Venting I feel used by my group of IRL friends.

[lv-nii]

Yesterday I went to a meeting with my friends

We drank and talked, I don't know if I had a good time, I was very uncomfortable with a lot of questions about how I am and what I am doing, and then everyone started to compare who is more successful than the other. What a fucking bullshit

The worst of all is that until now I realize that they only call me when they need money, and I like stupid lent them. It's been 3 months and they haven't even given me my money back. Some of them also have some of my stuff that they haven't returned. One was so capable of stealing a bracelet that my late father gave me days before he died.

How horrible this situation is, it just makes me want to ctb as fast as possible.

 

[thefaunasystem]

this is something i relate to very much. you'd be surprised at the relief of telling them to go fuck themselves. had a friend who would ask me for £25 p much every day for drugs and then would make me feel bad about not lending it to her because she'd have mental health symptoms if she didn't smoke.

 

[StrawberryRed]

U should defo ditch your friends. Being alone is better than being with people you hate. This type of people, they will treat u like shit and u will continuously forgive them. Until one day you step 1 pinkie out line, they will blow up on u and treat u like your the bad friend. Keeping people around that don't make you happy will never end well, either you end it, or you lash out and they end it. Do it on ur own terms. Depending on how much money u lent them either let it go or threaten legal action. You don't actually have to sue them, but that should be enough to make them act. If you know their family well and u guys are like college age u should contact their parents. Im sorry this is happening to you, there are so many people on this planet who will treat u like an equal. Cutting off the dead weight is the first step to finding them.

 

[bankai]

People like this are terrible.please try to resist ctb because of friends though.family is one thing.they're much harder to escape from.

You can and must cut friends like this out.make excuses to not meet with then.avoid conflict.eventually they'll get the idea.

It's always better to be alone than have bad friends.