HELP!!!

[Maaizr]

This fucko is still waiting……

Hey fucko i dont actually care about your replies or looking thru your fucking posts to make some non point - im @ one of my 2 jobs just chillin on ss and wanted some quick laughs out of the thread sheeesh- yes this has turned into a punching bag exercise which you have brought upon yourself mostly with responses in the first place, the smartest move was to not play

but hey, it gets better ! have you tried meditation? like bro i thought you had no emotion at all, why reply to anything haha

 

[cambrai33]

Hey fucko i dont actually care about your replies or looking thru your fucking posts to make some non point - im @ one of my 2 jobs just chillin on ss and wanted some quick laughs out of the thread sheeesh- yes this has turned into a punching bag exercise which you have brought upon yourself mostly with responses in the first place, the smartest move was to not play

but hey, it gets better ! have you tried meditation? like bro i thought you had no emotion at all, why reply to anything haha

Thanks for the reply hope you are well

 

[Maaizr]

Thanks for the reply hope you are well

Thanks a buncharooni ! @ me in that goodbye thread

 

[cambrai33]

I simply responded to your dismissive claim that I'm just fine = that I'm lying about having C-PTSD & hypersexuality disorder due to CSA. I am not just fine just because I happen to use humor as a coping mechanism. You can't see what goes on inside my head. You seem to be under the impression that I'm some obnoxious, carefree, psychopathic fuck when I'm actually anything but that.

Who wrote this? Am I misquoting you?



What led you to conclude that I possibly get off on people dying? Do you realize how ugly that insinuation is? Did I call you a sicko? I never even called you a pro-lifer.



You said it by stating that you think I'm just fine. I posted it to get a reaction... You obviously think I'm prostituting my life story to score cheap sympathy points, that I'm on SS to collect fucking likes & win popularity contests. You so have my number! I spend my days worrying that @GenesAndEnvironment will never ctb & that he'll always have a higher reaction score than me. The fact that the fucker has 6(!) solutions is eating me alive, dude.



Who is preventing you from helping people? Who? Who is stopping people from leaving this forum & joining a suicide site where no frowning of any kind is allowed, calling a helpline or starting therapy? Are SS members being held hostage by a death-worshipping Svengali? JFC.

No you started the thread to get a reaction, simple as that and you know it, you were being dismissive of someone's admittedly cringy but honest offer to help or listen. Even though you had gone to town on her in another thread you decided to create a new one.

When I said you were fine it was in this context but of course you know that too, you were the one that drew the equation not me and as I wrote further on I was not dismissing the horrific things you have suffered and I never would, not for you or anyone else here.

So the solution for you is that I get off the site and help elsewhere? Do you really come here just to hear an echo?

Well I might get banned and you can of course report me but that's your call, I'm sure I won't be the last person to disagree with you

 

[viniboi9]

I love that you're abusing each other with the same abuse that lead you to suicide

 

[cambrai33]

I love that you're abusing each other with the same abuse that lead you to suicide

No random thread is leading me to suicide and I hope nobody else either, if I have distressed anyone then I apologise, however we all have a right to an opinion and if it helps people to vent on me then that's fine.

Ultimately I can put this down make a cup of tea, and grab a smoke outside (even against the hospital mental health team who said it wasn't good for me, yes they actually said that)

Thanks a buncharooni ! @ me in that goodbye thread

Sorry bro like I might totally have forgotten about you by then, I will put a post up to remind me perhaps

 

[Geturdone]

Wow. Sorry, I can't keep up with this thread mentally. I can't separate the hostility from the sardonic humor. I think I'm just going to quit following this post. However, I wish everyone the best. Pax

 

[Niko66]

I don't know the context beyond this thread, I am not saying this is how you have acted because I just haven't read your messages beyond this thread @cambrai33 but I'll say "help" can be extremely unhelpful, it has to be offered with tact and you have to learn to read the room, if the person you are trying to help expresses they don't want it then you also don't fight them about it, the amonut of people "trying to help" that end up getting defensive insulting/belittling their target audience showing someone wanting to feel better about themselves for their "kindness" rather than offering any at all.

Giving "reasons to live" can also just come off as invalidating the validity of your suffering, even most of the "supportive" people on the internet don't know how to tactfully handle people expressing anything related with suicide, I can understand how people would be already sick of receiving "help". Sometimes you just want to talk about suicide or your feelings without the eye rolling (and very alienating) reaction of how precious life is.

