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BigPP

BigPP

Already dead
Apr 30, 2022
27
I have like 5 different ones, ranging from 2 lines to 5 pages. What would you consider to be a decent size? Obviously a suicide note can be any length, but what would be an ideal?
 
Jrmull1993

Jrmull1993

Warlock
Jul 13, 2022
753
Depends on who it's written to. So far I've finished 3 out of the 6 I plan on writing. All of them are a full page and are addressed for immediate family members. I haven't gotten to my best friend's letter, but with my notes I see that easily being over 2 pages.

In my opinion, since the letter is your last statement, I'd be more concerned about quality over quantity.
 
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Mia Wallace

Member
Jun 14, 2020
99
I don't plan on writing a note per say. I will leave behind a written will that will be left for my nieces and nephews
 
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locked*n*loaded

locked*n*loaded

Archangel
Apr 15, 2022
8,448
It just needs to be as long as what it takes to say what you feel needs to be said.
 
slushy

slushy

Member
Feb 19, 2022
89
As long or as short as you feel you'd like. It's your note so you can call the shots.
 
lessonlearned

lessonlearned

Member
May 23, 2022
86
I have like 5 different ones, ranging from 2 lines to 5 pages. What would you consider to be a decent size? Obviously a suicide note can be any length, but what would be an ideal?
i made a 1 page note but not gonna use it
 
OnlyTheWind

OnlyTheWind

Serena / Meatball head
Aug 29, 2020
962
One I've written is a half page, another is a quarter page, and another is like a short paragraph. Doesn't really matter as long as it says what you want to express.
 
befree

befree

Time to do more enjoyable things _____Goodbye_____
Mar 22, 2022
2,585
If I would write a note, it would have only 3 words: "Kiss my ass !" 🤪
 
TheBeautifulNightma

TheBeautifulNightma

Member
Aug 1, 2022
36
Depends on how many people you still care about.
 
LaVieEnRose

LaVieEnRose

Angelic
Jul 23, 2022
4,340
I'm just writing brief paragraph or two explaining the person's significance to me.
 
FuneralCry

FuneralCry

Just wanting some peace
Sep 24, 2020
42,545
To me, there isn't really an ideal length for notes. We all have different situations and some people have more to say in their notes than others. I think that a suicide note is a personal thing and only you know what's best. I think that for me personally, I wouldn't write an excessively long note, I would prefer to just give some sort of explanation as to why I have chosen to do this so that those left behind are less likely to be left with unanswered questions.
 
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want2dienow

want2dienow

Atari hazure?
Jul 24, 2022
339
inconclusive - limitless - varies:(
 
legozone

legozone

Member
Dec 14, 2021
9
"I have thought about this decision for several years now and had plenty of chances to consider alternatives. I made a rational choice."
If I wanted to include any more than that, it would mean that I care about the world way too much.
 
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SouthGermany1982

Member
Aug 5, 2022
25
Mine will only say: Fuck you all
 
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lionetta12

Just a random person
Aug 5, 2022
1,233
I think you shouldn't overthink the lenght of the note. After all, you wont be able to say anything anymore once you are gone. I'll be making 2 seperate videos which will last a couple of hours each for two sets of people I know as I found that to be easier than making notes for everyone.
 
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JealousOfTheElderly

Death is a gift and only the good die young.
Aug 28, 2020
224
I don't plan on writing a note per say. I will leave behind a written will that will be left for my nieces and nephews
I have thought of doing something similar. How do I go about writing a will? who do I contact? an attorney?
 
1000winds

1000winds

Student
Jul 24, 2022
152
i tried to write my suicide note today. oh god i cried so hard and couldnt get very far. i wrote half a page and that was enough to make me mourn my own funeral.
 
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lionetta12

Just a random person
Aug 5, 2022
1,233
I have thought of doing something similar. How do I go about writing a will? who do I contact? an attorney?
I guess that depends on the laws of your country or state (if from the US). In my country, all you need to do is to have 2 witnesses that arent close to you relations wise, who are clearheaded and sane around when you write the will and have them sign the document. You dont need a lawyer present here at least.
 
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Regrets

Regrets

★★★★★
Aug 7, 2022
31
I would only write something to try to comfort those who still care about me, I don`t feel like writing anything more than that.
 
theboy

theboy

Illuminated
Jul 15, 2022
3,121
Mine is about 4-5 pages long. The important thing is to write accurately and lovingly. Answer all the questions your loved ones may have. The idea of the note is to give closure to your story and comfort those who stayed on earth.
 
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Mia Wallace

Member
Jun 14, 2020
99
I have thought of doing something similar. How do I go about writing a will? who do I contact? an attorney?
I'm just leaving a written note signed. Most cases, that should be enough
 
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popcorn1234

Member
Aug 7, 2022
23
I don't think how long the suicide note is matters. Its what you say that matters.
 
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QuietEnd

Doing the work
Jul 8, 2022
86
I've written two - one for the legal entities that confirm I've made my decision alone without influence and in a rational state of mind. This is effectively a statement of intent to confirm its suicide. This will be left with my body as anything found with me becomes part of the evidence.

The other is to my partner and will confirm that I'm now free from the mental and physical torment of this world, that I'm finding peace and that there is nothing he could have done to ease that torment more than he already did.
 

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