How do you make friends with someone that’s famous?

[Someone123]

So don't tell her how amazing I think she is? Maybe just say she seems very nice?

Because loneliness is the main reason I'm suicidal.

Why has it been moved to off-topic? They could at least have moved it to recovery.

People need friends, whether they're famous or not

A public figure like this typically doesn't get to know people through email. To alleviate loneliness it would be more realistic to focus on getting to know people from the area in which you live who are not famous- possibly through datings apps, clubs, maybe the meetup website, volunteering, church, etc.

 

[$nowLeopard]

There is a famous runescape player who hearts my comments and replies to me sometimes. I wish I could be his friend.

Famous people are no different from regular people, so I'm not sure why'd you want to be his friend.. Maybe you're surrounded by bad people

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

Famous people only ever seem to make better friends with other famous people so one way would be to become famous yourself and let them notice and reach out to you first. Of course this varies and sometimes people just happen to become renowned simply by being friends with famous people from before they were famous. It's all a matter of luck really.

 

[Manaaja]

People when I acted like Greta a decade before before she was even born:
People when Greta copies and mimics me:

She's only famous because she's rich. And she's only liked because she is famous.

She and her family are also hypocrites.

https://images-cdn.9gag.com/photo/ayoq6pp_700b.jpg

https://pbs.twimg.com/media/ENmN8WGU4AEs8cT.jpg

Those two boys have done more the help the planet and the poor than the RichgirlTM and her RichfamilyTM who could come here and donate money to the poor folks who plan to ctb because of financial problems.

 

[Disco Biscuit]

So don't tell her how amazing I think she is? Maybe just say she seems very nice?

Perhaps the the most sensible course of action is to keep your interest in girls who are young enough to be grandaughter to yourself. Don't write any letter.

Instead of wasting your energy on someone who will never know or care if you exist, why join a local group that supports people with Asperger's? There are quite a few organisations that, as well as offering support, organise social events and days out. You could make some real life friends with Asperger's who would understand you and make you feel less lonely.

 

[callme]

Perhaps the the most sensible course of action is to keep your interest in girls who are young enough to be grandaughter to yourself. Don't write any letter.

Instead of wasting your energy on someone who will never know or care if you exist, why join a local group that supports people with Asperger's? There are quite a few organisations that, as well as offering support, organise social events and days out. You could make some real life friends with Asperger's who would understand you and make you feel less lonely.

One danger - guilt. Helping less fortunate people and even having them look up to you while you are not convinced you have it any better or while not having a positive view of yourself might make you guilty, that you are using easy to do, disposable means of making yourself feel better, possibly at the expense from somebody who has it worse.

I will use the financial divide for an example. Somebody rich might feel, despite a lot of hard work or privilege, or achievements, no better than a poor person he's donating to, because they could be just as morally good or as bad as them.

 

[Disco Biscuit]

One danger - guilt. Helping less fortunate people and even having them look up to you while you are not convinced you have it any better or while not having a positive view of yourself might make you guilty, that you are using easy to do, disposable means of making yourself feel better, possibly at the expense from somebody who has it worse.

I will use the financial divide for an example. Somebody rich might feel, despite a lot of hard work or privilege, or achievements, no better than a poor person he's donating to, because they could be just as morally good or as bad as them.

I don't understand why you've quoted me here?

 

[callme]

I don't understand why you've quoted me here?

Referring to what might go wrong if suicidal, feeling terrible and trying to help somebody else. Doesn't always happen, but still.

 

[Disco Biscuit]

Referring to what might go wrong if suicidal, feeling terrible and trying to help somebody else. Doesn't always happen, but still.

Still no idea why you keep quoting me.

 

[Marktheghost]

I don't know if you are serious or not. I wasn't talking about friendship, but about the catfishing incident between Jeremy and you (I assume @GenesAndEnvironment is talking about same thing). I don't know what actually happened there, but it did not make you look good. This thread doesn't help.