Again, not saying this has been you (though tbh you are clearly getting defensive here). Just giving another perspective, there's many reasons for frowning upon "help", especially with how careleesly and poorly it is usually handed out, that's not some sadistic desire for everyone to be miserable.

Ok I suck at putting things succintly so this is like my 3rd and hopefully last edit: At the end of the day if you like helping others, I don't think anyone's stopping you from trying to here, but it has to be gently offered, not aggressively pushed. Support when offered right is rarely unwelcome, if you feel it's causing friction for you then imho you should rethink the way and under which contexts you are offering it. And when someone strongly rejects it, it's better to leave it at that without further arguing for both your sake's.

 

[cambrai33]

I don't know the context beyond this thread, I am not saying this is how you have acted because I just haven't read your messages beyond this thread @cambrai33 but I'll say "help" can be extremely unhelpful, it has to be offered with tact and you have to learn to read the room, if the person you are trying to help expresses they don't want it then you also don't fight them about it, the amonut of people "trying to help" that end up getting defensive insulting/belittling their target audience showing someone wanting to feel better about themselves for their "kindness" rather than offering any at all.

Giving "reasons to live" can also just come off as invalidating the validity of your suffering, even most of the "supportive" people on the internet don't know how to tactfully handle people expressing anything related with suicide, I can understand how people would be already sick of receiving "help". Sometimes you just want to talk about suicide or your feelings without the eye rolling (and very alienating) reaction of how precious life is.

Thanks for a really reasoned post

The original post wasn't about me but someone else, who offered help if anyone wanted it

Yes I agree forcing help is pretty much pointless and someone pointed out earlier that I had 'likely' done that, though I'm not sure it's the case.

All I have really asked of people is have they tried to get help or have they told someone how they feel, some have done neither, I have never given the reasons to live or life is going to get better, the closest is hoping that tomorrow isn't as bad as today

I will still do it where I can but appreciate that It's unpopular with some

 

[eryu]

you were being dismissive of someone's admittedly cringy but honest offer to help or listen. Even though you had gone to town on her in another thread you decided to create a new one.

Can you link the thread? I am curious.

 

[motel rooms]

No you started the thread to get a reaction, simple as that and you know it

Yes, I started this thread to get a reaction - to make people LAUGH! You accused me of "playing the who has suffered the worst" game to get a reaction simply because I dared to mention why I'm an SS member...

you were being dismissive of someone's admittedly cringy but honest offer to help or listen. Even though you had gone to town on her in another thread you decided to create a new one.

What are you talking about? Did I mention that person in my post? Btw, that person said that this forum is pro-death rather than pro-choice & then cowardly deleted the thread they said it in. How admirable...

So the solution for you is that I get off the site and help elsewhere? Do you really come here just to hear an echo?

Well I might get banned and you can of course report me but that's your call, I'm sure I won't be the last person to disagree with you

Don't play a little martyr. I didn't tell you to leave the forum. I said that every SS member is free to leave it & seek help elsewhere. Nobody can stop you from helping people on here & that's a fact. Why would I report you? Who can get you banned for disagreeing with me?

 

[cambrai33]

Can you link the thread? I am curious.

She deleted it, we all lost a lot of reactions which was unsettling to say the least

 

[wanttogetonthebus]

We need more people like you in the world. Because it would be a happier place. But I wish with all my heart thar you didn't suffer.

 

[motel rooms]

@cambrai33 I hope that you understand that I'm not out to get you. It's not my goal to get anyone who doesn't break the forum rules banned. I don't persecute people. I don't even block them. I am sarcastic & I have a dark, twisted sense of humor, but I'm not evil...

 

[Deleted member 8975]

@hotelbeneathground

 

[cambrai33]

@cambrai33 I hope that you understand that I'm not out to get you. It's not my goal to get anyone who doesn't break the forum rules banned. I don't persecute people. I don't even block them. I am sarcastic & I have a dark, twisted sense of humor, but I'm not evil...

Thanks for saying that, I know you aren't and I'm not taking it to heart, I also mean nothing personal and again say I would never be dismissive of what you went through physically and continue to go through mentally.

We are both strong personalities and it's just been a point of friction that's all, I've had a cup of tea and all is well

 

[Untetheredwill]

I don't know the context beyond this thread, I am not saying this is how you have acted because I just haven't read your messages beyond this thread @cambrai33 but I'll say "help" can be extremely unhelpful, it has to be offered with tact and you have to learn to read the room, if the person you are trying to help expresses they don't want it then you also don't fight them about it, the amonut of people "trying to help" that end up getting defensive insulting/belittling their target audience showing someone wanting to feel better about themselves for their "kindness" rather than offering any at all.

