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breadMan

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how do i know if i am able to dm people?
 
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Click on a person's name, for instance mine, and there are two buttons. One says start chat and the other says start conversation. Click one

Go ahead try it. Use conversation for me
 
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breadMan

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Click on a person's name, for instance mine, and there are two buttons. One says start chat and the other says start conversation. Click one

Go ahead try it. Use conversation for me
did you get my msg?
 
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Feb 25, 2025
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Not sure when exactly, probably automatically after reaching a certain post count, maybe account age also matters. You don't need to do anything special or apply anywhere, just be a normal user of the forum.

Chat and conversations are almost the same thing.

The top bar have a chat icon at some point, it's hard to miss. It will also have a search bar/magnifying glass at some point. Conversation is a bit more hidden, but it will be left to the notification icon (at least on mobile).

As mentioned above, when clicking a username, you should see four options: Follow, Ignore, Start chat, Start conversation.

Not sure if the two last options are hidden for you, I can theoretically message new members, but they probably won't see it until they unlock chat/conversations, or maybe there is an error when trying to send it.
 
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Account age matters and amount of replies (messages). If u unlocked it would be on the navigation bar 4th icon that looks like 2 speech bubbles
 

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