how many of you have a significant other?

[lost.ghost]

I have a partner, hes the only thing in my life that has kept me from CTB

 

[FailingAtLife]

I'm all alone. I always thought I'd get around to meeting a nice guy and it never happened.

Why d'you think this never happened, NewOrder...? Was it your fault or "Life's" fault...?

 

[Kmoposse]

I have my wife. Highschool sweethearts since 2005. Our second daughter is due in July and she's so worried about my alcoholism. She left for a couple days because of it and now I have a noose tied that maybe would just show that my addiction was only a symptom. I'm not going to do it tonight though. Maybe we can set things right.

 

[tom90]

I'm all alone. I always thought I'd get around to meeting a nice guy and it never happened.

I understand you very well.
What kind of things did you try to do which can lead you to meeting new peoples?

I can share you my story; I have tried everything, like everything you can imagine. And still nothing. And I literally have no criteria. This is so sad and frustrating.

 

[SpareWheel]

Not me. It'd only be someone else to worry about before the inevitable. I was dating a really nice woman last summer but she was even more screwed up than me, so I called it off. I went into it thinking it'd be a bit of a fling and it was clear she wanted more despite indicating at first she didn't want anything serious either.

I've been properly single 7 years, dated quite a few in that time but nothing I'd describe as long term or serious. The girl 7 years ago I'm sure was my soulmate, and I blew it - nobody has even come close to measuring up since, so it's not worth the hassle. I'm OK with being single, I invested in a fleshlight last year and that keeps my urges in check, I do miss company and cuddles but I'm not cruel enough to allow someone to get close to me given the plans I have. I think a good woman would be the only thing that'd change my plans, I've had money and a good job etc and it never made me happy (the soulmate did for a joyous year or so til it all went tits up) - but after only finding one in 24 years being an adult, I highly doubt one will appear before the end of June.

 

[TotallyIsolated]

Never had a partner. I don't think I'm anybody's type. Besides if I liked someone I wouldn't want them to be stuck with me.

 

[Reiraku]

I never had one and certainly never will.

 

[moodygrl]

ive had a wonderful partner but i blew it.