They know how limited my social life is, I lost all of my friends apart from one after being institutionalised and I would feel bad if she felt guilty for covering for me and then found out why I'd asked her to. I do usually travel around a bit though, so I'm thinking of saying I want to go away for a few days, then tell them I'm going to a different city from the actual one I'm going to. Thank you. I hadn't heard of door jammers, I've been incessantly reading about different hangings and some things seem to say alcohol was in their system. I would also consider taking the pullup bar for full suspension in case partial doesn't work, but I think it's too bulky and would draw attention. I hope so too, it will take a lot more research. At the moment I'm just researching whatever I can in relation to this, but there don't seem to be many patterns.