Have any of you hired a sex worker?

[LigottiSchopenhauer]

Hey, I'm posting this here because I feel I can be honest with you lovely folks. I have recently received a large sum of money in inheritance from a deceased grandparent, and I'm interested in hiring a sex worker online as a present to myself. If any of you have done this before, I would love to hear your opinions and advice. Thank you!

 

[hot]

Me personally, no. Why do you want to hire a sex worker ? Do you think you cant have sex with a normal person ?

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

I've never done it before and likely never will because I'd rather have the intimacy over the actual sex, which I don't believe would last very long due to it being my first time.

I'm pretty sure a sex worker would just wind up laughing at me anyway.

 

[Agon321]

Grandpa must be happy if he knows what you want to spend his money on ;).

Sorry, dark humor sticks with me.

Personally, I don't see anything wrong with it.
Our species has been doing this for a very long time.
It is not without reason that prostitution is called the oldest profession in the world.

I personally wouldn't want to because it would just make me feel uncomfortable, but you may be a different person.
It all depends on your feelings.

Of course, this isn't necessarily healthy.
But if you are reasonable, maybe nothing will happen to your body.
The psyche is a little more complicated.

Generally, I don't think sex with a prostitute is bad.
Just be reasonable.
Have fun.

 

[1MiserableGuy]

Invest in a house, gold, or land. They gain value as they get older.

 

[kilowatt]

Do you mean to make this a long term experience? I feel like with a modest amount of money to spend on yourself you could just pull a pretty chick, maybe form a bond with her.
Where you get the person from is all what matters, I've found a lot of street whores to be really kind and friendly meanwhile others are just crackheads, however online it's not as easy to spot a good deal. There's scams all over and potential danger lurking.

 

[ijustwishtodie]

No, and I never will

 

[theboy]

yes, many, and I regret it

 

[derpyderpins]

Me personally, no. Why do you want to hire a sex worker ? Do you think you cant have sex with a normal person ?

And if you thought that before, have you re-evaluated since obtaining a large inheritance?


Jokes aside I've considered it to try out some kinkier stuff. Always chickened out, figuring I'd get robbed or something because I didn't know how to find a reputable vender. There's not exactly google reviews lol.

 

[greebo6]

Yes , I think you should . It could bring you some welcome pleasure and enjoyment . So , why not? You won't be hurting anyone and there's no shame in it.
(But do respect the sex worker your with , they are people too )
Who cares if someone judges you negatively (that's if you let anyone know - and you don't have to) . Its your business what you do with the money - no one else's .
Enjoy the money , indulge in some fun frivolous stuff for yourself (you only live once) but use most of it wisely (and kindly.. a little to charity maybe ? ).

 

[gingermacie]

I've never but have looked into sex work as a curiosity. There are services such as Eros and Tryst that have directories of sex workers. Good luck!

 

[LigottiSchopenhauer]

Grandpa must be happy if he knows what you want to spend his money on ;).

Sorry, dark humor sticks with me.

No worries, this made me laugh

 

[1MiserableGuy]

Invest in a house, gold, or land. They gain value as they get older.

NEETs have no business laughing about investments

 

[Meteora]

Just make sure she isn't a victim of human trafficking and does it out of her free will. Maybe an escort or something.

 

[OCDsufferer]

Do not become a john. Why not go and pick up a woman normally? Surely that would be a better experience. Definitely not as cold, exploitative or as sad.

 

[sserafim]

NEETs have no business laughing about investments

I laughed at the "they gain value as they get older" part. I just thought it was funny

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

Do not become a john. Why not go and pick up a woman normally? Surely that would be a better experience. Definitely not as cold, exploitative or as sad.

But don't get too good at picking up women lest you become a pickup artist.

 

[Aloneandinpain]

Do not become a john. Why not go and pick up a woman normally? Surely that would be a better experience. Definitely not as cold, exploitative or as sad.

I agree it's far better to pick up a woman normally. That said, as someone who has completed failed at that for my entire life and who is very lonely/introverted/isolated then I understand how sex workers at least seem like a realistic/possible option. At this point, I'm not even sure if relationships are even real TBH.

 

[OCDsufferer]

I agree it's far better to pick up a woman normally. That said, as someone who has completed failed at that for my entire life and who is very lonely/introverted/isolated then I understand how sex workers at least seem like a realistic/possible option. At this point, I'm not even sure if relationships are even real TBH.