Giving "reasons to live" can also just come off as invalidating the validity of your suffering, even most of the "supportive" people on the internet don't know how to tactfully handle people expressing anything related with suicide, I can understand how people would be already sick of receiving "help". Sometimes you just want to talk about suicide or your feelings without the eye rolling (and very alienating) reaction of how precious life is.

Again, not saying this has been you (though tbh you are clearly getting defensive here). Just giving another perspective, there's many reasons for frowning upon "help", especially with how careleesly and poorly it is usually handed out, that's not some sadistic desire for everyone to be miserable.

Ok I suck at putting things succintly so this is like my 3rd and hopefully last edit: At the end of the day if you like helping others, I don't think anyone's stopping you from trying to here, but it has to be gently offered, not aggressively pushed. Support when offered right is rarely unwelcome, if you feel it's causing friction for you then imho you should rethink the way and under which contexts you are offering it. And when someone strongly rejects it, it's better to leave it at that without further arguing for both your sake's.

I'd also say it's impossible to give specific advice to people who aren't friends or family.

 

[Death is beautiful]

When you die, you'll shit yourself and don't even think about dieting, it won't help!

 

[motel rooms]

LISTEN HERE: your body is not you! you think that it is you? why? because you gain sensory data from that location in space? it is not, let go. this is all a nasty trick. accept complete detachment and you will become enlightened and absolutely fulfilled. you are the universe, you are god. do not let them lie to you. suicide is letting them win.

I can't tell if you're being ironic or not, so I'm afraid to laugh

 

[KuriGohan&Kamehameha]

My ex boyfriend who (beware, sexual abuse imagery ahead) shoved ice cubes up my vagina while I plead with him that it was horribly painful and uncomfortable told me to try the carnivore diet for my chronic illnesses. The more flesh and blood I consume, the less traumatized and enfeebled I become, clearly.

 

[kurisutinabestgirl]

Hmmm, how about some theerapy ? You can spend a lot of money to have an idiot make you feel worse and pump you full of super cool drugs!
You may be fucked financially even more afterwards, and have permament damage from the drugs, but heyy, you're going to therapy! Everyone says on the internet that it must be good, so, you should be all fixed now right?
I don't want you to go killing yourself as that would hurt my ego, that my precious advice didn't work, and that I couldn't control someone's decisions about their own body !

 

[lostundead]

My ex boyfriend who (beware, sexual abuse imagery ahead) shoved ice cubes up my vagina while I plead with him that it was horribly painful and uncomfortable told me to try the carnivore diet for my chronic illnesses. The more flesh and blood I consume, the less traumatized and enfeebled I become, clearly.

Nah Kuri, you gotta go all the way and join an indiginous tribe in the amazonas for it to work. Your illnesses are just an expression of your body's rebellion against the modern decadent technological society bro. Just make sure you don't run into the cannibal ones.

 

[cambrai33]

Thanks a buncharooni ! @ me in that goodbye thread

Oh and thanks for the encouragement, makes things easier

 

[motel rooms]

With or without bubbles? Bubbles help the blues.

Fart bubble baths are where it's at.

 

[Someone123]

If a person expresses caring and a desire to help but they also express that they do support the right to choose I think that is a very good thing, since some people who ctb could have been helped. For others the choice to ctb is the right choice.

 

[MrOptions]

Get busy living, or get busy dying.
-Brooks Hadlen (Shawshank Redemption)

 

[Lost Magic]

Just think about all the cool movies you would miss like Indiana Jones 5 (with 80 year old Indy) or the new Flash movie (with Michael Keaton back as Batman). And get a Netflix account if you don't already have one. So many great shows coming out soon.

 

[BeansOfRequirement]

You said it by stating that you think I'm just fine. I posted it to get a reaction... You obviously think I'm prostituting my life story to score cheap sympathy points, that I'm on SS to collect fucking likes & win popularity contests. You so have my number! I spend my days worrying that @GenesAndEnvironment will never ctb & that he'll always have a higher reaction score than me. The fact that the fucker has 6(!) solutions is eating me alive, dude.

The NYT wants an interview with you.

 

[Pluto]

 

[Starryeyes]

Hello SS, this is an SOS!!!
I'm a poor little irrational impulsive crazy suicidal baby. Can some of the new members please save me by reciting some of their powerful life-saving clichés about how beautiful & precious my life is? I'm also more than open to being shamelessly guilt-tripped. Please save my crazy ass from my crazy ass!!!