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odradek

odradek

Mage
Sep 16, 2021
557
While I strive for as accurate perceptions of reality as possible, I don't find arguing and debating very appealing. This process has been the subject of research, articles, and books for many years. Tbf, the promoters control most media, so it's harder to find counter-arguments on their platforms.

This actually clears a lot up for me so thank you. Have a good evening you chilli pepper you.
Sorry, gotcha !

You sure did! Now do your sympathies for women's rights.
 
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Capsicum_Corral

Experienced
Dec 10, 2021
209
This actually clears a lot up for me so thank you. Have a good evening you chilli pepper you.
It actually kind of sucks to not be that guy, but apparently my information processing system is more gustatory or 'sense' based than numbers, facts, and figures. Those come in, then somehow get translated into a feeling or sense, which is not a good basis for debating the original data. But otherwise it feels like an ideal way to be in touch with this reality we find ourselves in. If that makes any sense.
 
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Klophy

Lost...
Jun 28, 2022
198
I'm in the same situation feel immense shame and loneliness.

Having no one to share parts of my life with, to lean on each other when things got tough makes me feel empty.
 
Judy Garland

Judy Garland

HoHum
Mar 23, 2022
826
Being alone is one of the reasons why I'm going to die. I was never meant to be so isolated from everyone else, and I am. And it's not my fault, but it's either be isolated or be picked on and mocked by my own "family". They were never loving or nice to me. I wanted a mate, and I was heartbroken every time. Saying it's painful is an understatement. People who have been in relationships will say, "It's not always better to be with someone" etc. But the saying, "It's better to have loved and lost, than not having been loved at all" is true.
 
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betternever2havbeen

Enlightened
Jun 19, 2022
1,058
It doesn't bother me-I realised a long time ago I could never make any sort of long-term relationship work. I really wanted a boyfriend when I was in my late teens/early 20s but not since then. I see a lot of depressed people just because they are single and I think it's sad that they feel like that just based on their relationship status.
 
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Bitterman1996

Bitterman1996

Student
May 20, 2020
169
it doesn't bother me as much as I know I will be miserable if I'm dragging someone else/ it would be worse when you realize just by having a partner it doesnt immediately cure your depression

tbh it's more depressing to think about how your peers/parents will by default push you into marriage and procreation :)
 
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Job Joad

Member
Jul 2, 2022
41
In reality "relationships" are mainly just business arrangements. Sex in exchange for income support. More and more people are just foregoing "relationships" because they don't have the income status (way more important than looks) to have one.
 
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Eternal Oblivion

Student
Nov 23, 2021
195
I was in that position until 30 years old. I was always alone, sort of a virgin also.

I then have found a girlfriend who I loved very much and shared a loot of moments toguether. Great sex. I take our relationshit is about to be over now (2 years later) but now I don't mind being alone. I already had the experience.

I remember how crushing that desire to have someone was back then. Couldn't think about anything else. Couldn't interact with others confidently. Once you have a girl that is atractive, people respect you better, so you respect yourself better.

This relationship changed me in many many ways, for the better. I would never take it back just because sometime it will eventually end.

Living all your life, without having that experience, is very very soul sucking. You will sadly never fully develop.
 

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