Jeremy was doing the catfishing, and made me look bad. I was trying to make a new friend, not knowing he was a catfish.

 

[deflationary]

People when I acted like Greta a decade before before she was even born:
People when Greta copies and mimics me:

She's only famous because she's rich. And she's only liked because she is famous.

She and her family are also hypocrites.

https://images-cdn.9gag.com/photo/ayoq6pp_700b.jpg

https://pbs.twimg.com/media/ENmN8WGU4AEs8cT.jpg

Those two boys have done more the help the planet and the poor than the RichgirlTM and her RichfamilyTM who could come here and donate money to the poor folks who plan to ctb because of financial problems.

How is she a hypocrite for her family being rich? Or for getting media attention, which is exactly what an activist is supposed to do?

I've gotta say that people whining about Greta Thunberg must be the most annoying new trend of recent times. Just embarrassing stuff.

 

[Shadowplay]

This might be the strangest thread I've seen on this place.

 

[justsayin]

Jeremy was doing the catfishing, and made me look bad. I was trying to make a new friend, not knowing he was a catfish.

Jeremy was catfishing and you took the bait, hook, line, and sinker. If those screenshots are authentic, you were not just trying to make a new friend. In one message you asked her to be her boyfriend, and in another one you asked her to move in with you. Here are the screenshots:

https://sanctioned-suicide.net/thre...ted-murder-of-2-ss-members.64701/post-1206995

I know that Jeremy misled you, and that he intentionally left out his side of conversation, but he did not make you open this thread.

 

[Shadowplay]

 

[Dot]

Nd 2 sve ths meme

 

[newave3]

St Greta's ravings are a classic example of the self-hate of white far-Leftists. She is such an annoying little troll.


She has implied that the West owes a "historical debt" to countries in the Global South to drastically reduce carbon emissions due to the legacy of colonialism.
She owes us a historical debt which she could pay by shutting her yap and going away.

 

[Shadowplay]

I was going to ask how old OP is as this seems like something a very naïve teen would write. Turns out a 50 something year old guy? Whew lad!

 

[Disco Biscuit]

I was going to ask how old OP is as this seems like something a very naïve teen would write. Turns out a 50 something year old guy? Whew lad!

Marktheghost is autistic though so he probably doesn't properly understand that obsessing over teenage girls or asking them to live with him as his cleaner is... frowned upon... in normal society. He doesn't know how to filter his feelings or even see why he should. He still thinks he said nothing wrong in the Little Amy situation.

 

[Someone123]

Marktheghost is autistic though so he probably doesn't properly understand that obsessing over teenage girls or asking them to live with him as his cleaner is... frowned upon... in normal society. He doesn't know how to filter his feelings or even see why he should. He still thinks he said nothing wrong in the Little Amy situation.

Autrism is a whole spectrum and it's hard to klnow where a person is on the spectrum- you may be right, though, because his comments don't yet indicate that he understands that emailing a celebrity is not a realistic way to try to start a friendship.

 

[callme]

Autistic men have no chance at love, unlike many of you have had one and you are bashing him. You know how society treats suicidal people, well you are doing the same now. Unrepressed feelings can't be stopped, else none of us would be here, and in the same way, OP wouldn't have a need for romantic connection.

Imagine the loneliness you might subject him to. You realize given which forum he is posting at, and probably has as his only refuge, which option is left as the only one if de facto he comes out convinced he doesn't deserve love because of what he does (which is probably due to real feelings)? He will be pushed over the edge.

How woould you like to be treated the same way for being suicidal? Told to hold back your feelings, being called a criminal, shunned by everybody else?

 

[Shadowplay]

Autistic men have no chance at love, unlike many of you have had one and you are bashing him. You know how society treats suicidal people, well you are doing the same now. Unrepressed feelings can't be stopped, else none of us would be here, and in the same way, OP wouldn't have a need for romantic connection.