But I fail to understand how hiring a sex worker to get your rocks off can possibily be comparable to a relationship? Surely you won't pay her to roleplay a loving girlfriend or wife. You'll have cold sad sex and then that's it. It's just jacking off but you get to spend money and exploit a woman.

 

[whywere]

NO and never would. Just the thought of maybe, just maybe not only STDs BUT the monthly "gift" of child support draining my checking account for 18 years means that not even Viagra would work on me at 68 years old.

Walter

 

[BlendedHeart]

Yes, I have. Being touch starved for most of my life, I bit that bullet a few years ago. I've been "lucky" to have found a couple of very lovely workers which I've been compatible with, or at least they are very good at what they do and made me feel comfortable.

-We probably aren't in the same country, but I assume almost every place must have review sites for their online escorts. Check them.
-Be reasonable with your money. Do not blow a lot of it on a sex worker or escort.
-ALWAYS use protection. Yes, we are in a ctb forum, but unless you are deliberately looking to catch something annoying, always use protection.
-Some escorts have their own place, but preferably meet her at a hotel or a place where you are in control, and safe.
-These kinds of situations are hit-or-miss. You don't really know if you're gonna feel comfortable with that person. It's a risk.
-Be respectful, be clean. They are human beings too and don't have to tolerate bad habits just because you're paying them.

And most important:
-This is just a temporary solution. Do not fall in love. They are just being nice with you because you are paying them. Even I, being as lonely as I am, have understood that and never committed that kind of mistake.

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

And most important:
-This is just a temporary solution. Do not fall in love. They are just being nice with you because you are paying them. Even I, being as lonely as I am, have understood that and never committed that kind of mistake.

This is another good reason I'll never be able to use this option because there's no way I wouldn't fall in love since historically I've never been good at doing not falling in love with certain people no matter how hard I try.

 

[1MiserableGuy]

I laughed at the "they gain value as they get older" part. I just thought it was funny

Most things in life lose value with age, but those are three of the only things that actually gain. For that reason, buying either of them is one of the best long term financial decisions someone can make.

 

[BlendedHeart]

This is another good reason I'll never be able to use this option because there's no way I wouldn't fall in love since historically I've never been good at doing not falling in love with certain people no matter how hard I try.

I was afraid of that too. I have fallen in love with almost all of the female friends I've had. Which is why I found astonishing that it has never happened with escorts. Maybe something inside of my brain understands the situation and keeps me centered. I don't know, lol.

 

[Aloneandinpain]

But I fail to understand how hiring a sex worker to get your rocks off can possibily be comparable to a relationship? Surely you won't pay her to roleplay a loving girlfriend or wife. You'll have cold sad sex and then that's it. It's just jacking off but you get to spend money and exploit a woman.

I certainly wasn't recommending it, but it might stop someone killing thrmselves at least. Alternatively, a bad experience would almost certainly make them more depressed and suicidal.

 

[Forveleth]

Hell yeah. Go have yourself some fun. My partner and I have both partaken (separate and together) and we've had a good time.

I would get an escort. There are websites where escorts list themselves and you can deal with them directly. There are also review sites for said escorts, check those before you pick one. Remember that it's their job to show you a good time but that it's just that, their job. This is fun for hire not a date. Also, they are a real person just trying to make a living like the rest of us.

Be smart about it. If something feels fishy or off, don't do it. Hope you have a good time!

 

[Little_Suzy]

Not the good folks on SaSu watching granny's money! lol!


Hit the strip club—and make it rain on hot women.

 

[LigottiSchopenhauer]

But I fail to understand how hiring a sex worker to get your rocks off can possibily be comparable to a relationship? Surely you won't pay her to roleplay a loving girlfriend or wife. You'll have cold sad sex and then that's it. It's just jacking off but you get to spend money and exploit a woman.

I agree that's it's similar to masturbation. But I don't feel that it's exploitative. It's two consenting adults entering into a business transaction.

 

[whywere]

I agree that's it's similar to masturbation. But I don't feel that it's exploitative. It's two consenting adults entering into a business transaction.

100% agree with the business transaction part. At 68, I have all over the place been hit up by sex workers in so many different cities. Th prices that they wanted were NOT cheap and I always said no.

You are a very smart person and thank you for being a good friend.

Walter

 

[Meteora]

But I don't feel that it's exploitative. It's two consenting adults entering into a business transaction.

These women don't do it because they like to. Most have been abused sexually as children. Grew up in oversexed environment.
The only ones I think do it because they like it are the agency prostitutes who are well educated and don't come from a low social background.

I don't think having sex with someone who has no other way to get money cannot be satisfying.