Honesty thread

[Faraway1990]

Why after reading you're responses anyone want to share on this thread? You're responses tantamount to "suck it up princess" or "it's okay things happen accept it move on" not showing any understanding or comprehension. I have reasons I'm ctb home and I've made my choice. I'm not a child. You should respect people's rights to choose even if you don't agree. Love to everyone here

 

[WideAwake]

You considered my suggestions for less than six minutes, which isn't thorough. You said earlier that your pride is something that gets in your way, and it seems to be doing that again. You're not coming across as "fairly capable"; you're coming across as obtuse (and rude).

You are correct. I considered you suggestions for a fraction of a minute, so it probably wasn't that thoroughly. But your premise was rife with inaccuracies and presumptions, so it was pretty hollow and not really worthy of thorough consideration, so I merely brushed it aside. Here's a suggestion for you. If you're just going to come to the thread I created and ignore the OP and just attack me personally, then how about just moving on to some other thread? Why not allow people to participate here if they choose without driveling all over other people's threads with your pompous self-righteous admonishments?

Why after reading you're responses anyone want to share on this thread? You're responses tantamount to "suck it up princess" or "it's okay things happen accept it move on" not showing any understanding or comprehension. I have reasons I'm ctb home and I've made my choice. I'm not a child. You should respect people's rights to choose even if you don't agree. Love to everyone here ❤

Then be brave and share them. You're here responding, so scroll up to the top and read the OP. Or move along if this doesn't interest you. But peeing all over other people's threads is rude.

 

[LMFAO FOCKERS]

Our responses have everything to do with the OP. They're just not the responses you want to "see".



P.S. I used see because you are not hearing or listening.

 

[Faraway1990]

I had an idea just now, and I thought I'd give it a try. I believe many of us are here because it's therapeutic to be around others who have lost their will to live. We feel like we're out of options, and so life has no meaning. We want to be heard and understood. For me, my biggest enemy is my ego and pride, and it keeps me from being totally honest with others, and I would think that's the same for others. I would like to know more about all of you, and I think others here would like to know as well. Tell us your story, what makes you suicidal specifically. But be 100% honest, and if you choose to reply, and someone asks you a question about yourself you must vow to be completely forthcoming an honest. That said, do not doxx yourself or relinquish your anonymity. I look forward to reading your responses.

Tell me where in here you tell us your going to act like mental health"professionals" most here have had to listen give the same generic advice and be totally dismissive. You've shown no understanding, comprehension or empathy I don't like it but I'm not trying to start a fight, I wish you all the best

 

[omoidarui]

'Tis better to have loved and lost ... You are not the only one in the world who has experienced heartbreak, friend. It is a natural part of life. If it were meant to be, you'd be together. Your destiny lies elsewhere, and you need to get a grip, understand that, and move on.

have you considered being a psychiatrist? you would be good at it - you say all the wrong things.

 

[WideAwake]

Our responses have everything to do with the OP. They're just not the responses you want to "see".



P.S. I used see because you are not hearing or listening.

I'm aware that you don't like me. You've made that clear from the beginning and in every single response you've ever made to me. And I have never initiated any engagements with you ever, nor not once initiated any personal attacks against you. I get it. You think I'm some sort of pro-life troll, and you want to make it clear you're too smart to be fooled. You've made that clear as well. The only problem is that with every post you make you look more and more foolish in my eyes because I am not what you imagine me to be. You're clever, but you're really not that bright. So how about moving along and going off to bother someone else? I could just simply click the ignore button on you, I suppose, is that what you're after? Are you really going to force me to do that? I suppose you want to leave me with no alternative. So I will do it if you wish. There's nothing productive coming from our dialogue, and my presence is an obvious trigger for your frail mental state, and I don't wish to send you over the edge. I really couldn't live with myself if I thought I was the cause for you putting the pistol in your mouth, so perhaps we can just part ways right now, or one of us click ignore on the other? How does it sound?