Imagine the loneliness you might subject him to. You realize given which forum he is posting at, and probably has as his only refuge, which option is left as the only one if de facto he comes out convinced he doesn't deserve love because of what he does (which is probably due to real feelings)? He will be pushed over the edge.

How woould you like to be treated the same way for being suicidal? Told to hold back your feelings, being called a criminal, shunned by everybody else?

Ok let's advise him to directly message Greta Thunberg on Twitter and then they will fall in love and live happy every after on a cloud made of marshmallows. There's no way she wont reply and he will then be pushed over the edge. Like, what even is reality? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

 

[Marktheghost]

Jeremy was catfishing and you took the bait, hook, line, and sinker. If those screenshots are authentic, you were not just trying to make a new friend. In one message you asked her to be her boyfriend, and in another one you asked her to move in with you.

I must have missed those 2 when I looked at the screenshots then; if they say that they're not authentic.

 

[motel rooms]

I can't believe no one's posted this yet

 

[callme]

Ok let's advise him to directly message Greta Thunberg on Twitter and then they will fall in love and live happy every after on a cloud made of marshmallows. There's no way she wont reply and he will then be pushed over the edge. Like, what even is reality? ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

He would probably realise he is doing it wrong. But no, let's treat him like he's stupid. People here aren't the righteous fairness fighters they seem to be by knowing it all, if they do the same to an autistic person that society does to them. And sprinkle past drama all over him, of course.

I can't believe no one's posted this yet

"You only care about money" - owns at least two chairs worth 15000 euro at 13. Will be green-haired by 20.

 

[Shadowplay]

He would probably realise he is doing it wrong. But no, let's treat him like he's stupid. People here aren't the righteous fairness fighters they seem to be by knowing it all, if they do the same to an autistic person that society does to them. And sprinkle past drama all over him, of course.

He started a thread asking a question; we responded by answering it. What exactly are you so pissy about?

As for past drama I'm not sure, but it seems relevant.

 

[callme]

What exactly are you so pissy about

About somebody possibly being shunned from the last place where he can be.

 

[Shadowplay]

About somebody possibly being shunned from the last place where he can be.

So telling someone the cold truth that they have a snowflake in hell chance of becoming friends with Greta Thunberg is shunning? #til

 

[Someone123]

He said that loneliness was his concern, and there were people who tried to nicely redirect him to ways where he could realistically alleviate loneliness and to try to get him to understand that emailing a celebrity is not a way that will work.

 

[Shadowplay]

He said that loneliness was his concern, and there were people who tried to nicely redirect him to ways where he could realistically alleviate loneliness and to try to get him to understand that emailing a celebrity is not a way that will work.

What's that line about true friends telling you what you NEED to hear not what you WANT to hear?

Autistic men have no chance at love, unlike many of you have had one and you are bashing him. You know how society treats suicidal people, well you are doing the same now. Unrepressed feelings can't be stopped, else none of us would be here, and in the same way, OP wouldn't have a need for romantic connection.

Imagine the loneliness you might subject him to. You realize given which forum he is posting at, and probably has as his only refuge, which option is left as the only one if de facto he comes out convinced he doesn't deserve love because of what he does (which is probably due to real feelings)? He will be pushed over the edge.

How woould you like to be treated the same way for being suicidal? Told to hold back your feelings, being called a criminal, shunned by everybody else?

Look I see where you're coming from with your heart in the right place, but what is the point in getting his hopes up only to have them dashed? @NewOrder and @Someone123 actually had some good ideas on how to meet people; y'know ones that might actually work.

 

[netrezven]

Have to ask my wife and my doughter, cause they are good at this, it's not intentional with them, it's just happens to be so. And in general i think that's because most of these people are more positive and friendly, than others. I'm just no good into meeting and keeping new people in general, not cause they are famous or not. But it's nice when someone famous screams "hayyy, so happy you are here, come in, love u so much" and pass the croud. Sometimes it happens that i'm a fan and have their songs in my day to day and party playlists, but they are more of a fan of my doughter, so my playlists stay out of the lights :)