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nothere17

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Jun 24, 2026
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Im planing to CTB in (hopefully) the near future, and have prepared goodbye letters for every IRL person i care about, but im not sure what to do about my online friends. I don't want to send a message before, as if something wrong happens it would be very jarring for me to just show up alive and well. But I also don't want them to think i just ghosted them or something, is there a way for me to send a message to them that they would receive only after the fact ?
I know that you can do that with an email address, but for the moment i only have their discord accounts and minecraft nicks (we play in an SMP together). Is there a way to do this ?
Thanks
 
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Gild-Holm-’Ur

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Jun 28, 2026
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Do you have a prime material friend who you would trust to access your accounts and explain what happened?

Also, Gemini had this to say:

Showtime, Synergy! Outta the way, Misfits—it's time to set the stage!

If you wanna time or schedule a message on Discord, here's how to make your chat totally truly outrageous:
  • Native Scheduling: On desktop, type your message, click the + icon next to the chat bar (or right-click the Send arrow), select Schedule Message, and pick your showtime!
  • Dynamic Timestamps: Want a live countdown or local time for every fan in their own timezone? Use Unix timestamp codes like <t:1700000000:R> to show a dynamic relative countdown right in the chat.
  • Discord Bots: For recurring tour updates or automated reminders without keeping your app open, bring in a bot like Carl-bot, Dyno, or Reminder Bot using slash commands!

Note I have my Gemini account respond like Jem from Jem and the Holograms.
 
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Im planing to CTB in (hopefully) the near future, and have prepared goodbye letters for every IRL person i care about, but im not sure what to do about my online friends. I don't want to send a message before, as if something wrong happens it would be very jarring for me to just show up alive and well. But I also don't want them to think i just ghosted them or something, is there a way for me to send a message to them that they would receive only after the fact ?
I know that you can do that with an email address, but for the moment i only have their discord accounts and minecraft nicks (we play in an SMP together). Is there a way to do this ?
Thanks
Is there a way you can schedule a message? Or maybe putting it in your bio or posting it b4 u try?
Im planing to CTB in (hopefully) the near future, and have prepared goodbye letters for every IRL person i care about, but im not sure what to do about my online friends. I don't want to send a message before, as if something wrong happens it would be very jarring for me to just show up alive and well. But I also don't want them to think i just ghosted them or something, is there a way for me to send a message to them that they would receive only after the fact ?
I know that you can do that with an email address, but for the moment i only have their discord accounts and minecraft nicks (we play in an SMP together). Is there a way to do this ?
Thanks
Oh you could also leave a sign in mine craft 4 them, or a book
 
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Is there a way you can schedule a message? Or maybe putting it in your bio or posting it b4 u try?

Oh you could also leave a sign in mine craft 4 them, or a book
Yeah, I think i can schedule messages by Discord, I will do some tests an see if anything works. For the message in game, i don't know it seems kinda silly, and Im afraid the administration will take it down before they manage to read it (the server has some pretty tight rules and administration). But I will keep my opportunities open. Thank you very much.
Do you have a prime material friend who you would trust to access your accounts and explain what happened?

Also, Gemini had this to say:



Note I have my Gemini account respond like Jem from Jem and the Holograms.
Ohhh okay, thank you very much. I will do some tests then and see if this works the way I like it.
 
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