obei

obei

This is the only place where you can say “kys”
Aug 4, 2023
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How to live with severe attachment issues and abandonment issues, never being sure if somebody likes you or not, and needing unbelievable amount of assurance?
I think it will make people leave me, especially when I literally every day need assurance they still care.
Please give me advice, I am now losing my sleep over this, I feel like such a burden to society.
 
Little_Suzy

Little_Suzy

Amphibious
May 1, 2023
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Rare are the noble relationships that are not transactional in nature.

If you want people to stick around, make sure you have something they want. It is up to you to figure it out, as it varies by relationship.
 
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Disappointered

Disappointered

Enlightened
Sep 21, 2020
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You don't. You exist in pain until you can finally die, one way or another.
 
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SexyIncél

SexyIncél

🍭my lollipop brings the feminists to my candyshop
Aug 16, 2022
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Integrity is one component. This can come from being thrown in the deep end, of difficult tasks. Go beyond the world of human perceptions, into what needs doing

I helped a gal go through this. Afterwards, her whole demeanor changed. She stopped desperately status-signaling & fearing what others thought of her

btw, if you're the philosophical type, we could discuss a more philosophical route
 

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