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noname223

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Aug 18, 2020
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There are so many potential points on this.

I noticed when I wanted to get my hands on SN sources people trusted me more for being a longterm member and mass poster. Lol. Finally one beneft for these credentials. I couldn't get one for my country (Germany) that works perfectly for me though.

But in the past there were many people who gave me really helpful advices on here. They told me that they read what I have been through, that I tried therapy over and over again. And that they think in such a case committed suicide should not be prohibited. They had less of a guily conscience sharing their knowledge with me.

I once posted a very long controversial thread about the question of cliques on here. Someone told me I lit the forum on fire if I post something like that. And I deleted the post after some seconds. I cannot remember all the details it was a while ago. But I have to say I had the feeling there were cliques on here. And some groups disliked other groups. Personally, I think I was never that much part of an in-group. However, I tried to use my voice so that pro-mortalists views don't influence others and the atmosphere too much.

Last but not least, there are studies on this forum. And one finding is that members who are integrated in the social groups of this forum can incentivized not to commit suicide.

Personally, I feel sorry when a long thread doesn't get any reply. However, I am someone who often starts threads but isn't replying all that much. So I might be a hypocrite. I think this is how my brain works and this is how I benefit the most from this forum.

I think being part of a clique on SaSu comes with up- and downsides. Maybe I am not reading enough threads but actually I could not name some cliques on here at the moment. In the past some cliques were obvious though.
 
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iguazo falls

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May 20, 2026
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i actually think theres less cliques on here than there were prior, and i think the state of the internet (which priortises keeping people in algorithm bubbles rather than communities) has influenced more isolation. i know myself that i won't be doing internet friends again for some personal reasons and i feel i am part of a greater pattern. its the nature of a forum like this that some go and some get better/move on, but theres not a lot of active long term users on anymore even compared to a couple of years ago. a few multi thousand post members i am aware of CTBed and the rest i don't really know just like someday noone will really know where i went. i imagine theres a few long time users too who post less regularly because they have given most of their 2 cents on common thread topics that just repeat every day/month/year, so they spend their posts now on unique or personal to them threads.
 
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iguazo falls

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May 20, 2026
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another thing i wanted to add is its a lot more slow these days, at least on the offtopic side. and i think it is because of more lurkers done w interacting and less long time members. and plus the individualisation is coming to the internet too not just irl so people will be less wanting to interact with eachother out of fear/experience of hostility/surveillance.
 
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Liebestod

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Mar 15, 2025
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Only important if you want sources even though I think you should do it yourself, otherwise it doesn't mean shit on the this god forsaken site.
 
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Jul 18, 2023
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Only important if you want sources even though I think you should do it yourself, otherwise it doesn't mean shit on the this god forsaken site.

"god" has forsaken us? NO!! :eh:

(If you think about it, jesus actually commited suicide... well okay more like suicide by cop by todays standards...lol)
 
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"god" has forsaken us? NO!! :eh:

(If you think about it, jesus actually commited suicide... well okay more like suicide by cop by todays standards...lol)
lol, I just like saying god forsaken I don't even believe in god
 
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hurts2b

hurts2b

Wasting my time
Jun 11, 2026
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I've definitely met people on here who are good, kind, helpful and understanding (I'm not new, dammnit! I simply lost access to my old account). I struggle to believe the people I've met are totally irrelevant. But does that solve our problems? Does it save anyone? Doubtful.
 
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crossingtheriver

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Jun 11, 2026
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hey I am new here. On a lighter note, it is interesting to know that some drama went down here too lol. Is there any place without drama when humans are involved? :)

That said, I chuckled a bit when you said 'you wont reply to posts because your brain works like that' that's exactly the same for me. That's why I couldn't make any genuine human connection in this world so far, I'm 33 now! Yes, I have a good relationship with my mother, but I feel like I've taken a lot out from her than giving her.

I recently watched a tv show called 'Beef' (S1) it's less like a TV show and more like a stunning insight into how depressed brains work. The two main leads of that show have a lot in common with people like us, if you watch English shows I'd recommend you watch that.
 
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thelostautistic

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Jul 31, 2025
604
To be honest I've never really noticed any cliques on here which is nice because I hate that. Maybe I'd be more aware of it if I was actually close to anyone here. I purposely try not to get attached to people here though.