Reincarnation deeply scares me.
I mean, imagine if after death is just like before birth, oblivion then boom your soul get picked or whatever, you get a body and start another life on earth a bit farther in the chronology than your previous life, and there you go, you do it all over again, a bit differently sure, a different era maybe another country and socioeconomic backgrounds but you struggle through life once more, then die, then reincarnate again, and again and again... And you keep trying your best at life bc ''you only live once'' except you actually keep getting another life every time, then another and another and another and you're not even aware of it, you just keep living over and over and over again, you're trapped and you don't know it, it never stops, there's no escape
For what it's worth, those who come very close to death and near death experiences and say they have been to the other side have stated that reincarnation or coming back is a matter of choice.
However, a lot, not all but a lot, of these near death experiences are bizarre and are obviously the products of people's psyche and subconscious. And I think the idea of reincarnation come from these experiences.
If Heaven or the other side is as loving and as healing as these near death experience-ers say it is I cannot imagine that being reincarnated would be forced upon anyone.
People have claimed to have had past lives but these experiences cannot be scientifically verified. The human brain is capable of so much, so much that we are not aware of.
So, there is a very good chance that many paranormal experiences are a product of the human mind.
Right now science and medicine don't really know how consciousness works. But they may get to the point where they do understand it better and are able to explain why near death experiences happen and explain why people believe they've been reincarnated.
And more than likely it will have nothing to do with dying and then being forced back into this life.
For the most part, those who claim to have experienced the divine, say that it is a beautiful experience, there's nothing to fear and that our energy simply becomes a part of everything.
I hate the idea of ever repeating this life. Reincarnation is a very unhealthy idea and those who want to tell us about reincarnation or make money claiming they know that reincarnation is a fact of the afterlife may not even understand the true concept of reincarnation.
When we die our energy leaves our body and as far as anyone can tell our energy just becomes a part of everything.
That sounds more like the true definition of reincarnation.