Tell me where in here you tell us your going to act like mental health"professionals" most here have had to listen give the same generic advice and be totally dismissive. You've shown no understanding, comprehension or empathy I don't like it but I'm not trying to start a fight, I wish you all the best ❤

Well perhaps you could show us how to do those things? Your posts are passive aggressive in my opinion. You begin each one with a personal attack against me and then end up wishing me well.

have you considered being a psychiatrist? you would be good at it - you say all the wrong things.

Tell me what you would have said.

 

[Faraway1990]

Nothing passive I straight up don't like the way you respond to others but I am not attacking you lol I'm commenting on what I'm seeing. I wish all the best to everyone I hold no hate for anyone I'm just honest. I don't need to justify myself so I'm going away now,

 

[LMFAO FOCKERS]

You're clever, but you're really not that bright.

So I refute your views, responses and motives. Never have I attacked you personally. But you come to a suicide site and personally insult me? Then everyone is supposed to come over here o post on your awesome "motivational" thread and get all their problems solved by exhibiting such behaviors???

LMFAO!!! Thankfully a lot of high accomplishments on my wall that tell me otherwise. I don't need you to build me up.

I could just simply click the ignore button on you,...

Great ignore me!

...my presence is an obvious trigger for your frail mental state, and I don't wish to send you over the edge. I really couldn't live with myself if I thought I was the cause for you putting the pistol in your mouth, ...

Oh wait...didn't you tell us in your other posts you were suicidal too?? Now you criticize my mental state as if you are so different?? Your true colors are showing....


Sweetie, you are not that important for me to even care. LMFAO...I am here to support my fellow posters. Toootles!!!

 

[WideAwake]

Nothing passive I straight up don't like the way you respond to others but I am not attacking you lol I'm commenting on what I'm seeing. I wish all the best to everyone I hold no hate for anyone I'm just honest. I don't need to justify myself so I'm going away now,

Well why don't you be specific and tell me exactly what I've said that you didn't like? And then tell me what you would have said? That would be a little more helpful, don't you think?

So I refute your views, responses and motives. Never have I attacked you personally. But you come to a suicide site and personally insult me? Then everyone is supposed to come over here o post on your awesome "motivational" thread and get all their problems solved by exhibiting such behaviors???

LMFAO!!! Thankfully a lot of high accomplishments on my wall that tell me otherwise. I don't need you to build me up.





Great ignore me!





Sweetie, you are not that important for me to even care. LMFAO...I am here to support my fellow posters. Toootles!!!

That's an awful lot of typing you've done the past few days to not care. If this is you not caring, I would really hate to see you when you actually do care. I hope you can keep to your word and not respond to me further in the forums, but somehow I suspect you're being insincere, which would not be surprising considering the intellectual dishonesty and feigned outrage you've consistently spewed. Bye!

 

[omoidarui]

Tell me what you would have said.

absolutely nothing to that nature. we're not here to pretend our suffering is a choice or that being told to "get a grip" by people online will make anything better.

 

[WideAwake]

absolutely nothing to that nature. we're not here to pretend our suffering is a choice or that being told to "get a grip" by people online will make anything better.

The feigned outrage around here is silly. Ifor a figure of speech offends your sensibilities to the extent it makes you want to CTB more than you already do, then that's natural selection at work. Seriously, cut the shit.

 

[omoidarui]

The feigned outrage around here is silly. Ifor a figure of speech offends your sensibilities to the extent it makes you want to CTB more than you already do, then that's natural selection at work. Seriously, cut the shit.

i'm not offended. the only benefit of having at least one person around here parroting the same tired cliche of "it gets better!" is that we're experiencing negative press and so posts like yours are a testimony to the fact that we are, after all not pro-suicide. other than that, you're really not helping

 

[WideAwake]

i'm not offended. the only benefit of having at least one person around here parroting the same tired cliche of "it gets better!" is that we're experiencing negative press and so posts like yours are a testimony to the fact that we are, after all not pro-suicide. other than that, you're really not helping

Should I research methods of how to properly hang oneself? Or how to use the night night method properly, or where to buy cyanide pills? Would that be helpful? Should I wish good luck to those that say they're going to kill themselves tomorrow? Would that be more helpful? Would that demonstrate better how anti suicide we all are around here? I mean there is no shortage of suicide enabling information here, but I could always contribute more if that's what's needed to show how anti suicide we are.

