If they ignore you, they are not worth your time. Period. (I am female)
In my case, I used to make 6 figures. Had I not supported everyone around me, I would be retired now, and have the money to try and find experts in the field to help me. But I am broke. Ironically/horrifically, I am now damaged to the point I can no longer work - and this was at the hands of the person I supported.
So I have a bit of a different take, if you are unsure about what you want to do in the immediate future or where the future will take you (i.e., have any doubts about suicide). my thoughts? Personally, I would keep the job and focus on nothing but accumulating as much money I as I could. Ignore everything else - especially those shallow females.
The bus will always be there and money may give you more options to decide whether or not you want a seat on it.
Much love and peace to you.