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someoneconcidering

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Mar 15, 2023
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hi all, ive posted here a long time ago
its safe to say ive hit a point in my life where suicide is not an option for a large number of reasons

i have turned to cutting instead of other More harmful coping mechanisms (alcohol, drug abuse, meds abuse) though it seems as if i cant go as deep as i used to

any advice? thanks
 
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Nothing.

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Feb 27, 2026
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I'm really sorry you are going through that. I understand needing to cope. I am glad that you are not doing those other methods, but cutting deep can result in major nerve damage which can affect motor control along with feeling.
 
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someoneconcidering

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Mar 15, 2023
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I'm really sorry you are going through that. I understand needing to cope. I am glad that you are not doing those other methods, but cutting deep can result in major nerve damage which can affect motor control along with feeling.
im careful with placement, i just need advice for deeper
 
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ConfusedClouds

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Mar 9, 2024
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Noone here is going to give you such advice. Plus its against the rules.

We may be pro-choice as a whole, but that includes anti-harm. Discussing and helping each other find and understand options for either healthier/more sustainable ways to cope and continue for the time being, or less harmful/risky methods for CTB, whichever is relevant to each person.

This also generally involves making sufficient and careful and considered plans and not just following impulses on the spur-of-the-moment of high emotions as this is commonly where the biggest risk of harm occurs (meaning: unintended pain or injury or consequences)
 

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