yellowroses

yellowroses

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Jun 12, 2023
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Hey guys, was wondering if y'all had any ideas as to how I could get my body cleaned up before my husband had to see it if I go through with partial hanging. Since it's not the quickest way to go, I don't think I could call the police beforehand like with some other methods, but i really don't want my partner to have to see the aftermath. The only way I can think to do this would involve another person, but that is pretty sketchy for a lot of reasons, so just wanted to hear your thoughts?
 
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Praestat_Mori

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May 21, 2023
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Partial isn't causing a mess only your body (=left behind cluster of atoms, while you are finally free) is there. The body will look pretty normal for a few days before the natural decaying process starts inevitably. So if your husband finds your body the same day there will be nothing wrong with it. If you don't want him to see your dead body you may leave a note at the entrance already like "call police" or sth like that or at least on the door to your room? but anyway he may check for you without calling the police for example. It's difficult. I hope you can find peace.
 
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Worndown

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Mar 21, 2019
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Emailing someone just before you go is about the only sure way to be found but not right away. Do a little research and practice to make sure you will succeed.
Use the bathroom before you try.
Leave the door unlocked so nobody needs to break it down.
 
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Forever Sleep

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Is there any way you could put a sign on the door to tell your husband not to enter but to call the police? He may ignore it of course. Maybe write down what to expect though. Maybe lay plastic down beneath. You could send a delayed or scheduled email to police informing them and hope they get there before your husband. I have heard email providers scan for words like 'suicide' though- so- probably check that first. I'm sorry life has brought you to this point.
 
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yellowroses

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Jun 12, 2023
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Emailing someone just before you go is about the only sure way to be found but not right away. Do a little research and practice to make sure you will succeed.
Use the bathroom before you try.
Leave the door unlocked so nobody needs to break it down.
Yeah, I was thinking a scheduled text if possible, that way if i fail i can just cancel it before it sends, trying to find a reliable way to do it though, most apps that offer scheduling don't work with my phone
Partial isn't causing a mess only your body (=left behind cluster of atoms, while you are finally free) is there. The body will look pretty normal for a few days before the natural decaying process starts inevitably. So if your husband finds your body the same day there will be nothing wrong with it. If you don't want him to see your dead body you may leave a note at the entrance already like "call police" or sth like that or at least on the door to your room? but anyway he may check for you without calling the police for example. It's difficult. I hope you can find peace.
Appreciate the thoughtful response. My dad lost his brother to (accidental) hanging when he was young and finding the body traumatized him, so I really don't want to do that to my husband if I can help it. I know CTB is going to fuck him up regardless, but I'd rather he not have that image in his head for the rest of his life. Thinking I'll probably try to schedule a text to go out about an hour after I plan to start my attempt, that way I can cancel it if I change my mind or fail. Thanks!
 
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Jun 24, 2023
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Actually been curios about this myself. As far as I can tell the email method seems the best though I don't think I know anyone I know checks their email fast enough as my friend normally checks on me once a day.
 
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locked*n*loaded

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Is it possible to put a sheet over yourself before you hang? Also, maybe write a note to your husband, as others have said, and place it on the door. However, in the note, in an attempt to quash any ideas your husband may have about rushing in to see if he could, perhaps, "save" you (he may still), tell him in the note that the entire scene is a crime scene and that he'd be better off if he didn't enter, lest he might get implicated in the "crime". I know it sounds harsh, but if you don't want him seeing you, I think harsh may be called for.
 
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