Help I am ugly and most likely spend most of my life alone, need help

[dyingslowly]

Hi, for reference look at this video, my situation is pretty similar. What I am seriously thinking about now is that after medication has destroyed my libido and I am blessed with super ugly looks (2 out of 10) on a good day. So having a family and kids is out of the question. I am thinking about what would be the appropriate time to kill myself later in age. I want to find out what age would be the cut off like I had to do it by then something like that also I am from a place where you have to take care of your parents when they get old so yeah 1. I am waiting for them to die first 2. I am asking for when would be the best time to actually carry it out. I don't like living there is no hope and there is no hope for the last like 7 or 8 years so I am pretty much ahead of the let's see if it gets better type of thing. Note: I am not the dude in the video I look similar but lil more uglier.

 

[Bitter Almonds]

There's got to be some dysphoria going on. the guy in the video isn't ugly in the least.

 

[Grasp of darkness]

It's only really over when you tell yourself it is. Sure, being ugly is like playing life on hard mode and especially dating, but it is possible.
The guy in the video is definetely ugly but not a 2. More like a 3-4 ish.
I myself am like a 4 and i've had some dating succes, not much though.
If you're white you can always have a vacation in the Philippines or Thailand and get laid there.

 

[DeathSweetDeath]

There was a Swedish YouTuber who thought he was too ugly to find love, but he was wrong. He recently got married & had a baby with his lovely wife…

 

[makebelieve]

There was a Swedish YouTuber who thought he was too ugly to find love, but he was wrong. He recently got married & had a baby with his lovely wife…

Exception, not the rule.

 

[user274738273]

The guy in the video isn't ugly at all

 

[miyabi]

Hi, for reference look at this video, my situation is pretty similar. What I am seriously thinking about now is that after medication has destroyed my libido and I am blessed with super ugly looks (2 out of 10) on a good day. So having a family and kids is out of the question. I am thinking about what would be the appropriate time to kill myself later in age. I want to find out what age would be the cut off like I had to do it by then something like that also I am from a place where you have to take care of your parents when they get old so yeah 1. I am waiting for them to die first 2. I am asking for when would be the best time to actually carry it out. I don't like living there is no hope and there is no hope for the last like 7 or 8 years so I am pretty much ahead of the let's see if it gets better type of thing. Note: I am not the dude in the video I look similar but lil more uglier.

Hi,

It might not be the most popular advice here but I wouldn't underestimate how surgeries and "looksmaxxing" could help. I grew up always feeling ugly. I've had several surgeries since and although I don't feel it, I get comments on my looks a lot now. I went from being a virgin until maybe 20 or so to being able to have a lot of attractive sexual partners. It didn't help me feel better because my problems go beyond sex and attractiveness, but if it's your main issue I'd like to say you can fix a lot more things than people would think.

It's not easy though because of the financial cost but most surgeries won't look obvious, it depends how you go about them. Nobody else is aware of mine - they just fixed deformities I had.

I say this as someone that doesn't interact at all with the "looksmaxxing" sphere because it is a pretty shit one and can easily fuel bodily dysnorphia, aside from the toxicity. But the premise of being able to make a big difference in your attractiveness I do agree with from firsthand experience.

Your feelings are incredibly valid and people that never experienced being unattractive don't know the way it impacts people's treatment of you.

 

[ButterToast]

Hi, for reference look at this video, my situation is pretty similar. What I am seriously thinking about now is that after medication has destroyed my libido and I am blessed with super ugly looks (2 out of 10) on a good day. So having a family and kids is out of the question. I am thinking about what would be the appropriate time to kill myself later in age. I want to find out what age would be the cut off like I had to do it by then something like that also I am from a place where you have to take care of your parents when they get old so yeah 1. I am waiting for them to die first 2. I am asking for when would be the best time to actually carry it out. I don't like living there is no hope and there is no hope for the last like 7 or 8 years so I am pretty much ahead of the let's see if it gets better type of thing. Note: I am not the dude in the video I look similar but lil more uglier.

There's a lot of body dysphoria going on given social media. Also, most connections are primarily built on emotional connection. Being ugly is a nerf on your chance of a person to gove you chance, but its not zero. Harsh to say but maybe your standard is also high, which creates an imbalance if you want to date a 8/10 girl while being less than that.

I'd say its not doom and gloom, but you gotta keep it realistic on yourself. Even if that means dating a "not-a-supermodel" to say the least. Best of luck to you!

 

[dyingslowly]

There was a Swedish YouTuber who thought he was too ugly to find love, but he was wrong. He recently got married & had a baby with his lovely wife…

He became ugly but popular YouTuber so probably that's why

There's a lot of body dysphoria going on given social media. Also, most connections are primarily built on emotional connection. Being ugly is a nerf on your chance of a person to gove you chance, but its not zero. Harsh to say but maybe your standard is also high, which creates an imbalance if you want to date a 8/10 girl while being less than that.

I'd say its not doom and gloom, but you gotta keep it realistic on yourself. Even if that means dating a "not-a-supermodel" to say the least. Best of luck to you!

I don't have any standards tho, I have given up .