How to prepare with no help??

[eattwinkiesseejesus]

H.E is getting worse, I'm at peace with dying- not my issue. My problems lie with my spouse (what else is new?), he refuses to talk to me about end of life and getting things set in order. I understand, death isn't exactly a happy topic but I have things I need to have squared away and I need his help and support to get them done. ... of course if he was the type to give a fuck or actually care I wouldn't be here anyway ...

I called the doc to set up an appointment to discuss getting a dnr set in place,soonest appointment they had is a month out - so we'll see how well that works out..

What else should I be doing? My brain isn't really here these days, please advise

 

[Worndown]

What country?
There are other ways to get a DNR.
Google it.

 

[quietwoods]

As a note, a DNR is not going to stop emergency medical personnel from reviving you after an attempt at CTB. I personally wouldn't waste much effort getting one if that's your concern.

A DNR is only really useful if you're already in a care setting or expect to be in one.

 

[eattwinkiesseejesus]

As a note, a DNR is not going to stop emergency medical personnel from reviving you after an attempt at CTB. I personally wouldn't waste much effort getting one if that's your concern.

A DNR is only really useful if you're already in a care setting or expect to be in one.

The dnr is in case of coma or other health issues related to current health decline

 

[Pale_Rider]

Everybody copes differently. When I was legitimately close to ctb I had an iron jaw. It was hard to get anything out of me. Those memories were blacked out for some years, and when they returned I began flapping my lips here. I know this probably isnt the smartest thing I have done in regards to opsec, but I absolutely needed someplace to vent. The details literally bursted from me really.