Help How do I hide signs of depression?

[WaffleWoman]

My parents both work in the mental health field which means they work with people who depressed suicidal and all. I dont want them to pick up any signs of me being depressed because they immediately put into some mental health group or something so does anyone know ways of hiding that?

 

[Vizzy]

My parents both work in the mental health field which means they work with people who depressed suicidal and all. I dont want them to pick up any signs of me being depressed because they immediately put into some mental health group or something so does anyone know ways of hiding that?

Just smile, be excited and acknowledge people

 

[UKscotty]

Keep things brief, try to act like you are busy.

Most people don't give a shit and if you fob them off quick, they won't spot a thing.

 

[Pidgeons_Sparrows]

wish i could tell you how lol
used to be really good at it but my facade is sadly starting to deteriorate as the end comes closer

 

[squirley]

My parents both work in the mental health field which means they work with people who depressed suicidal and all. I dont want them to pick up any signs of me being depressed because they immediately put into some mental health group or something so does anyone know ways of hiding that?

BOTH of your parents...
That is a cruel twist of fate...

They will 100% pick it up if you're in your room all day or not eating... ignoring hygiene... you know the simple things.

Of course they would put you into a group which is brutal. I'm surprised they wouldn't just talk to you 1on1 or advise meds.

Either way my facade for years was working...partying....gym....work...party....
Hey everything good how are you ?
O yah .... everything's gucci ...
Classic.

 

[WaffleWoman]

BOTH of your parents...
That is a cruel twist of fate...

They will 100% pick it up if you're in your room all day or not eating... ignoring hygiene... you know the simple things.

Of course they would put you into a group which is brutal. I'm surprised they wouldn't just talk to you 1on1 or advise meds.

Either way my facade for years was working...partying....gym....work...party....
Hey everything good how are you ?
O yah .... everything's gucci ...
Classic.

god my hygiene has been a strong bad point for years gonna be hard to pick up on that to be honest

 

[squirley]

god my hygiene has been a strong bad point for years gonna be hard to pick up on that to be honest

Hygiene like what ?? Don't say details.. they havnt said anything to you ??? I guess that's...good ? In a way... but I know when at one time I didn't leave my house for months ...no hair cut ...no dentist etc when I had people in my life before they would be like wtf you doing let's go ... and they weren't even docs lol

 

[WaffleWoman]

Hygiene like what ?? Don't say details.. they havnt said anything to you ??? I guess that's...good ? In a way... but I know when at one time I didn't leave my house for months ...no hair cut ...no dentist etc when I had people in my life before they would be like wtf you doing let's go ... and they weren't even docs lol

With hygiene i struggle to keep my room clean and brush my teeth but thats about it that im willing to go into

 

[Death is my goal]

just act normal

 

[squirley]

With hygiene i struggle to keep my room clean and brush my teeth but thats about it that im willing to go into

Ah ok keeping room clean is one thing.
That's nothing.

From super bad experiences take care
of the teeth.
it doesn't happen... like 1 year... 6months... 2 years.. after awhile.
tooth decay or anything it fucking hurts so much or nerve damage ... the worst pain ever just a heads up.... from experience

just act normal

Lul

 

[Rust20]

Be careful about your facial expressions and body language. I believe vague sentences(I mean like not being able to say what you mean in the first try) could also be seen as a sign.

 

[WaffleWoman]

just act normal

what does normal even look like everyone has a different opinion on normal lol

 

[squirley]

what does normal even look like everyone has a different opinion on normal lol

No such thing in this current world.
Normal is something perceived like you said on a personal basis.
Also from society pressures, false ideology and Comparison/judgment.

 

[WaffleWoman]

No such thing in this current world.
Normal is something perceived like you said on a personal basis.
Also from society pressures, false ideology and Comparison/judgment.

I hate how society strives for normal when nothing can even be normal

 

[AshClouds]

just think of it as is you're playing a part. The character that you're playing is a fictionalized version of yourself.
This version is a well adjusted, generally happy, does not have emotional problems, and can talk and laugh with everyone else.

thats what I do whenever I'm in a situation (i.e. school or work) where I have to come into contact with people. Once I step out, I immediately get into character and I put a happy face.
Once I'm by myself again, I step out of character and go back to being myself.

 

[leloyon]

god my hygiene has been a strong bad point for years gonna be hard to pick up on that to be honest

I mean… have they picked up on that thus far?

 

[WaffleWoman]

I mean… have they picked up on that thus far?

Yes its a everyday conversation from one of them