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venua

venua

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Jul 1, 2023
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Context: A few days ago I was going through an episode. I had self-harmed and was self-harming while talking to him. While I was doing this, he was trying his best to console me.
I was feeling so many different emotions that night, and I just cracked. I feel like shit. I made the person I love cry because of my own stupidity. Sometimes I wish I wasn't doomed to feel the way I do.
We talked about it, and I apologized, but he said he'd rather not talk about it.
 
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zombeefoxx

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Jun 4, 2023
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being a partner to someone in pain of any sort is hard. takes lots of courage. you are not stupid for suffering. i think a fitting partner will be wanting to talk about anything regarding you or him. it seems to me he is someone not to have too much faith in when things get rough. its rare to find someone understanding in the world we live sadly
 
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love_peep

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May 26, 2023
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I'd say it sounds sad, but it's really painful to see, so I try not to cut myself when I talk to anyone.
 
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SlenderM

SlenderM

I'm just here.
Jul 22, 2023
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Context: A few days ago I was going through an episode. I had self-harmed and was self-harming while talking to him. While I was doing this, he was trying his best to console me.
I was feeling so many different emotions that night, and I just cracked. I feel like shit. I made the person I love cry because of my own stupidity. Sometimes I wish I wasn't doomed to feel the way I do.
We talked about it, and I apologized, but he said he'd rather not talk about it.

Ah tis sounds tough, make sure to remind your partner yu love them. Give em a big ol' hug and show them you care :). If he is a decent person he'll understand you and your struggles. Best of luck, OP!

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