Help Goodbye threat DYING TODAY

[MeowTheFlemishCat]

Bait title ~ I plan to die the 30th of November but how many of you would want me to leave a goodbye threat?

It seems rather pointless

 

[Praestat_Mori]

It's totally up 2 u whether you want to say "Goodbye" or not. You can start a poll, maybe you can still update your thread with a poll.

I hope u find peace.

 

[Amyend88]

Goodbye threat? I think you're mistaking threat for thread..

 

[Enlighten]

Bait title ~ I plan to die the 30th of November but how many of you would want me to leave a goodbye threat?

It seems rather pointless

Hey man, zo'n goodbye thread heeft geen zin. Ik hoop dat je ergens wat hoop in je leven kan vinden. Ik zou graag met je willen praten <3

 

[FuneralCry]

It's up to you, I don't think this is something for other people to decide.

 

[cheese.out]

Its totally up to you. If you feel comfortable updating us on how you feel and it makes you feel a bit calmer we will be there for you and support you. Wish you a peaceful journey

 

[sash]

Hi, I've seen you around but don't think we've interacted.
It is your choice. Which doesn't help you decide eh!
So personally I did want to do a goodbye thread, live detailed chat til I cant. Except the last person I was with on a live goodbye til their end after I thought no, not for me. Why?
I didnt on purpose do it, but I glanced occ at members/guests numbers during their end while posting. Quite shocked. Like I dunno, less than 20 posted on the thread, less than 10 in the few hrs b4 the end, quite a few watching then, cant remember numbers, then numbers had dropped at 10 mins b4 the scheduled 'end' there was 20ish members, 50 ish guests. At time of death, numbers were 2 thirds or less that. 30 mins later, 30ish members, 70 ish guests. They'd all come back after to see if it worked.
Lurkers, 1 third members, 2 thirds guests seems to be the apx average.
It felt icky during such an emotional personal moment that ppl only wanted to watch 2/3rds not members or logged out lurking then hordes came after to check, thats not caring.
When i am with a member in the last day/ few hours, I will post and be there for them with them if they ask not to be alone. Not lurk & await their passing.
If I did a goodbye thread, it would be with a private group, in a private way, no lurkers.
Hope that helps somehow :)


Ooh my 100th post!

 

[Myforevercharlie]

Hey man, zo'n goodbye thread heeft geen zin. Ik hoop dat je ergens wat hoop in je leven kan vinden. Ik zou graag met je willen praten <3

Niet in de suicide sectie!!!! Wat begreep je niet aan mijn mail van vorige week!

 

[chasm]

It's a good idea if you'd like to say goodbye, otherwise I wouldn't recommend it.

 

[ColdWeather]

Goodbye in case you did it.

 

[DoomValuer]

Goodbye in case you did it.

He/she hasn't btw

Also, I'll miss you when you do but good luck