Discussion How do women feel sex compared to men ?

[MrCasella]

I feel like I feel sex on a more intense and primal level than women are able to experience it.

 

[Forever Sleep]

I've never had sex with a guy but, my orgasms can be incredible. I find it hard to believe men experience more pleasure. It literally explodes in my brain and radiates throughout my whole body. I imagine orgasms are similar for both men and women. Although, maybe it's easier for men to come.

What I've always wanted to ask was- is sex so much better than masturbation? And, how does that compare between the genders. I get the impression some women don't orgasm during sex, sadly.

But, it's always made me curious. Men seem to want sex over masturbation. Even with strangers. So, does it just feel nicer? Presumably, there's not so much emotional connection there if you barely know them. So, what's the appeal? I guess women can also want the real thing too.

I think it must vary according to how we view sex too. It was always ingrained to me as a serious, spiritual thing to do. I just think the feelings are so intense too. It would be weird to have such an intense rush and then be looking at a stranger- more or less. And, it would be annoying- maybe even painful to go through all that and not come. So- casual sex never appealed to me. Plus, I don't have the looks to attract it anyway. Thankfully in a way.

It's so risky for women too. Asides from the emotional side to it, there's the risk of STD's and pregnancy.

But, because I opt for the one player version, it can be whatever I need in the moment. Sometimes it's just to relieve stress. But, it can absolutely be amazing for women, I'm sure.

That's something else I wondered really. I have to think about certain things for it to work. What if those things don't align with your partner? Isn't it insulting for them if you need to think of some other scenario or, someone else even to come? I've always thought sex itself could end up being really awkward and unfulfilling.

I wonder if there's a difference in what the genders are attracted to also. I think for some men, it's simply the female form whereas for women, I'm not sure. I think it can be scenarios. I guess we're all individuals though. I've known very promiscuous, highly sexed women and men. It's just more accepted that men can be players though. Not so many women enjoy being called a slut!

 

[Skallagrim]

What I've always wanted to ask was- is sex so much better than masturbation? And, how does that compare between the genders. I get the impression some women don't orgasm during sex, sadly.

But, it's always made me curious. Men seem to want sex over masturbation. Even with strangers. So, does it just feel nicer? Presumably, there's not so much emotional connection there if you barely know them. So, what's the appeal? I guess women can also want the real thing too.

Yes. So much better.

It's the intimacy of it. Looking into someones eyes and sharing it all in that moment. It elevates the physicality of orgasm with an emotional connection that gives it an intensity that's beyond my ability to describe.

 

[Forever Sleep]

Yes. So much better.

It's the intimacy of it. Looking into someones eyes and sharing it all in that moment. It elevates the physicality of orgasm with an emotional connection that gives it an intensity that's beyond my ability to describe.

I can completely see that- for the emotional connection. But, plenty of guys I know chase casual sex. Plenty here use prostitutes. Is there that emotional connection the same then? The appeal of casual sex for the guys who seem to want as many notches on their bedposts as possible I would have thought would be hindered with emotional connections. Although, maybe I'm wrong. Maybe they enjoy that emotional connection with multiple partners.

It's more that I wondered about. Whether the real thing in a casual sense is so much better for men or women and, how that compares. Obviously, it must be good for so many to sleep around.

 

[Skallagrim]

I can completely see that- for the emotional connection. But, plenty of guys I know chase casual sex. Plenty here use prostitutes. Is there that emotional connection the same then?

Absolutely, yes.

Don't forget, emotions don't just mean love. Fear, anger, rage, hate, greed, envy, and amusement are all emotions as well. And almost any emotion can connect two people together, whether positive, negative or neutral. And it's the connection that adds something.

If you've not got love, you will probably still have lust. The act of sex, with someone you don't love but someone you're still sharing this with, giving each other extreme pleasure as well as taking it for yourself, in your most vulnerable state even if you don't love them. It intense. Involving someone else adds something that solo-sex never can, even if love is completely absent.