Venting I must be something not human for this

[Unhumanly.]

When I'm talking about something with anyone, it's hard to get them understand what I'm trying to say even though the gesture in my sentence and body language should give them enough context, i have to elaborate out the word in my sentence to even make them understand, and they say it makes sense since I will never able to communicate clear enough just by sentence along by gesture to give the full context of it.

But when other people communicate in a way I cannot understand it completely, I'm not allowed to ask them the context of their sentence and they get upset for me asking and not understanding the context right away, so I'm asking back to them why? if they're the one who's not getting the context of what I'm trying to tell it's okay for them to ask me what I'm trying to say, so shouldn't that also make sense for me to ask them for a context of what they're trying to say if the sentence along with the gesture couldn't give me much clue? no apparently, if I'm the one doing it, I'm stupid, slow responding, socially disabled and mentally stunted unhumanly being who cannot understand human communication and stuff

 

[Jadeith]

I'm the one doing it, I'm stupid, slow responding, socially disabled and mentally stunted

..and these are very "humanly things". None of these strips you of your humanity. i'd even say that they actually highlight your human side.

 

[Unhumanly.]

..and these are very "humanly things". None of these strips you of your humanity. i'd even say that they actually highlight your human side.

I'll keep trying to make everyone understand this and hopefully they understood instead of getting defensive and tell me to find out what's wrong with my comprehensive skill

 

[Jadeith]

I'll keep trying to make everyone understand this and hopefully they understood instead of getting defensive and tell me to find out what's wrong with my comprehensive skill

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I'm not saying that you are on the spectrum but might be worth checking. Symptoms seem familiar...

 

[Unhumanly.]

Autism Acceptance Month | Autism Society

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I'm not saying that you are on the spectrum but might be worth checking. Symptoms seem familiar...

are you a psychologist

 

[Jadeith]

are you a psychologist

Nope. Got autistic (actually diagnosed) colleague.

 

[Unhumanly.]

Nope. Got autistic (actually diagnosed) colleague.

Oh ok I thought you're professional at that field to suggest me that

 

[bleeding_heart_show]

Human interaction is a form of violence.

This is why I find it easiest to speak my mind on the internet. I can take time to try and articulate my thoughts accurately (although I have yet to succeed in doing so).

I also appreciate that there is no physical aspect to communication on the internet, so I do not have to worry about nonverbal communication (which is a pseudoscience) distracting me from the interaction.