Venting How do I stop thinking of sex so much. I’m disillusioned

[Journeytoletgo]

Is there anyway back from that or no?

 

[Lauriso]

How old are you?

 

[Celerity]

Boy do I wish I knew. On the whole, I think my libido may actually be lower than average but since I don't trust people, my sexual energy has no outlet.

After a week of nonstop horniness, I finally feel like I'm calming down.

 

[catflowers]

I am 19. I have never had sex with anyone but i am fucking done with life
i am not sure if you are a man or woman but for me you just have to go get some life goals instead of thinking about having sex. it's funny when you look like an elementary schooler but all you can think about is how much you want to suck a guy's dick and how attractive they are

 

[allthebrightplaces]

has masturbating helped at all? if not there might be some other underlying issue.

 

[theboy]

Doing other things so your mind doesn't wander off into sex

 

[hamvil]

I do not know, I am in the same situation. I keep daydreaming about sex. Especially about experiences I had with a former lover. Now a lot of my free time is filled with porn. Why do you want to stop thinking about sex?

 

[Snatsbats]

By having sex

 

[thedaywillcome]

You could take antidepressiva

 

[Sick&TiredURGH]

Eat lots. Chocolate cakes cookies. Try and get them to hit the roof of your mouth. Pretty sure doing that hits the same Neurological pathways.
Also excess weight means your sex drive drops.

 

[brokensea]

It's just a way to escape the pain you're in. It's normal and there's nothing wrong with it. When you're depressed you look to any distraction or comfort.

 

[Darrenloses]

Download nofap on smartphone app store.. I'm sitting at 80 days without masturbating

 

[Lifeaballache]

Are you a virgin? Its a pretty normal psychological thing to want something you've never had. My advice would be to pay for an escort. At least that way you've had your bit of fun and it's something ticked off your bucket list.

 

[DrWh033]

Lol....I have not thought of sex for 3 years now. Even porn images disgust me. I am straight man with what I considered normal libido.
Chronic pain for 3 years ( neuropathic), crps and tons of opioids and other medication made sex a hilarious notion for me. To such extend that I am really thinking how could I have been such a monkey interested in sex before ( which ofc is not healthy).

You should describe your situation a bit more. Is it the lack of sex that leads you to this forum ?