LonelyNick
They/Them, He/Him
- Jul 15, 2020
- 262
Oh and I have a friend who's a sex coach, she helps heal and gain confidence, I'd recommend looking for those, heard they do amazing!
If you want to donate, we have a thread with updated donation options here at this link: About Donations
When I hear that phrase "take a chance on me" it sounds like a total misunderstanding of what dating or getting to know someone is all about. People can see right away if you have something to offer that attracts them. If you have no car no job no education no future and no money or income and are in need of help with some things which is obvious, or have some apparent problems with how you relate to people that can repel others.
Do you try approaching people? I think it's more common for guys to approach. I don't think I would have ever met anyone if they were not the ones to get the ball rolling. Shy men have a header time finding a partner, but that doesn't mean you won't. It might help to work on confidence and just start talking to people. Worst case the conversation dies out, but maybe it will pick up steam too.But thats the thing, i have all those things! I have an apartment, a car, a stable job, money... objectively i am living a good life. I have hobbies that i enjoy, i take care of body (well except the uglyness). I always believed that there is nothing wrong with me, but apparently there is. Or its just bad luck. Next year i turn 30, I have been trying 15 fucking years, i just cant make those connections - be it in school, or in online gaming, or in real life.
I am so tired of trying and getting no results. Could i have tried harder? Probably. But i never had the strength for that - i am just too much of a passive person.
I know that basing my entire happiness on somebody else is the wrong way to go about it, but i cant change the way i feel, i cant change what i crave.
love you brother you can contact me on instagram we can have fun in our last moments It's animesketchparkWhy is it so hard to find someone who is willing to take a chance on me? I am so sad, i never wanted to spend all my life alone. Why do some people have it so easy when finding love? Never truly experiencing intimacy, cuddles, sex... it sucks so much. Why cant i be normal and lovable? I know i probably could have done more to achieve those dreams, like working out and trying harder to find someone... but its only setback after setback, i dont have the strength to keep going like this. No proof this will ever change or get better. Only one way out.
What's your offer?I just want to feel loved.
You're a joke, dumbass @almost_deadits a joke smartass