Same here and sorry to hear about your situation. IRL no one initiates contact with me and the very few that respond (old acquaintances) only do so very briefly and only after I reached out first. To be honest, a friendship should be a two-way street, rather than one party or individual (almost) always initiating contact. It should be closer to either 50/50, 40/60, 60/40. Thus, in short, I've grown used to the feeling of being forever alone since the majority of my adolescence and adult life has been just that. I'm basically invisible to a lot of people IRL and the times people approach me are oftenly when they need something from me or wish to feel morally superior. Anyways, I digress and back to my point is that it sucks having no one wanting/willingly on their own to contact me. I feel as though my connections with people are rather flimsy at best and it's always been like that most of my life. I suppose if there is anything that comes from it is that when the day comes in which I CTB, there will be very few people who (genuinely) miss me except my family and even then, they will move on.