 

[omoidarui]

Should I research methods of how to properly hang oneself? Or how to use the night night method properly, or where to buy cyanide pills? Would that be helpful? Should I wish good luck to those that say they're going to kill themselves tomorrow? Would that be more helpful? Would that demonstrate better how anti suicide we all are around here? I mean there is no shortage of suicide enabling information here, but I could always contribute more if that's what's needed to show how anti suicide we are.

this isn't an anti-suicide forum. pro-choice/Right to Die in simplistic terms means both options of living and dying should be available. being equipped with the knowledge of how to end one's life peacefully can be a great comfort to many, one that can ironically improve quality of life (something the 'pro-life' movement don't understand apparently).

 

[WinterIsComing]

Should I research methods of how to properly hang oneself? Or how to use the night night method properly, or where to buy cyanide pills? Would that be helpful? Should I wish good luck to those that say they're going to kill themselves tomorrow? Would that be more helpful? Would that demonstrate better how anti suicide we all are around here? I mean there is no shortage of suicide enabling information here, but I could always contribute more if that's what's needed to show how anti suicide we are.

There is another suicide forum that likes those advices but is pro life.

 

[WideAwake]

this isn't an anti-suicide forum. pro-choice/Right to Die in simplistic terms means both options of living and dying should be available. being equipped with the knowledge of how to end one's life peacefully can be a great comfort to many, one that can ironically improve quality of life (something the 'pro-life' movement don't understand apparently).

I'm trying to understand what you meant when you said I'm not helping. Are you helping, and if so, how? Rationalizing enabling suicide isn't very helpful IMO. Outsiders looking in would see this forum exactly in that way. Let me ask you a,question, if your child or significant other told you that they wanted to kill themselves would you direct them to this forum?

 

[Faraway1990]

I'm trying to understand what you meant when you said I'm not helping. Are you helping, and if so, how? Rationalizing enabling suicide isn't very helpful IMO. Outsiders looking in would see this forum exactly in that way. Let me ask you a,question, if your child or significant other told you that they wanted to kill themselves would you direct them to this forum?

If I had a loved one that commited suicide and I found out they had ties to this website I would understand they felt they had no choice and that the information found here helped make there chosen way to leave this reality easier. Honestly you'd probably be happy to hear someone survived a suicide attempt although their vegetable even though the person is suffering every minute. People should have a choice. There's lots of encouragement here for people to try at life again and the information on this site help's make sure those who are going to move on in their terms can do so without unnecessary suffering. As someone who's experienced suicide in my family. I'm pro choice as is this website not pro suicide, what right does anyone have to tell anyone how or when to end their Life.

 

[Mn1245]

I'm trying to understand what you meant when you said I'm not helping. Are you helping, and if so, how? Rationalizing enabling suicide isn't very helpful IMO. Outsiders looking in would see this forum exactly in that way. Let me ask you a,question, if your child or significant other told you that they wanted to kill themselves would you direct them to this forum?

Most people on this forum have already tried talking to family or friends about their problems, and are here because they prefer talking to strangers who are going through the same things, and don't offer some prep talk of "life is worth living no matter how painful" or "good thighs will happen if you try hard", etc. It's fine to continue your pro-life stance and prep-talk but don't be surprised if people ignore you. You're not even suicidal so you don't understand.

 

[TiredHorse]

I would remind the majority of users participating in this thread of the old truism warning people not to wrestle with a pig: you end up filthy and the pig enjoys it.

