I truly hate sex

[snooperdooper]

I truly hate sex. Not that I am repulsed by it, but I hate how much I am attracted to it. I genuinely wish I could do away with all the horniness I embody. To preface I am a trans woman, born a male. I yearn every single day to be an attractive nymphomaniac woman, having sex all the time. I hate it, I hate that thought so much, and I hate how much it invades my mind. I daydream so often and it so often devolves into some sexual thing. Not even my daydreaming is free from the constant hypersexuality that has plagued my life. I wish that I was a girl no matter what, but I also wish I could wish I was a girl without wishing I could have sex as a girl. It sucks so much. Does anybody relate?

 

[ObsidianEnigma]

I sometimes wish I were asexual (not interested in sex at all).

Luckily for me, my libido is decreasing as I get older. No boosting pills for me; I'm happy that this bothers me less and less...

 

[dontwakemeup]

I'm not trans, so I don't understand your point of view. I'd simply like to say, sex is a natural thing we as humans desire, enjoy, and I'm sure we all can agree sometimes or have fantasized at some point about it. I don't think it should be something to be ashamed of.

 

[hemlocked]

It sucks so much. Does anybody relate?

So many times. I so often wish I could be attracted to people only platonically. Like, can I just be a sentient robot please?

 

[eggsausagerice]

when i'm extremely depressed i just fantasize abour having sex so that i get touched and complimented by someone, but i'm a trans man so i often get fetishized in gay communities for being so feminine and cutesy looking. it's dehumanizing to be seen as a woman using he/him by guys trying to fuck. i've also dealt with some chasers before, and they really gross me out.

when i turned 18 i started getting into hookups then i stopped, then i wanted to start again, etc etc. i only really became celibate when i started hating myself and my best friend (only one who understood me) moved away. i still think about sex often because i still get aroused and it distracts me from my suicidal ideation, but any time i imagine actually going on an app and having sex with someone i feel disgusted by the thought of being objectified or being seen as a sexy piece of meat. sure, i can get laid if i try, but i don't have sex with people i find attractive. i just end up finding someone quick and easy to have sex with. sex feels better when you're imagining it instead of when you're doing it, because there's none of the complications that come with doing things in real life.

i hate sex and i hate wanting to masturbate because i just think it's so asinine and stupid. i usually like the service aspect of sex where i'm doing it to make someone else feel good when i feel depressed and lonely, but then the sex ends and we never talk because we have better stuff to do. i feel so guilty when i'm attracted to people in my personal life that i usually repress it or act like i'm not because i don't think anyone's capable of liking me/thinking i'm hot. even with my past hookups i think that they stopped thinking i'm attractive the second they stopped seeing me even though that's not the case. i literally look the same, i just have body dysmorphic disorder. i get nervous when people say i'm attractive because i'm chronically depressed and suicidal so i don't want to burn them by letting them know me. it's really fun to fantasize about being a nympho because i don't have to think about the emptiness that would lead me to wanting to suck 5 different dicks in a week.

 

[snooperdooper]

when i'm extremely depressed i just fantasize abour having sex so that i get touched and complimented by someone, but i'm a trans man so i often get fetishized in gay communities for being so feminine and cutesy looking. it's dehumanizing to be seen as a woman using he/him by guys trying to fuck. i've also dealt with some chasers before, and they really gross me out.

when i turned 18 i started getting into hookups then i stopped, then i wanted to start again, etc etc. i only really became celibate when i started hating myself and my best friend (only one who understood me) moved away. i still think about sex often because i still get aroused and it distracts me from my suicidal ideation, but any time i imagine actually going on an app and having sex with someone i feel disgusted by the thought of being objectified or being seen as a sexy piece of meat. sure, i can get laid if i try, but i don't have sex with people i find attractive. i just end up finding someone quick and easy to have sex with. sex feels better when you're imagining it instead of when you're doing it, because there's none of the complications that come with doing things in real life.

i hate sex and i hate wanting to masturbate because i just think it's so asinine and stupid. i usually like the service aspect of sex where i'm doing it to make someone else feel good when i feel depressed and lonely, but then the sex ends and we never talk because we have better stuff to do. i feel so guilty when i'm attracted to people in my personal life that i usually repress it or act like i'm not because i don't think anyone's capable of liking me/thinking i'm hot. even with my past hookups i think that they stopped thinking i'm attractive the second they stopped seeing me even though that's not the case. i literally look the same, i just have body dysmorphic disorder. i get nervous when people say i'm attractive because i'm chronically depressed and suicidal so i don't want to burn them by letting them know me. it's really fun to fantasize about being a nympho because i don't have to think about the emptiness that would lead me to wanting to suck 5 different dicks in a week.

Relate especially to the guilt about being attracted to people irl. Sometimes I have a fantasy where I live out my life as just a cis girl, and I hate especially when it involves me getting into a relationship with one of my childhood friends. I hate how my mind just wanders onto that idea and I have to shove it away. I don't want to sexualize them, and I feel really guilty when I do even though it is an intrusive thought.

 

[wham311]

I hate intimacy and everything I like hurts myself. Sex is a fucking nightmare. And I'll be homeless soon and you need release, it's an absolute disaster

 

[Alreadylate]

this post is very interesting...

 

[GhostInTheMachine]

I truly hate sex. Not that I am repulsed by it, but I hate how much I am attracted to it. I genuinely wish I could do away with all the horniness I embody. To preface I am a trans woman, born a male. I yearn every single day to be an attractive nymphomaniac woman, having sex all the time. I hate it, I hate that thought so much, and I hate how much it invades my mind. I daydream so often and it so often devolves into some sexual thing. Not even my daydreaming is free from the constant hypersexuality that has plagued my life. I wish that I was a girl no matter what, but I also wish I could wish I was a girl without wishing I could have sex as a girl. It sucks so much. Does anybody relate?

So many people lining up to use this as fuel for the "Blanchard was right about trannies" narrative. That aside, one could argue that being denied normal, mudane intercourse as the sex we identify as leads to hypersexualization as one can't properly vent their sexual urges due to their biology being a limiting factor. That's where I feel like I fall into, especially after experimenting with the more *eccentric* fetishes that feed off this state of mind. These days I just look at sexual urges are a mere itch to scratch, and with my HRT having sapped most of the male-brained libido away, I've settled on a simple daily bust to scratch it.

Ngl tho, sex on LSD do go crazy, but even that didn't seem as satisfying as just boring vanilla sex with somebody I love. It's a special kind of sting knowing that I'll have intiacy issues with my BF because of my anatomy.

 

[StupidCat]

Just jerk off. Works for me.

 

[neurotoxic]

I relate but for slightly different reasons. I detransitioned after about 10 years and without HRT I very much hate the libido and wish I could do away with that as well.