[Insaner_Robot]

Nobody can use that on me, my loved ones are already gone. If that's not permanent nothing is.

 

[CemetryGates]

Nobody can use that on me, my loved ones are already gone. If that's not permanent nothing is.

I'm really sorry for your loss, my family members are the only ones keeping me here can't imagine what you're going through

 

[October112021]

We don't even know that it's permanent. We know absolutely nothing about death.

 

[Insaner_Robot]

I'm really sorry for your loss, my family members are the only ones keeping me here can't imagine what you're going through

I endured for my family too. Cherish them while you can, they might never understand how you feel about things but don't hide it from them (I don't know that you do, just some advice that's all).

 

[HateMyPointlessLife]

I loathe hearing these things. I knew when I was young that things were never going to get better. And I was right. And now they are far worse. I also despise people telling me that I'm wasting my health, or that I should be ashamed of myself, because there are people with cancer and other illnesses who want to live. I would trade places with them in a heartbeat, and let them get to live. Or would donate my organs, if it meant I could die in peace, and other people could live who actually want to. The people who say these things have no clue what mental illness does to you, and how it affects you physically as well as mentally. And I'm just labelled a selfish ungrateful person who doesn't appreciate life, while other people are dying.

 

[Littlewittlelight]

It's so funny that this platitude doesn't even make suicide look bad. Are we supposed to want temporary solutions?

Now they come up with another excuse only suicidal can make this good counter statements but I still want a permanent solution to all my problems. sounds good, sounds better but they just will deny no matter what you got to say.

 

[HermitLonerGuy]

Life itself is temporary problem.

 

[CemetryGates]

Life itself is temporary problem.

Exactly!

 

[chaosandquiet]

Who do these people think they are, Socretes, Plato? Wow yes very clever. Fucking unbearable man.

Right?? It's the audacity that someone thinks they know anything about my problems and whether they are temporary or not (spoiler: they're not). JFC.

 

[Install-Gentoo]

I read somewhere an interview with the owner of the funeral home. He said that 30% of suicides are impulsive acts, e.g. guy breaks up with his girlfriend and blows his head off with a shotgun. 70% of suicides are lost battles to debilitating chronic mental and physical illnesses. So suicide is most often the only solution to unsolvable problems.

Not that I don't believe this, but I would love to see data on this. I just want to know. I want validation on this issue, it would bring me much satisfaction.

 

[idontknovv]

exactly its a solution idk what they expect

 

[CemetryGates]

exactly its a solution idk what they expect

like technically cancer is a temporary problem in your life, but you would want a permanent solution for it. Same for life and depression itself.

 

[gomenasai]

They think they are the shit. So smart, so wise. They're pieces of shit instead.

 

[flightless bird]

Who do these people think they are, Socretes, Plato?

I doubt they would think that, since Socrates also committed suicide. lol