Discussion How can I become a completely different person?

[a333]

I have the urge to change and become a new person, sounds weird ik. I hate the way I speak, I hate the way I sound, I hate how I spend my time and I just hate who I am. I want to get over myself, stop feeling so sorry, and just get over this part of my life. I want to come out of this a new person but I don't think I can make it. I have been trying for years and wish I could reset it.

has anyone done this or even tried to or even get what I'm saying LoL

 

[Life_and_Death]

has anyone done this or even tried to or even get what I'm saying

self awareness, honesty and dedication

you have to be self aware about what the 'problem' is.
honest about it, you cant be blowing it off, telling yourself its fine, ect
and a lot of dedication because you wont just change over night.

its taken me several years to get where i am. i still not where id like to be, but ive improved