Discussion How are yall planning to send out your final messages?

[asfergrggdas]

I don't have anyone so I mean this part is easy for me. Years ago I wanted a dog and I am so glad I did not ever get one as that would really prevent me from doing this.

 

[FailureCycle]

I'm gonna put a message in my friend group chat immediately after taking my SN. I can't schedule a message bc I'll need to delete my account and the app off my phone before I die. I've already sent two of them a document with my unofficial will. I'll probably leave a typed note for my parents laying next to me but I'm less concerned about that.

 

[raineen]

i have thought about this way too much,,, i both wanna leave a message but also dont know if that will cause more or less pain to those around me. but probably either scheduling a message, or scheduling an email. the first one would suck cause the apps would still have to be on my phone, and the second one i fear most people wouldn't even see. i have thought about sending letters though, it gives me plenty of time for them to receive it, i can also delete everything, and leaves me with no chance of going back because if i did, that would be an awkward situation :p

 

[Macedonian1987]

Never had a true friend nor anyone who really cared for me, so I won't be leaving any messages to anyone.
There was one very kind and caring person here on this forum, but she ctb in December 2025. I miss her, I hope she is in a better place.

 

[OnMyLast Legs]

I don't even care about notes or putting affairs in order anymore. Cognitive deconstruction ate all that.

 

[teethreceiver]

I wanted to post a very dramatic long winded note on my story at some point. nowadays I think a simple "goodbye, see you" text will suffice

 

[Asya]

I will schedule a note to be posted on my blog website as well as the posting of all of my private diary entries (with information that could affect others removed). Maybe I will give personal goodbyes to the two people I consider something resembling friends. I'm not sure about that. I may just include it in the website.

 

[thefarter]

no mssg honestly. im just gonna eff off into the woods and never return :3 yayyyy
i mean i'll scribble something and leave it beside me but im not gonna write an elaborate note or anything.
at least i don't plan to.
who knows what will happen in the moment though.

 

[lilb0wpeep]

"So sorry I wasn't able to find anyone to cover my shift. I'm not feeling well and won't be able to come in."
And maybe a note saying "NONE of my belongings, physical or financial, should go to my family."

 

[Asya]

"So sorry I wasn't able to find anyone to cover my shift. I'm not feeling well and won't be able to come in."
And maybe a note saying "NONE of my belongings, physical or financial, should go to my family."

Ah, right, I forgot about needing to do that as well. Is such a will legally binding? How does one find an executor for it?

 

[lilb0wpeep]

Ah, right, I forgot about needing to do that as well. Is such a will legally binding? How does one find an executor for it?

Honestly I don't think so. I doubt even if I tried to do find a way to do that in a legal sense my mother would still just take all my money and sell my belongings for more. For me the hope it that maybe it would be seen by someone else and they would up hold it. But mostly it's my way of saying "you deserve only loss and the lack of love that you have shared with me"… yes the sentiment may be mean but I'm not writing a note saying that says "it's lowkey your fault and I hate you for everything you have and have not done" though I could and it would be understandable.

 

[TheTwelthRootOfTwo]

I've thought about that before and I'm not sure if leaving a message or a note is a good idea.

Part of me thinks a message is the kind choice, so people aren't left wondering what happened or blaming themselves.

But another part of me thinks leaving words behind just gives people something to replay in their heads forever.

I don't know which is worse, so I've never really decided.

Yeah that's always been my dilemma. A part of me wants to explain, but a part of me says any attempted explanation would only lead to more questions than answers.

 

[scharlachrotsan]

i haven't decided to ctb yet, all of my previous "attempts" were fake to seek attention... if/when i do, i'll probably do something cliche like writing a note, sending some messages on discord saying goodbye, writing my passwords and emails so that nothing of mine becomes lost, then putting those in a place where my family members would know about it. then, and only then, would i go.
btw nice nyaan pfp!

 

[starstruckstarlight]

I have my notes placed in one of my drawers. After my death, whenever people go through my stuff, they'll find them. In my note to my family I have instructions on how to give the letters to my friends. I'm hoping the letter written to my online friend gets to him. He's the one I wrote the most for.

 

[theDunce]

I'm thinking no message. I don't know what I could say really. I feel bad about it all and at the same time I feel that I must do it. I guess I can leave passwords for investment information but that may be it. I wish it wasn't so, but it seems to be.