Help How to overcome fear

[maxy1738]

Well ive not been handling a breakup too good and ive planned the date for the 2nd of january. I will go to a shooting range here in the hague and just shoot myself but im worried ill pussy out before shooting myself. Is there anyways to over come that. Or maybe aim the gun at the instructor so he shoots me instead

 

[COP2CON]

Please don't point a firearm (loaded or unloaded) at anyone. For one, you are making them responsible for your death and they carry that ghost and all subsequent mental health issues forever. 2, most people are not sharpshooters when they react and your more likely to be maimed or severely wounded(not life threatening). 3, if you don't know about firearms your way more likely to mess it up. 4, if there are other people around you risk their injury as well. You said you were not handling a break up well and I'm so sorry to hear that. Its an awful pain that's hard to describe. No matter what you think, you will find someone else or there is even a chance of this one coming back. I understand your pain and what your thinking of doing but please don't. Give it some time and reevaluate. I care about you and hope you find some peace or solace in that.

 

[monetpompo]

is that you in your profile photo? i suggest you change it if it is. you can be identified by lurkers.

Please don't point a firearm (loaded or unloaded) at anyone. For one, you are making them responsible for your death and they carry that ghost and all subsequent mental health issues forever. 2, most people are not sharpshooters when they react and your more likely to be maimed or severely wounded(not life threatening). 3, if you don't know about firearms your way more likely to mess it up. 4, if there are other people around you risk their injury as well. You said you were not handling a break up well and I'm so sorry to hear that. Its an awful pain that's hard to describe. No matter what you think, you will find someone else or there is even a chance of this one coming back. I understand your pain and what your thinking of doing but please don't. Give it some time and reevaluate. I care about you and hope you find some peace or solace in that.

i also agree with everything @COP2CON wrote. while i know that you're in a state of distress right now (i'm in a similar spot, i miss my best friend and haven't been able to find anyone to replace him), there are better and safer methods than this. if you don't know how to shoot a gun you won't aim properly. if you try to goad someone into shooting you they most likely won't shoot you lethally.

 

[NegevChina]

Well ive not been handling a breakup too good and ive planned the date for the 2nd of january. I will go to a shooting range here in the hague and just shoot myself but im worried ill pussy out before shooting myself. Is there anyways to over come that. Or maybe aim the gun at the instructor so he shoots me instead

Please do not aim a fire arm at the instructor. He may not shoot you but rather call the police and get you arested. If he does panic and shoot you you will most likely be injured and then arested.

 

[thisIsNotEnough]

I think it would be wise to take more time to think about it, not only because the pain of a breakup gets a lot better with time, but also to learn more about other methods. Firearms in particular are exceptionally difficult to follow through with and if you don't hit the right spot (which is likely when in acute distress as you seem to be) you risk permanently disabling and/or disfiguring yourself which would make a breakup the least of your worries.

I won't persuade you either way or give you any information on methods, it's your choice at the end of the day and I hope you find the peace you're looking for <3

 

[Chemi]

agree with @monetpompo
If that's an IRL picture, I highly recommend replacing it with something random. Law enforcement and people with a savior complex are lurking on this site. While we don't really break laws, they still like visiting to check up on you

 

[maxy1738]

Please don't point a firearm (loaded or unloaded) at anyone. For one, you are making them responsible for your death and they carry that ghost and all subsequent mental health issues forever. 2, most people are not sharpshooters when they react and your more likely to be maimed or severely wounded(not life threatening). 3, if you don't know about firearms your way more likely to mess it up. 4, if there are other people around you risk their injury as well. You said you were not handling a break up well and I'm so sorry to hear that. Its an awful pain that's hard to describe. No matter what you think, you will find someone else or there is even a chance of this one coming back. I understand your pain and what your thinking of doing but please don't. Give it some time and reevaluate. I care about you and hope you find some peace or solace in that.

I understand but i dont agree. I just found out she has a crush on someone else. Somehow one week after we broke up. So yeah. Quit my job today too. Now i have to ride it out till January