I think love is not such a big deal

[WornOutLife]

***WARNING 1. I'M NOT A LOVE EXPERT. THIS IS JUST MY OPINION***
***WARNING 2: I'M ONLY REFERRING TO THE KIND OF LOVE AS REGARDS A BF/GF***

I've seen many people concerned about love but, do you really think it is what you need?
Sure, love will make you feel the happiest human being on Earth for some time but it's also full of pain because of jealousy, routine, mistrust, etc.

Also, I don't feel ready to date anyone because of my suicidal thoughts. I just don't know how long I'll be here. I've experienced love before and the magic is only temporary. Those people who get married and live together until they're grey and old are just amazing. I don't know how they do it.

What about casual relationships? You know, dating a person a few times and that's it? Trust me, that will work and getting some hugs and cuddling from time to time always helps.

Anyway, just felt like writing about this. You know, alcoholic vents lol.

Hugs,

Matt

 

[calssilva]

for me, love is the only thing that can save me from ctb...but it's a very dangerous game, because love can put you in a big trouble

 

[WornOutLife]

for me, love is the only thing that can save me from ctb...but it's a very dangerous game, because love can put you in a big trouble

I couldn't have put it in better words.
That's exactly what I meant.
Some people love's gonna save them but you gotta tread lightly. It could actually make things worse but hey, let's not be pessimistic, people won't be as unlucky as I was lol

 

[Good4Nothing]

I feel really invalidated by this post.
A little insulted, honestly.

 

[hopelessanddisabled]

I'm in a relationship and if anything it makes me want to kill myself more. My partner just doesnt understand. I'm disabled, my partner isn't. It's such an insult and a big reason why I'm ctbing

 

[WornOutLife]

I feel really invalidated by this post.
A little insulted, honestly.

Oh dear, it was not my intention at all.
I just wanted to warn you about love.

 

[Good4Nothing]

Oh dear, it was not my intention at all.
I just wanted to warn you about love.

I'm 49 years old.
I've loved and lost a hundred times.
What makes you an expert and me naive?

 

[Bootleg Astolfo]

What is love ? Baby don't hurt me, baby don't hurt me no more. DUN DUN DUNDUNDUN DUN DUN DUN DUNDUNDUN

 

[WornOutLife]

I'm 49 years old.
I've loved and lost a hundred times.
What makes you an expert and me naive?

Why would you say I consider you a naive person?
I just shared my experience and if you've really experienced love more than once, you should agree with me lol.

Don't feel like starting any argument, this is just my opinion. I don't and will never have the absolute truth.

 

[sunsetintehwoods]

I'd try love if I could love myself, honestly

 

[WornOutLife]

I'd try love if I could love myself, honestly

You got a great point there.
Nobody should try to love anybody unless they love themselves.
Do you agree with me this time @Good4Nothing ? I'm not implying I'm an expert!

 

[hopelessanddisabled]

Love I think is just unnecessary imo. Why risk being greatly harmed, abused, used, manipulated etc the list goes on and on. Why tie yourself down to people, what's the joy in that? I've been abused by my family, by other people etc. all my life. I'm glad that for a better part of my life I avoided unnecessary things like dating and such so I only had myself to care about. Now that I'm in a relationship that initially worked out for me, of course it had to go wrong with me becoming indescribably disabled. I don't want to go into any more details of my illness it's just plain gross to talk about. But yeah. Save yourself the trouble. It's a smart move.

And I'm a woman if anyone is wondering. So this isnt some incel, mgtow bullshit

 

[WornOutLife]

Save yourself the trouble. It's a smart move

I totally agree with your comment, especially this part!

 

[Life sucks]

I want to ctb (N) with someone I love

 

[WornOutLife]

I want to ctb (N) with someone I love

Now, that would be quite interesting!

 

[LetMeGoPlease]

Humas don't have a god damn clue what love is. We're Neanderthals when it comes to practicing and understanding love.

I want to ctb (N) with someone I love

Same

 

[WornOutLife]

Humas don't have a god damn clue what love is. We're Neanderthals when it comes to practicing and understanding love.

Same

This makes sense. Just what the hell is love?

 

[hopelessanddisabled]

I REALLY wish I didnt have a partner and the strength to just break up with my current one. Because I WANT TO CTB WITHOUT HURTING ANYONE BUT OF COURSE IM UNFORTUNATELY IN A RELATIONSHIP!!!! FUCK

Like my partner is by no means a bad person or abusive etc like almost everyone else in my life. They're just clueless.

 

[Joey]

I hope I get to find someone who will love me as much as I would love them :(

 

[WornOutLife]

I hope I get to find someone who will love me as much as I would love them :(

You're so cute! Good luck with that!

 

[ExhaustedExistence]

I just want to know the feeling of love. You know: Never try, never know.

 

[hopelessanddisabled]

I do see myself as being lucky to have found someone who had loved me as much as I love them. But my illness is making that null and void. I just cant have good things ever happen to me

 

[WornOutLife]

I just want to know the feeling of love. You know: Never try, never know.

I forgot to mention this. If you've never experienced, it's worth a try but MIND YOU! It will be amazing at first but then hurt! Unless you're one of those lucky ones who find the love of their lives immediately.

 

[calssilva]

Hei guys, maybe the previous question is to define what love is, because this word have too many different meaning which sounds we are talking in so many different languages

 

[WornOutLife]

Hei guys, maybe the previous question is to define what love is, because this word have too many different meaning which sounds we are talking in so many different languages

There are so many kinds of love. For instance, I love my dog so much lol. That's real love and is beautiful.

 

[Joey]

You're so cute! Good luck with that!

Thanks :]

 

[EmptyManForever]

Love hurts :(

 

[WornOutLife]

Love hurts :(

Tell me about it! Been broken-hearted twice! Don't wanna experience that never ever again lol.

 

[Joey]

@Ame

 

[ExhaustedExistence]

There are so many kinds of love. For instance, I love my dog so much lol. That's real love and is beautiful.

Yeah, it is pure, honest and sweet love. My dog is the only one who I love.