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awfullife

awfullife

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Nov 16, 2019
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This is something I have vast experience with. I don't know if it is a contributing factor to CTB but I do know that 90% of the time it is very unsatisfactory. Do you guys also have experience hiring professionals?
 
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greebo6

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Sep 11, 2020
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It probably is unsatisfactory but.....
If I had the money I would be tempted to take a chance on that and hire one for some fun just before I left this world forever.
Nothing to lose at that point.
But I haven't got the money so its not going to happen.
(I do however have the rope and my 'date' with that will...)
 
KleinerWolf

KleinerWolf

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Apr 30, 2020
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It probably is unsatisfactory but.....
If I had the money I would be tempted to take a chance on that and hire one for some fun just before I left this world forever.
Nothing to lose at that point.
But I haven't got the money so its not going to happen.
(I do however have the rope and my 'date' with that will...)
Sex is over-rated imo,
Especially with someone you are not emotionally connected,
At least imo..
 
Dr Iron Arc

Dr Iron Arc

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Feb 10, 2020
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My utter lack of ever having any relationship plus my tendency to romanticize everything means that if I were to ever purchase the services of an escort I'd inevitably become too attached. If I ordered an escort's services just to see what it's like I'd probably still fall in love like some kind of stupid idiot and become the worst kind of client.

There's no real fixing that with the way my personality type seems to be driven so I'd rather not get one at all though I don't see anything wrong with the profession itself. Although... many of them are way too expensive for me.
 
Butterflyshadow

Butterflyshadow

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Nov 19, 2020
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My utter lack of ever having any relationship plus my tendency to romanticize everything means that if I were to ever purchase the services of an escort I'd inevitably become too attached. If I ordered an escort's services just to see what it's like I'd probably still fall in love like some kind of stupid idiot and become the worst kind of client.

There's no real fixing that with the way my personality type seems to be driven so I'd rather not get one at all though I don't see anything wrong with the profession itself. Although... many of them are way too expensive for me.
I wonder how to romanticize with a person who doesn't give a damn 99.9% of the time.
who does that job for who knows what sad reasons, which probabily sucks her up and she would never do that job if not precisely being forced for money. lol
 
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KleinerWolf

KleinerWolf

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I wonder how to romanticize with a person who doesn't give a damn 99.9% of the time.
who does that job for who knows what sad reasons, which probabily sucks her up and she would never do that job if not precisely being forced for money. lol
Easy money for them.
But I speculate it is possible for them to be prone to mental health issues or substance abuse etc. as a result of working in their profession.
 
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Dr Iron Arc

Dr Iron Arc

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Feb 10, 2020
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I wonder how to romanticize with a person who doesn't give a damn 99.9% of the time.
who does that job for who knows what sad reasons, which probabily sucks her up and she would never do that job if not precisely being forced for money. lol
Delusion is a powerful tool that my mind will weaponize for whatever reason. Point is I'd be guaranteed to catch feelings for someone who's equally guaranteed to not be able to have them for me at all.
 
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Sherri

Sherri

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Sep 28, 2020
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I've seen a documentary about successful women, who hired male escorts because they wanted no attachments bin their lives. So they paid for some company once in a while. White collar type of women in New York. Quite an eye opener.
 
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aeon

aeon

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Dec 6, 2020
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Yes, I've done that a few many times in my life. I think it depends mostly on what you're lookin for. If you're looking for pure mind-numbing sex or some specialities then an escort will definitely do the job, now if you're looking for something more, like a deeper kind of connection then you'll have to look somewhere else.

If you are a decent guy and have some money to spare then you'll easily find some regular girl ready to give you what you want, and I am not talking about being a sugar daddy spending thousands $ to keep his 20 years old happy, I am talking about a win win agreement between an average man and an average woman.
 
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LunarPyotr

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Jul 4, 2020
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After so many months/years of feeling lonley, I woud pay a sexworker/escort just to cuddle with her.

I'm not asexual or something but I have my standars and would never pay for se* (or even for free) without having some sort of relationship with that person.
 
Donk

Donk

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Jan 3, 2020
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I'm curious as to what it's like hiring an escort for sex. My opinion of the topic has changed as I got older. Sometimes people just want sex with no strings attach. I don't see sex workers in a derogatory way. Some of them are quite intelligent and needs to make enough money to pay for their expenses ie education. Hey if you are gonna have sex anyways might as well get paid doing it. By the same token, a lot of them are lead down the wrong path and succumb to abuse and drug addiction.
 
awfullife

awfullife

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Nov 16, 2019
435
Yes, I've done that a few many times in my life. I think it depends mostly on what you're lookin for. If you're looking for pure mind-numbing sex or some specialities then an escort will definitely do the job, now if you're looking for something more, like a deeper kind of connection then you'll have to look somewhere else.

If you are a decent guy and have some money to spare then you'll easily find some regular girl ready to give you what you want, and I am not talking about being a sugar daddy spending thousands $ to keep his 20 years old happy, I am talking about a win win agreement between an average man and an average woman.
Where do you find one of these regular girls? Church? I've tried tinder and it doesn't work. I guess I could do Match or Plenty of fish....
 
aeon

aeon

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Dec 6, 2020
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Where do you find one of these regular girls? Church? I've tried tinder and it doesn't work. I guess I could do Match or Plenty of fish....

Via online classifieds websites, dating websites etc. In the EU it's pretty common, there are many free websites with an adult dating section and a separate one for sex workers. If you know how to read between the lines you should find someone corresponding to what you're looking for.
 
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awfullife

awfullife

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Nov 16, 2019
435
I am a professional:) Although I'm a sugar baby(& stripper) not an escort, but there are similarities, maybe that could be something to look into as an alternative?
ok I've done seeking arrangement in the past but that was when I had money..I mean I make enough money to pay a sugar baby 250 bucks a date or something but I drive a crappy car and I'm a truck driver so I kinda feel like a poser....Plus it's pretty pathetic to live at home with dad and paying for sex when you don't make that much money...I don't feel like a trucker is common profession to be a sugar daddy lol
 
Kikoo Loool

Kikoo Loool

Enlightened
Feb 25, 2019
1,128
This is something I have vast experience with. I don't know if it is a contributing factor to CTB but I do know that 90% of the time it is very unsatisfactory. Do you guys also have experience hiring professionals?
Yes,and I relate: very unsatisfactory most of the time.
I wanna do this but I'm afraid they'll laugh at me
There is no reason why they would do that.
 
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aeon

aeon

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Dec 6, 2020
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I am a professional:) Although I'm a sugar baby(& stripper) not an escort, but there are similarities, maybe that could be something to look into as an alternative?
haha But only sugardaddies can afford sugarbabies right :muah:
 
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