That said, if y'all are enjoying your mud wrestling, don't let me stop you.

 

[Faraway1990]

I would remind the majority of users participating in this thread of the old truism warning people not to wrestle with a pig: you end up filthy and the pig enjoys it.

That said, if y'all are enjoying your mud wrestling, don't let me stop you.

Lol I keep trying to leave but something is said and I just get pulled back in lol

 

[Egddios]

Sorry to hear that. Ah to be 29 again, what I wouldn't give. I know positivity is frowned upon around here, but from my perspective, you've got a lot going for you. You're young, you're single, it sounds like at least physically you're healthy. You just sound a depressed. I completely agree, though, the rat race is a bunch of bullshit, I hate it as much as the next guy. But there are 7 billion people on the plantet, and more than half are female. I bet you a steak dinner if you held out that you'd find someone else. Again, you're right, it's your choice if you want to off yourself, but hey, it's just my opinion. What kind of work do you do if you don't mind me asking?

What's wrong with group exercises? Some people like to vent, and most people's favorite topic is themselves. You chase me around the forums enough, perhaps you'd like to share your story with me? I won't judge, and I bet it would make you feel better to tell me why you're so angry.

Thank you. I prefer this one. If no one responds, that's okay. If only a few are willing to share, that's okay, too. Sometimes less is more, and I'd prefer to talk with people who want to talk with me.

Sorry to hear that. Ah to be 29 again, what I wouldn't give. I know positivity is frowned upon around here, but from my perspective, you've got a lot going for you. You're young, you're single, it sounds like at least physically you're healthy. You just sound a depressed. I completely agree, though, the rat race is a bunch of bullshit, I hate it as much as the next guy. But there are 7 billion people on the plantet, and more than half are female. I bet you a steak dinner if you held out that you'd find someone else. Again, you're right, it's your choice if you want to off yourself, but hey, it's just my opinion. What kind of work do you do if you don't mind me asking?

What's wrong with group exercises? Some people like to vent, and most people's favorite topic is themselves. You chase me around the forums enough, perhaps you'd like to share your story with me? I won't judge, and I bet it would make you feel better to tell me why you're so angry.

Thank you. I prefer this one. If no one responds, that's okay. If only a few are willing to share, that's okay, too. Sometimes less is more, and I'd prefer to talk with people who want to talk with me.

"You just sound depressed."

Just?

I find this statement so off-putting. Just depressed. Yeah, like it's no big deal.

In fact, the entire comment was sort of deluded. "Ah, to be 29 again..." and "I know positivity is frowned upon around here..."

No, positivity isn't frowned upon. We keep it fucking real in here. Sincerity is appreciated, and from your post/comment, you seem to not understand the purpose of this site and how our community works.

 

[WideAwake]

Most people on this forum have already tried talking to family or friends about their problems, and are here because they prefer talking to strangers who are going through the same things, and don't offer some prep talk of "life is worth living no matter how painful" or "good thighs will happen if you try hard", etc. It's fine to continue your pro-life stance and prep-talk but don't be surprised if people ignore you. You're not even suicidal so you don't understand.

The same way you ignored me eh? The same way this thread is now on page 2 with minimal effort on my part? Who are you to say whether or not I'm suicidal, how do you know what I'm thinking? And don't think that I didn't notice that you failed to answer my questions, as did all the subsequent trolls who can't help themselves from responding here.

No, positivity isn't frowned upon. We keep it fucking real in here. Sincerity is appreciated, and from your post/comment, you seem to not understand the purpose of this site and how our community works.

Yes, positivity with regards to a pro life stance is dammed well frowned upon here. To believe otherwise is delusional. Just read the posts of the trolls in this thread. They have come here and drivelled all over my thread for committing the unforgivable sin of wanting to help people find a reason to live. Why? Misery loves company as long as the company is miserable too.